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over a year ago
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Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away! |
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
I always find it really awkward to begin with, but once the horniness kicks in it's rally good and I can get into it. Guess it's different for everyone though. |
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"If I’m super horny I can get into it but certainly not a preference- especially not with someone I have no prior connection with. Swapping naughty pics is a fun way to pass the time though "
And I say yes are naughty  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found recently .... I’m popular with men wanting to talk a lot of bollocks ( crap innuendo cliche sexual texting/messaging)
If it’s with someone I know - it’s ok. At the moment - I’d be one of many to chat the smut with |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If I’m super horny I can get into it but certainly not a preference- especially not with someone I have no prior connection with. Swapping naughty pics is a fun way to pass the time though "
yes - if its someone I know I love it!
I should have clarified, I meant on the site here
With strangers is just... odd!
But then I guess we are all here for something at the end of the day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
I watched a funny thing on social media that showed a guy clearly enjoying himself sexting a girl whilst the woman was doing all her normal things, I think she was making dinner for her kids and he was like “are you touching yourself” and she replied all sorts of naughty stuff about what she was “doing” when in fact she was stirring the dinner. I think it summed it up well. Most of the time women are not doing what they say they are whilst sexting!!  |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
Personally I love it, but I only like the sensual kind, not into being crude.
Turning on a lady just by exchanging words can is erotic.
Knowing I've helped her to cum without physically touching her is a big turn on.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all depends who it’s with. If there’s sexual chemistry and attraction already there; there’s certain things you can share to keep the temptation going.
However, there’s only so much ‘sexting’ you can do before it gets boring and you need the real thing.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!
I watched a funny thing on social media that showed a guy clearly enjoying himself sexting a girl whilst the woman was doing all her normal things, I think she was making dinner for her kids and he was like “are you touching yourself” and she replied all sorts of naughty stuff about what she was “doing” when in fact she was stirring the dinner. I think it summed it up well. Most of the time women are not doing what they say they are whilst sexting!! "
Funny you should say that actually ... I had a gay bloke messaging me the other evening and he was doing allsorts to himself. After he sent me a few pics I asked him "do you know what I'm doing right now?"
"What(hopefully)"
"Im sat up in bed eating corned beef sandwiches..." |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!
I watched a funny thing on social media that showed a guy clearly enjoying himself sexting a girl whilst the woman was doing all her normal things, I think she was making dinner for her kids and he was like “are you touching yourself” and she replied all sorts of naughty stuff about what she was “doing” when in fact she was stirring the dinner. I think it summed it up well. Most of the time women are not doing what they say they are whilst sexting!! "
Yes, this!!!!!
Hahaha that’s made me giggle, simply because it’s true lol |
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"It doesn't really do anything for me... unless it's someone I've met before and we're reliving our past encounters, that can be fun "
This is me too.... unless I’m into them and had past sexual encounters I can enjoy but has to be with someone who can do it right.
I’m absolutely shit at it lol |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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If I like the person it can be fun. I'm not really that good of it because one handed typing is difficult at the best of times - if there are photos and audio at the same time it's really hot. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
does it make you laugh?   |
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Depends on the person. I find it can be a great way to communicate the kind of person you are, and what you’re like in the bedroom.
If it’s just crude, badly written and has little thought to it then yeah, it’s a waste of time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Depends on the person. I find it can be a great way to communicate the kind of person you are, and what you’re like in the bedroom.
If it’s just crude, badly written and has little thought to it then yeah, it’s a waste of time.
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can you talk me through what you would say...... I'll be the woman for this survey....... hi honey I'm so horny what shall i do with my 9" dildo?  |
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By *h86Man
over a year ago
Glos |
I've actually come back to this a lot more since the lockdown, I've always seen the mind as a powerful tool for sex, and finding someone who can lead and keep a scenario going over text is amazing. Some pics always help the imagination, but getting the mind into a scene and describing what is happening in detail has been very erotic |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ve found it really hot. Especially so during this lockdown. I’m having a really horny chat with a lady on here. Exploring both our darker fantasies. I’m trying to write a reply to her last messsge but I keep getting horny when I start writing and get distracted.  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
Maybe you just need to find a better sexting partner. |
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I’m not too fussed about it tbh, it’s ok if you have actually fucked that person and can rem_mber how his finger and tongue made you feel, or he describes how good your mouth feels on his cock etc, I find it never really works with strangers  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!
I watched a funny thing on social media that showed a guy clearly enjoying himself sexting a girl whilst the woman was doing all her normal things, I think she was making dinner for her kids and he was like “are you touching yourself” and she replied all sorts of naughty stuff about what she was “doing” when in fact she was stirring the dinner. I think it summed it up well. Most of the time women are not doing what they say they are whilst sexting!!
Funny you should say that actually ... I had a gay bloke messaging me the other evening and he was doing allsorts to himself. After he sent me a few pics I asked him "do you know what I'm doing right now?"
"What(hopefully)"
"Im sat up in bed eating corned beef sandwiches...""
BRILLIANT!Did he understand that you meant literally, or....? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It does absolutely nothing for me. Sexting, cam all that malarkey
I rather be doing rather then talking about it."
I’d rather be doing it for real but that’s definitely not an option for me right now. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...
....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends who you talk to how, how you click and whether they take you.
You have to meet a certain criteria:
1) got to have a creative imagination.
2) you got to know what their voice sounds like. Once you know what they sound like you can imagine them saying what they've written.
3) you got to be able to talk about general things. It's to much to be full about sex 24/7.
4) attraction. What pulls you to that person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The mrs is currently sexting a bloke off here who offered to tribute her pic, it was her first tribute, she asked if I was ok with her sexting,
After reading the messages and pics they sent each other I found it a turn on but we have the understanding she sends everything she sends and receives |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
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It can be fun. I find that it works best when the other person puts as much effort in as I do. Otherwise,I end up writing a paragraph of sexy fantasy and get back "mmmmm". I guess it's the equivalent of having sex with someone who's watching TV. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...
....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold "
Yes! Especially when they use words that make me cringe.
I was asked if I masturbate.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I thi k if you can put enough detail and imagination. Couple that with videos and pictures either of each other or your "character" how ever you've done it. It can work really well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thi k if you can put enough detail and imagination. Couple that with videos and pictures either of each other or your "character" how ever you've done it. It can work really well. "
Spot on  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...
....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold "
But if your figs are ripe and squsihy, the littlest push and your finger is right into the stickness! Nice  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"When it just flows naturally with someone you have been talking to for a while and have a connection and chemistry together it can be quite the thing and fairly intense - especially when you each anticipate the next move almost like a game of sexual chess...
....but when it's almost forced and someone tries too hard or with someone whose idea of arousing text is "now I'm inserting Fig A into Fig B and moving it about a bit" it leaves me cold
But if your figs are ripe and squsihy, the littlest push and your finger is right into the stickness! Nice "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging "
You’ve ruined it for me now!
I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me that doesn't really get much out of it?
I have noticed the number of people messaging for this is much more than ever before (which I do understand why), but I tried it a few times lately and I've just got too tired of it!
Send me a good porn link instead and I'll be well away!"
Personally I think there has to be a mental connection .. a spark ...for it to be what it can be or should be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging "
Same though I sometimes get horny, I don't get off on it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging
You’ve ruined it for me now!
I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me "
Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.
Is that better? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging
You’ve ruined it for me now!
I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me
Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.
Is that better? "
That’s more like it.
I knew what we have is special |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does nothing for me.
I’ll occasionally flirt and be suggestive but I’m never getting myself off while I do it. Usually I’m doing something mundane like painting my toe nails while I’m messaging
You’ve ruined it for me now!
I thought you were furiously fapping with your left hand whilst typing to me
Apart from with you! I’m spread eagled, screaming and squirting everywhere when I message you. You’re the exception to every rule.
Is that better?
That’s more like it.
I knew what we have is special "
Woahhhh i want that special treatment too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's an art form. Some people just aren't creative or talented enough. When done right it's mind blowing. When done wrong it's 'wanna fuck me up the shitter?' |
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