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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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By Demm OP Find posts by Demm Man
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The UK, currently Hereford
I find it’s so difficult when looking at photos on here.
I try to be selective with my fabbing of them.
If I only fab a one or two, then it looks like I’m not interested but doing it out of politeness. However if I go mad and fab them all then I look like a Pervy stalker.
What are your thoughts on fabbing?
More or less? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nobody really cares who fabs their photos and how many they fab.
Most want the numbers or use pics as marketing material to get people into their profile.
Wouldn't worry about it |
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"Nobody really cares who fabs their photos and how many they fab.
Most want the numbers or use pics as marketing material to get people into their profile.
Wouldn't worry about it
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But you're saying that from the position of getting loads of FABs.
I get one or two a month (if I'm lucky). So get really excited...
...until I realise It's another bloke.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All fabs are appreciated, be it 1 pic or 20 and by anyone including males.
I take it as flattery that even a bloke fancies this old sod even though I'm not interested in men |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fab whatever you like. Fab pictures you just like the look of, I don’t think getting lots of fabs means someone likes me because if they liked me they’d wink me or message me. |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message? "
Well not hope for a message but a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
Well not hope for a message but a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss "
I have wondered this in the past. It would be a full time job for the women who receive thousands of fabs to acknowledge each one though. |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message? "
I occasionally get rude messages saying that as I don't acknowledge Fabs, they're going to unfab all of them because I'm so ungrateful 
... I don't look... |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
I occasionally get rude messages saying that as I don't acknowledge Fabs, they're going to unfab all of them because I'm so ungrateful
... I don't look..."
I
Blimey! I think men and women view fabs differently  |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
I occasionally get rude messages saying that as I don't acknowledge Fabs, they're going to unfab all of them because I'm so ungrateful
... I don't look...I
Blimey! I think men and women view fabs differently "
I'd probably think of them differently if I got less. But I think guys think that it'll get them noticed and some that I owe them a message from it. I don't owe anyone messages, and I get too many to even begin to contemplate it.
And fuck I'm not even all that in single female terms. |
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"It's nice to have photos fabbed but I am not likely to acknowledge them.
If the person fabbing them is interested in getting to know me, surely they would message."
Oh! I once got a lengthy diatribe about how I needed to get off Fab if I was going to ignore all men.
Had he messaged me before? Lol no. He'd winked. (Guys, I don't look at those either) |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
Well not hope for a message but a little appreciation wouldn’t go amiss "
What kind of "appreciation" are you hoping to get? A returned Fab? Wouldn't it be a little false if someone fabbed you back in return for a Fab though?
Personally I Fab pics I like and see any Fabs I get as an appreciation of my pic and nothing more - I don't expect anything more from them in the slightest. |
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"It's nice to have photos fabbed but I am not likely to acknowledge them.
If the person fabbing them is interested in getting to know me, surely they would message.
Oh! I once got a lengthy diatribe about how I needed to get off Fab if I was going to ignore all men.
Had he messaged me before? Lol no. He'd winked. (Guys, I don't look at those either)"
Some men are incredibly entitled. What makes me go  most is the fact that many who message me, have clearly not read my profile. I am only looking to meet ladies..
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
I occasionally get rude messages saying that as I don't acknowledge Fabs, they're going to unfab all of them because I'm so ungrateful
... I don't look...I
Blimey! I think men and women view fabs differently
I'd probably think of them differently if I got less. But I think guys think that it'll get them noticed and some that I owe them a message from it. I don't owe anyone messages, and I get too many to even begin to contemplate it.
And fuck I'm not even all that in single female terms."
To be fair it would take us minutes to respond to all our messages and acknowledge our fabs. We do respond to messages usually but not fabs. |
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"It's nice to have photos fabbed but I am not likely to acknowledge them.
If the person fabbing them is interested in getting to know me, surely they would message.
Oh! I once got a lengthy diatribe about how I needed to get off Fab if I was going to ignore all men.
Had he messaged me before? Lol no. He'd winked. (Guys, I don't look at those either)
Some men are incredibly entitled. What makes me go most is the fact that many who message me, have clearly not read my profile. I am only looking to meet ladies..
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Oh don't get me started
I'll use Fab as I please within the rules. If you don't like it then go jump. |
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over a year ago
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We get messages asking why our pics don't really get that many fabs? We don't know but presume it's because we're a couple and not a single female?
Either way, surely you should only fab if you like the pic, not anything else. |
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"We get messages asking why our pics don't really get that many fabs? We don't know but presume it's because we're a couple and not a single female?
Either way, surely you should only fab if you like the pic, not anything else. "
This is my take on it.
This profile gets lots more fabs than my couple one.
I fab photos I genuinely like, it has nothing to do with whether or not I have an interest in meeting them. |
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We love getting fabs, it’s nice to be appreciated.
Sometimes we’ll get someone fab all of our pics, we don’t treat it any differently to someone fabbing just one.
It has led to a meet in the past, was someone showing interest and after a few messages they were invited to our hotel. |
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"We love getting fabs, it’s nice to be appreciated.
Sometimes we’ll get someone fab all of our pics, we don’t treat it any differently to someone fabbing just one.
It has led to a meet in the past, was someone showing interest and after a few messages they were invited to our hotel. "
I'm gonna start fabbing all your pictures lol  |
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"We love getting fabs, it’s nice to be appreciated.
Sometimes we’ll get someone fab all of our pics, we don’t treat it any differently to someone fabbing just one.
It has led to a meet in the past, was someone showing interest and after a few messages they were invited to our hotel.
I'm gonna start fabbing all your pictures lol "
Peaking too soon.. we’re in lockdown.!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We love getting fabs, it’s nice to be appreciated.
Sometimes we’ll get someone fab all of our pics, we don’t treat it any differently to someone fabbing just one.
It has led to a meet in the past, was someone showing interest and after a few messages they were invited to our hotel.
I'm gonna start fabbing all your pictures lol
Peaking too soon.. we’re in lockdown.!! "
I'll wait bide my time then pow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nobody really cares who fabs their photos and how many they fab.
Most want the numbers or use pics as marketing material to get people into their profile.
Wouldn't worry about it
But you're saying that from the position of getting loads of FABs.
I get one or two a month (if I'm lucky). So get really excited...
...until I realise It's another bloke.
;-)"
That's a bit of an assumption.
We're not interested in single men and that's the majority of our fabs.
So it's not exciting to get hundreds. Trust us. |
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I will fab any pic that stands out or catches my eye. Sometimes I will fab note than normal such as during a photo challenge and then I'll fab the fantastic efforts that others put into those challenges.
The vast majority of fabs I receive are from friends or other men.
I never get fabbed by couples or ladies I don't know unless it's as part of a forum thread and even then rarely.
Everyone uses them in different ways but it's always nice to be appreciated. |
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"Never get any response, doesn’t care how many I fab and I only fab the ones I find attractive.. but hey oh as long has it makes someone happy
Do men fab hoping for a message?
I occasionally get rude messages saying that as I don't acknowledge Fabs, they're going to unfab all of them because I'm so ungrateful
... I don't look..."
Haha, that’s just childish of them.
I Fab pictures hoping it’ll be taken as a compliment. I wouldn’t expect a response |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We Fab if...
-we would post the picture ourselves.
- it's different in a good way.
-it's Arty.
-it's honest - esp men in couples.
-we like the radiator.
-good mains socket placement in the photo.
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honest true and to the point lol 
