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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality. I may talk with someone for a while before I see them. Usually I have already decided I like them which is why they send a picture.
Outside looks attract me first but it's not only a face or body shape. It can be how a person carries themselves, their confidence or if some seems happy and full of life and so many other things I suppose.
In fact ignore me and... What was the question?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality. You could be the best looking person ever, but if no personality what's the point. Looks fade "
And you could have the best personality and be a munter lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not both... Some people are stunning and nothing between their ears. Some are incredibly intelligent and not attractive to me. A nice blend of both and you've got Mr Adventure  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can be the most beautiful looking person in the world but a shitty personality can make you ugly. The same vice versa, you could have the best personality ever but if you have a face that only a mother could love I'm sorry, but my shallow ass would just make them my best friend in the friend zone.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both, a man can have all The looks in the world but a rubbish personality and I would not be interested or vice-versa great personality but may not have the looks I like. So most definitely both is required for me x |
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Both. In the forum's it's usually personalities that attract me initially. Meeting people in a club or if they send me a message it based on being attracted to them physically and then seeing if their personality matches x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both (luckily he has both, in abundance!) I met my ex on a modelling shoot, he was the cliché- tall, dark and handsome- but the longer we were together the more I realised he had the personality of a dead fish...exaggerating there, the fish would have been more exciting! Even his kinks were dull, and worse he was so selfish! All about what he wanted and fuck my needs.
So there has to be the two for them to appeal to me. You can be a babe but a twat, or be intellectually exciting and have a great sense of humour but don’t appeal physically x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both.
I need a mix of both for it to work.
I've done both... attractive but not personality = shit shag.
Buckets of personality but not attractive = shit shag.
It's now got to be a mix of both or it's no shag  |
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Ideally a combination of both but if I really had to choose , for anything long term , in real life, it would have to be personality.
If I've got nothing in common with someone or there's no spark then it's got no potential. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality for me....tend to find the beautiful people have the personality of a house brick"
Very true. But it’s worth searching for the perfect combo of both. It’s out there you just have to be patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both.
I need a mix of both for it to work.
I've done both... attractive but not personality = shit shag.
Buckets of personality but not attractive = shit shag.
It's now got to be a mix of both or it's no shag "
Couldn’t have put it better myself  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Looks are kinda important for the initial attraction on here. But if we are unable to have a nice conversation as well then that's a no go. So basically as others have said it's a nice ballance of both.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality for me....tend to find the beautiful people have the personality of a house brick"
Phew. Relieved I've not met you as I'd be wondering whether I was a munter with a great personality or a beauty as interesting as a brick!!! Nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not on fab to find a life partner, so def all about attraction for me.... I know it's a little shallow, If it was a different platform, my answer would be different |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think that appearance is what gets my attention and makes me want to find out about his personality. If either is off...I'd not go there, its a fine balance isnt it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Looks draw me in and personality keeps me interested 
I have neither.. I'm swimming against the tide constantly
We all have looks, don't we?! "
yes we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You gotta love a personality.
Being 'good looking' doesn't mean the sex is good, but it a mind is stimulated you're already part way there.
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Exactly! I always say stimulate my mind and my body may follow...to ladies only nowadays, but you get my drift...the brain is the biggest sex organ we have and so many just focus on the genitals- big mistake x Viv x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You gotta love a personality.
Being 'good looking' doesn't mean the sex is good, but it a mind is stimulated you're already part way there.
Exactly! I always say stimulate my mind and my body may follow...to ladies only nowadays, but you get my drift...the brain is the biggest sex organ we have and so many just focus on the genitals- big mistake x Viv x "
Although I’m greedy and want looks too, haha xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You gotta love a personality.
Being 'good looking' doesn't mean the sex is good, but it a mind is stimulated you're already part way there.
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Not everyone has to be classically good looking, to be attractive... A face I like is extremely important but what I like can differ dramatically... What most consider Good looking isn't always what works for me. Yet what I like, I consider, good looking... Oh, I know what I mean  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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"You gotta love a personality.
Being 'good looking' doesn't mean the sex is good, but it a mind is stimulated you're already part way there.
Exactly! I always say stimulate my mind and my body may follow...to ladies only nowadays, but you get my drift...the brain is the biggest sex organ we have and so many just focus on the genitals- big mistake x Viv x "
You should know me well enough by now, that my mind works in mysterious ways. Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You gotta love a personality.
Being 'good looking' doesn't mean the sex is good, but it a mind is stimulated you're already part way there.
Exactly! I always say stimulate my mind and my body may follow...to ladies only nowadays, but you get my drift...the brain is the biggest sex organ we have and so many just focus on the genitals- big mistake x Viv x
You should know me well enough by now, that my mind works in mysterious ways. Lol"
Lol, mysterious means never boring and that’s a wonderful gift to have xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that 
It’s all good your lucky to have both "
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you  "
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement "
I like her for her personality.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement
I like her for her personality. "
She is awesome right  |
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"Personality. You could be the best looking person ever, but if no personality what's the point. Looks fade "
Speaking as one who's looks have definitely faded(and they weren't that good in the first place) thank heavens for those that are even willing to take a chance on personality?
Thank you ladies!   |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement
I like her for her personality.
She is awesome right "
She definitely has a few plus points. |
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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago
STOKE ON TRENT |
"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement
I like her for her personality.
She is awesome right
She definitely has a few plus points. "
Thanks |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
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It's definitely got to be a blend of both, although I have found that when somebody has a good personality looks can start to appeal more and more to me, the more I like what's going on inside. (And, vice versa) |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"They gotta have a personality
Really I haven't thought about that
It’s all good your lucky to have both
Well I can say the same for you stunning lady
Thank you
I'm pretty sure that many dudes will reinforce my statement
I like her for her personality.
She is awesome right
She definitely has a few plus points. "
Thanks you 2  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Both.A personality is a must but I also must fancy that person and we all fancy different types and looks so they must be my type and someone I'm attracted too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If personality is compatible.. looks you warm up to I think. You find the person you like and learn to love little imperfections. Delight yourself in the details you are attracted to because their persona wins you over and over again. Every hour and every day.
But yeah as majority said it's about finding a happy medium of both which works for you. |
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Definitely personality, if you don’t click, not on the same wavelength it really doesn’t matter if your good looking.
I need that mental stimulation that awakens all the senses.
Sometimes it’s a very quick ‘oh yes’ or it can be something that manifests itself over time
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality definitely, looks is always an added bonus, obviously can be attracted to someone at first because of looks but if the personality doesn’t match its a no go, personality wins at the end of the day |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Curious
What does it for you ? Looks or personality?
Prefer personality myself but curious as to what others think !"
Defo a good body and big tits/cock |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most Definately has to be a combination of both. They both have to be there or I'm not interested. Mental and raw stimulation comes through a combination of ways |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most Definately has to be a combination of both. They both have to be there or I'm not interested. Mental and raw stimulation comes through a combination of ways "
I’m mental |
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"Both. Someone’s personality could be amazing, but if I’m not physically attracted to them, it’s not going to work. "
I can save valuable time by having an obnoxious personality as well as being ugly |
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On fab it's looks first every time. As long as we get along superficially it's fine. You can't tell someone's true personality in the short time most fab encounters take anyway. You need to know someone for ages to know them well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Most Definately has to be a combination of both. They both have to be there or I'm not interested. Mental and raw stimulation comes through a combination of ways
I’m mental "
Well looks like you're perfect then |
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