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Do you take it personal
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I shout and swear and then go to my shed, close the door and cry myself into an oily rag. Then I emerge, drink my own weight in balsamic vinegar, and play Tetris |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo
Yeah and when I get blocked I cry wank for days "
You must be constantly cry wanking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Got to be grown up about it, no point taking it personal, but I also think it’s it’s your message that gets deleted people shouldn’t get personal or aggressive about it just move on. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo "
You’ve never messaged me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo
You’ve never messaged me "
I know.fliters wont let me lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, the profile is not the full me. But I can understand messages could get deleted, if I constantly got dick ics all day I might just bulk delete. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo
You’ve never messaged me
I know.fliters wont let me lol"
So why did you just say you messaged me?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo
You’ve never messaged me
I know.fliters wont let me lol"
Oh and if you disnt know what fishmo.stands for its fuck it shit happens move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo
You’ve never messaged me
I know.fliters wont let me lol
Oh and if you disnt know what fishmo.stands for its fuck it shit happens move on"
I knew, but thank you for the lingo lesson, cool dad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I dont get upset I've sent you loads of messages queenie and you ignor them all if is short some will like you some wont so fishmo
You’ve never messaged me
I know.fliters wont let me lol
So why did you just say you messaged me? "
Well I've tried to that's even worse lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course I take it personally, my book of orrible oiks won't fill it's self.
And those that read it but don't reply, well don't get me started there.
#only kidding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I shout and swear and then go to my shed, close the door and cry myself into an oily rag. Then I emerge, drink my own weight in balsamic vinegar, and play Tetris "
And now I’m ignored in forums. I think I’m going to need a lot more balsamic vinegar to get over this one |
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Prefer that to the ones who just leave unopened, whether they have read it or not. At least you know.
The sent and unread ones I just delete myself and remove the pics if the receiver has been relatively active since sending but not opened it.
Just move on ..... |
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Its very that id notice whether someone had read my message let alone deleted it, it wouldnt occur for me to look. Im not waiting on tenterhook for anyone to get back to me, if they do great, if they dont then i move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo"
Grown ups.
We sometimes feel a little bad just saying no though and try to let people down gently but that often results in people being arsey anyways  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not arsed in the slightest if it gets deleted.
I do put them on the block list though because there's no point in coming across someone who simply isn't interested again.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be fair I'm guessing woman get hundreds so I just take it as they have loads to read. Don't get me wrong when you have taken time to read a profile and then try not to just put the typical "hey hows you" and you give a really good message then I do think bloody hell that was a waste of time but I don't really take it personally. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair I'm guessing woman get hundreds so I just take it as they have loads to read. Don't get me wrong when you have taken time to read a profile and then try not to just put the typical "hey hows you" and you give a really good message then I do think bloody hell that was a waste of time but I don't really take it personally."
Yeap just part of been a dude on fab init |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not arsed in the slightest if it gets deleted.
I do put them on the block list though because there's no point in coming across someone who simply isn't interested again.
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But they just might not be looking at that specific time you message? They may do afterwards though? But you wouldn't know if you've blocked em. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not arsed in the slightest if it gets deleted.
I do put them on the block list though because there's no point in coming across someone who simply isn't interested again.
But they just might not be looking at that specific time you message? They may do afterwards though? But you wouldn't know if you've blocked em. "
Their problem not mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To be fair I'm guessing woman get hundreds so I just take it as they have loads to read. Don't get me wrong when you have taken time to read a profile and then try not to just put the typical "hey hows you" and you give a really good message then I do think bloody hell that was a waste of time but I don't really take it personally.
Yeap just part of been a dude on fab init"
Haha yeah definitely part of being a bloke on here I always try to make a message stand out |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Nah I don't take it personally, if some time-wasting, up herself, prima donna princess with an over-inflated ego and sense of self importance deletes my message, i just, you know, forget it"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be ok if queenie messages me but it wont happen 
It won’t now that you’re bitching and moaning about it "
Your filters wont allow it anyway and I had a very interesting and personal question I wanted to put to you but not in the forums  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It would be ok if queenie messages me but it wont happen
It won’t now that you’re bitching and moaning about it
Your filters wont allow it anyway and I had a very interesting and personal question I wanted to put to you but not in the forums "
Awww that’s so sad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be ok if queenie messages me but it wont happen
It won’t now that you’re bitching and moaning about it
Your filters wont allow it anyway and I had a very interesting and personal question I wanted to put to you but not in the forums
Awww that’s so sad"
You see in crying now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not gonna lie there is a little sting at first but then I get over it pretty quickly and add a private note to their profile so I don't try again months later. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People don’t owe me anything. Not even a response. And given the amount of messages people receive, when I do message them, I don’t expect them to reply.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never send a first message but reply to all messages and not very often a reply we send isn’t read for over a week so we pop them in hotlist and then block to try and save on wasting time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Had messaged read and unanswered on WhatsApp from people I’ve actually met or dated, but that’s more being ghosted. "
Who on this earth would ghost you  .
Either way they would need to give their head a shake. 10/10 for fitness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo"
As others have said all part of being on here...just roll with the punches and move on... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo"
It’s up to them really. Would be nice if they had read it, but that’s how it is, and we are all grown ups  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo
Yeah and when I get blocked I cry wank for days
You must be constantly cry wanking"
Constantly wanking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you can’t demand people to read or replay to messages, if they not interested they not interested!!
That’s why everyone’s got a diffrent preferences!l and likes! And if everyone kept it polite, then everyone will find what they looking for!
This is what I personally thinks xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If no pics on profile then we delete,if to far then we delete,its on our profile about these things so if they choose to ignore it then why should we answer them? "
Ok but that isn’t the question |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don’t send many messages and while having them deleted without a response is disappointing I don’t worry about it, makes getting a reply more exciting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Only really send messages if the person has winked just to be polite but sometimes no response back !!! Confused the life out us but hey hoo move on as we are all adults xx |
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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago
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"Only really send messages if the person has winked just to be polite but sometimes no response back !!! Confused the life out us but hey hoo move on as we are all adults xx"
This happened to me recently, wink received, I sent a polite message thanking them for the wink. No reply.
Hey ho mo problem.
Funny thing is, they've been back on my profile regularly since, but still no reply |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest doesn’t bother me if they don’t want to read your message then that’s up to them, what pisses me off is if you send a polite message and they send an abusive one back. Absolutely no need |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course I take it personally, my book of orrible oiks won't fill it's self.
And those that read it but don't reply, well don't get me started there.
#only kidding"
Haha like that cheeky post
Not bothered by basic things. Read/Unread, Ignore/Delete etc just carry on enjoying Fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone deletes your message without reading it?
Or are you a grown uo"
I just accept it as a no thanks, although I do tend to respond with a polite thanks but no thanks, I understand that females and couples tend to get inundated with endless messages and cock pics and therefore get a little bored replying to every single one so I do accept a message delete as a not for me thanks... |
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