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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
It's their preference to set filters at whatever age they want. I also have found a lot of older guys lie about their age I've met 2 for coffee that definitely had one claimed to be in his late 40s was more likely to have been late 50s. Another claimed to be 51 and was over 10 years older. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assuming 30k active members, looking for age range 50+ is 20% (Guess) so 6000
Of that 6000 only 20% are looking for single guys (guess) leaving 1200
Then you need to be fairly local for the majority so that discounts 95% leaving 60.
That's before you factor personal preference, BBC, Dom/Sub, bareback/safe, club meet only, Bull, TV, Bi, Bi-curious.
It's a bloody tough pot, all guess work but imagine that before preference the math suggests a 0.19999% chance on Fab.
Just get to a club, odds improve massively. Really hope you are one of the fortunate ones though (And I mean that)  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have thought about clubs but as fairly new to this having tried other sites , I'm developing an image complex not just a female thing and I love a BBW |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Have changed it and removed and added different photos but no luck ,looks like it's a visit to a club once we get back to normal and I pluck up the courage lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some won't let me message so how do I know?"
Try to remember that this isn't personal, directly about you. Individuals are entitled to preferences and often use filters to aid that search.
It may seem unfair, but they are not singling you out as an individual. Even if you do contact and it's no, why would you want to fuck someone that isnt interested in you? |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands |
"It's their preference to set filters at whatever age they want. I also have found a lot of older guys lie about their age I've met 2 for coffee that definitely had one claimed to be in his late 40s was more likely to have been late 50s. Another claimed to be 51 and was over 10 years older. "
Same applies with women, 57 on profile turns out to be 65 on meeting. Not a isolated case I hasten to add. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We get at least 60% if not more of our views from 50+ couples. It's my preference not to meet anyone over 40ish and I stand by that. I don't find older people attractive. As time passes maybe that will change.
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some won't let me message so how do I know?
Try to remember that this isn't personal, directly about you. Individuals are entitled to preferences and often use filters to aid that search.
It may seem unfair, but they are not singling you out as an individual. Even if you do contact and it's no, why would you want to fuck someone that isnt interested in you?"
This is great advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You'll always be too young for some and too old for others, don't lose any sleep over it."
Agree with this..:
'You're too young..'
'You're too old'
'You're too hairy..'
'You're not hairy enough..'
'You're bi..'
'You're straight..'
You can't be everyone's cup of tea. Put yourself out there, be honest and it will (probably... eventually..) happen |
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By *adetMan
over a year ago
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"You'll always be too young for some and too old for others, don't lose any sleep over it.
Agree with this..:
'You're too young..'
'You're too old'
'You're too hairy..'
'You're not hairy enough..'
'You're bi..'
'You're straight..'
You can't be everyone's cup of tea. Put yourself out there, be honest and it will (probably... eventually..) happen"
Good advice here OP |
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I find so many on here don't use the age filter.So you send a message to them an get some nice no thank you,to being call a dirty old perv.I think age filters are daft.18 to 99, just how many on here are going to have sex with Captain Tom ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only thing I find annoying is when you are 1 or maybe 2 years short or over the age range like those 2 years will make all the difference. I don't care about age limits for.myself people can be sexy at most ages  |
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With good fortune, most of us will make that age and don't assume sex stops then. They likely will have different preferences from when younger. No one is going to be having sex with people who they are not attracted to. Preferences support consensual activity and prevent others wasting their time and efforts communicating with others who are not compatible - it's nothing to do with them thinking that you are celibate.
Focus on the possibilities, not on what you can't gain. |
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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago
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"I find so many on here don't use the age filter.So you send a message to them an get some nice no thank you,to being call a dirty old perv.I think age filters are daft.18 to 99, just how many on here are going to have sex with Captain Tom ? "
Some people too lazy to change the default settings 18 - 99 when they create their profiles,
There are a number of females on here who do want sex with old men, in some cases the older the better, I am on a promise from a 40 yr old when the troubles are over.
As a point of interest the oldest male on here is 97 so I have a long way to go to better that being a mere 80 yr old. |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Definitely try clubs when they reopen.
Having visited many I've yet to see anyone wearing an age badge or see any initial conversation include the words "so how old are you?".
That'll negate the age issue. The rest is up to you.
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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I've met at least 4 ladies that have upped their age filters after meeting me...not that I'm anything special, and they now consider a more mature (intelligent fun and entertaining...) guy ...
As someone said get to a club or a social and age really has little bearing ...within reason.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"
Yep 56 and it’s all over. I’m hanging my boots up next month. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"Some won't let me message so how do I know?
If you can't message, they're not interested."
Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...
Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first... |
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"Some won't let me message so how do I know?
If you can't message, they're not interested.
Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...
Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first..."
Indeed. |
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By *jonesMan
over a year ago
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"Some won't let me message so how do I know?
If you can't message, they're not interested.
Yes thats a pain..but that's what the filters are for...
Sometimes you can chat on the forums and if you get on people will adjust their filters for you or message you first...
Indeed."
Or if you fab their pics they often at least have a look at your profile... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"
I think it depends on the personal situation , everyone's is different , not all ladies want to fuck a mature guy if they can get it from younger guys or guys around their same age ,but there are the odd exceptions where the mature guy is in good shape in HER eyes and he has the personality to go with it that she also likes , so she will be interested ..BUT the case is also there for the mature ladies ..the exact same applies ..of course as people age the reality of not finding themselves attractive to others can play on their mind and maybe hurt their confidence but as l said at the start it all depends on the personal situation...but never forget it was and always will be way easier for ladies to have sex whatever age they are ,they carry the equipment to make it so ,some ladies may disagree with that comment but it's what l think anyway...they will never have to worry or be concerned about getting and sustaining an erection to be able to sexually satisfy a lady like guys do when they reach a certain age and all different factors enter the mix. |
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I've met swingers in clubs of all ages so believe me I know sex doesn't stop after 50 or 55. However OP, you are older than my parents I'm afraid and while I don't think that means your sex life should stop by any stretch of the imagination, it's just uncomfortable for me personally to get involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or do people think sex stops somewhere between 50and 55.As a 56year old horny guy really annoying"
No. That’s simple their preference.
Just like you have one. |
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