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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dowa distance make it easier for the ladies of fab to flirt with men and then does it become a problem as you then wanna meet but are so far apart????
I have found people that live a long way away from me tend to flirt with me and I get connections with that I perhaps dont get with people local.
I wonder is that because the distance makes the ladies feel more comfortable and feel they wont be pressured to meet because of the distance so they free up a bit and chat more???
Do I have a good point or just talking nonsense as usual??? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You don’t usually talk nonsense.   "
So very kind but I do wonder if knowing someone is to far away for an immediate meet makes it easier for people ladies especially to chat and get to know people |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think perhaps it's a subconscious way of ensuring they don't experience something that's real, even though it might feel like it is"
Hmmmm interesting point |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think you hit it right on the nail there. To be honest most of my chats are with people that are nowhere near me.
So maybe your theory is right "
Yep though I have made some friends that are local and had a couple of meets I have made many friends that live over 100 miles away and I have a real connection with one or 2 of them |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I don't think it is easier if I'm honest. I chat to some people who are farther away but I know the chances of us meeting are slim to none. So I don't tend to flirt a lot with them. But I do consider some who I chat to be friends.
I tend to keep the more flirty chats for people I do meet and who live closer to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve no real issue with distance, would be easier if the person was closer but if you get on well chatting and feel a connection of sorts forming with someone then it’s worth a bit of travel imo. Plus I like a weekend away 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dowa distance make it easier for the ladies of fab to flirt with men and then does it become a problem as you then wanna meet but are so far apart????
I have found people that live a long way away from me tend to flirt with me and I get connections with that I perhaps dont get with people local.
I wonder is that because the distance makes the ladies feel more comfortable and feel they wont be pressured to meet because of the distance so they free up a bit and chat more???
Do I have a good point or just talking nonsense as usual???"
I think you have a good point. I love flirting but if its local I tend to be careful as I do get asked to meet alot more and ferl pressured. Flirting at a distance is great but on the down side I then get frustrated and wish it was possible to meet lol |
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Nah I'd travel for the right people and I have travelled 3.5 hours before. I travel for work a lot normally too and it makes doing so a little less depressing when you can meet a fab friend while you're there . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Dowa distance make it easier for the ladies of fab to flirt with men and then does it become a problem as you then wanna meet but are so far apart????
I have found people that live a long way away from me tend to flirt with me and I get connections with that I perhaps dont get with people local.
I wonder is that because the distance makes the ladies feel more comfortable and feel they wont be pressured to meet because of the distance so they free up a bit and chat more???
Do I have a good point or just talking nonsense as usual???
I think you have a good point. I love flirting but if its local I tend to be careful as I do get asked to meet alot more and ferl pressured. Flirting at a distance is great but on the down side I then get frustrated and wish it was possible to meet lol"
this is what I mean |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think some guys need to be able to tell the difference between a friendly flirt and actually wanting to be fucked.
I have a flirt and get flirted with regular from some folk on here but we both know there's very little chance of a meet and that it's just a bit of fun.
There are others who I chat/flirt with regular and given the right circumstances and I'd like to think there would be plenty fucking going on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think some guys need to be able to tell the difference between a friendly flirt and actually wanting to be fucked.
I have a flirt and get flirted with regular from some folk on here but we both know there's very little chance of a meet and that it's just a bit of fun.
There are others who I chat/flirt with regular and given the right circumstances and I'd like to think there would be plenty fucking going on."
Oh all of this! I love a bit of a flirt and tease at the moment, but I rarely engage because the majority of guys can't or won't tell the difference.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think some guys need to be able to tell the difference between a friendly flirt and actually wanting to be fucked.
I have a flirt and get flirted with regular from some folk on here but we both know there's very little chance of a meet and that it's just a bit of fun.
There are others who I chat/flirt with regular and given the right circumstances and I'd like to think there would be plenty fucking going on.
Oh all of this! I love a bit of a flirt and tease at the moment, but I rarely engage because the majority of guys can't or won't tell the difference.
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I'd imagine there is alot of this that goes on also and that's what the forums and private messages I think help sort out I flirt like made on the forums and it's nice to be flirted back with then in a private message you can chat and find out if it's just harmless flirting or an actual attraction with out embarrassing people in public |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think some guys need to be able to tell the difference between a friendly flirt and actually wanting to be fucked.
I have a flirt and get flirted with regular from some folk on here but we both know there's very little chance of a meet and that it's just a bit of fun.
There are others who I chat/flirt with regular and given the right circumstances and I'd like to think there would be plenty fucking going on.
Oh all of this! I love a bit of a flirt and tease at the moment, but I rarely engage because the majority of guys can't or won't tell the difference.
I'd imagine there is alot of this that goes on also and that's what the forums and private messages I think help sort out I flirt like made on the forums and it's nice to be flirted back with then in a private message you can chat and find out if it's just harmless flirting or an actual attraction with out embarrassing people in public"
But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet."
Agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think some guys need to be able to tell the difference between a friendly flirt and actually wanting to be fucked.
I have a flirt and get flirted with regular from some folk on here but we both know there's very little chance of a meet and that it's just a bit of fun.
There are others who I chat/flirt with regular and given the right circumstances and I'd like to think there would be plenty fucking going on.
Oh all of this! I love a bit of a flirt and tease at the moment, but I rarely engage because the majority of guys can't or won't tell the difference.
I'd imagine there is alot of this that goes on also and that's what the forums and private messages I think help sort out I flirt like made on the forums and it's nice to be flirted back with then in a private message you can chat and find out if it's just harmless flirting or an actual attraction with out embarrassing people in public
But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet."
Agreed bants and thats why I mean by pm you can find these things out without embarrassing the other person |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this "
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"I don't generally chat with locals.
Distance is no issue for me if there's a connection."
Same, it’s very rare I talk to anyone within the M25.
Distance not an issue, you make it work if that’s what you both want
As for flirting, I’m very careful who I do this with as wouldn’t want to give over the wrong impression to anyone. It is very rarely conducted in the forum space, that’s reserved for friendly banter |
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?! "
She wants you bants lol |
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"Dowa distance make it easier for the ladies of fab to flirt with men and then does it become a problem as you then wanna meet but are so far apart????
I have found people that live a long way away from me tend to flirt with me and I get connections with that I perhaps dont get with people local.
I wonder is that because the distance makes the ladies feel more comfortable and feel they wont be pressured to meet because of the distance so they free up a bit and chat more???
Do I have a good point or just talking nonsense as usual???"
I don’t flirt full stop with random Fab men as I’m not a sex chat line! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol"
Usual haha.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha. "
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?! "
Thank you for illustrating the point so beautifully! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My motto is quality over quantity. I'm here to meet people I like and get on with and who share the same interests sexually and non sexually. If that means they're 30 miles away or 300 miles away I'll make the effort and chat with a view to meeting. I'm single and capable of travelling so for the right person I will. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve no real issue with distance, would be easier if the person was closer but if you get on well chatting and feel a connection of sorts forming with someone then it’s worth a bit of travel imo. Plus I like a weekend away
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I agree with this xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
Thank you for illustrating the point so beautifully! "
Haha...yeah this is a fine example of full on sexual flirting right here. You might as well come out and just ask me now. Feel free to include the word, "please" when asking! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
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Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud"
I don’t see him taking anyone right now WD  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud"
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you. |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you. "
Your only saying that now ya big flirt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
Your only saying that now ya big flirt "
You know I luvs ya!   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you. "
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once "
Ok...but no touchy feely! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once
Ok...but no touchy feely! "
I knew you would eventually share me |
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once
Ok...but no touchy feely!
I knew you would eventually share me "
No touching though! I wouldnt want to be shared! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once
Ok...but no touchy feely!
I knew you would eventually share me "
Well he is saying no touchy but I can handle it busty I'm sure I can keep my hands at a safe distance lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I actually live in London but I changed it on my profile because men get more keen when they think there's no chance of meeting me. They try and think of ways for us to be able to meet. Men always want what they can't have. |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
Doire Theas |
"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once
Ok...but no touchy feely!
I knew you would eventually share me
Well he is saying no touchy but I can handle it busty I'm sure I can keep my hands at a safe distance lol"
Il try to control myself WD it ain’t gona be easy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"But even in private chat, it could easily be just friendly banter and/or flirting. I wouldnt look too much into anything unless we actually arrange a meet.
Agree with this
That's twice you've agreed with me and you're fairly local.....you wanting pumped?!
She wants you bants lol
Usual haha.
Your a stud bants my boy go forth but dont multiply leave some for us bottom feeders lol
Busty tell him off he is taking all the women and leaving nothing for little old me the fecking stud
Aww I'm happy with busty, WD. I'll leave the rest for you.
I'm ok with that as long as I get to have at least 1 coffee and social only with busty before you take her away for ever I wanna see that smile in person at least once
Ok...but no touchy feely!
I knew you would eventually share me
Well he is saying no touchy but I can handle it busty I'm sure I can keep my hands at a safe distance lol
Il try to control myself WD it ain’t gona be easy "
Oh I'm sure you will be ok. Unless you mean control yourself by not teasing me and trying to tempt me into breaking bants no touchy rules. I promise I'll be a good boy lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Distance is just a number, if there’s a connection then distance is no object "
I agree but life is not always that simple for everyone for instance I have 5 young children and I'm a single dad so finding free time to travel 100s of miles is never easy |
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"Distance is just a number, if there’s a connection then distance is no object
I agree but life is not always that simple for everyone for instance I have 5 young children and I'm a single dad so finding free time to travel 100s of miles is never easy"
Yes individual circumstances cause there own challenges, luckily I have a grown up son but he’s flown the nest now, so my own circumstances allow me to travel freely |
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"Distance is just a number, if there’s a connection then distance is no object
I agree but life is not always that simple for everyone for instance I have 5 young children and I'm a single dad so finding free time to travel 100s of miles is never easy"
I'm in nearly the same boat mate I'm a single dad of 4 granted my kids do go to there mums witch does give me free time but my job is also a hectic one but sometimes you just have to make plans and jump in the deep end and hope for the best you never know something special may come of it |
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"Distance is just a number, if there’s a connection then distance is no object
I agree but life is not always that simple for everyone for instance I have 5 young children and I'm a single dad so finding free time to travel 100s of miles is never easy I'm in nearly the same boat mate I'm a single dad of 4 granted my kids do go to there mums witch does give me free time but my job is also a hectic one but sometimes you just have to make plans and jump in the deep end and hope for the best you never know something special may come of it "
That’s it, plan ahead.... it could be weeks or months away. If the other person can’t wait, they aren’t right for you and your circumstances
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"Distance means nothing to me if that connection is there then she is worth every mile
What a lucky lady she is  "
I am very lucky indeed to find him and even more so find such a strong connection between us |
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