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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine
Im learning more and more everyday i use the forums "
Glad I could help |
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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine
Im learning more and more everyday i use the forums
Glad I could help "
Well help is better than being attacked by regular forum police for daring to have an opinion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It might apply to people like yourself if you feel each and every meet requires a verification. You have only one yourself does this mean you have only ever met one other person?
I've met quite a few people but only socially and I've never felt like I am required to leave a veri nor have I demanded one.
People can speak for themselves! I don't meet or not meet people depending on how many/if they have feedback and I don't imagine most on here pay too much attention to that either |
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
Away with the faeries |
"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? . Ahhhhh so these people meet but just never get verified ?? Now i get it  "
There are people out there who don't necessarily need to be verified by fellow fabbers.
And what is the harm really in making sure people know that you are being socially responsible? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I stopped meeting.
reason for that is im a workaholic and also I got sick and tired of the chase.
all im looking for now is one playmate/partner and if that takes time to find and get right so be it.
and I don't have to answer to anyone for my choices OP |
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"I stopped meeting.
reason for that is im a workaholic and also I got sick and tired of the chase.
all im looking for now is one playmate/partner and if that takes time to find and get right so be it.
and I don't have to answer to anyone for my choices OP"
Think you have missed the point of the thread hun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And even if they have not had a meet yet I still don’t see the problem in advertising that they are being responsible.
They may just not have met the right people here. They may have been here a year but not really used the site properly until now.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine "
What?!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine
What?!!! "
You read that right |
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? . Ahhhhh so these people meet but just never get verified ?? Now i get it "
Or meeting regulars do no need to have 50 messages from the same person?!
Or the not meeting message was there (assuming it's in their profile text) before the lockdown.
Why do judgy? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Like most things on here - how other people choose to run and manage their profile causes me not the slightest moment of concern if it doesn't impact me, which it doesn't 99.9999% of the time |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
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"Noticed a lot of profiles been on over a year with no veris have put "not meeting at the moment" as there status . ??? Like they were meeting anyway "
yes seen that on many and thought the same!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I didn’t have any verifications. I delete my account every year to shake them off but some people still re-verify me when they see me back on here.
I like looking fresh like a virgin. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I stopped meeting.
reason for that is im a workaholic and also I got sick and tired of the chase.
all im looking for now is one playmate/partner and if that takes time to find and get right so be it.
and I don't have to answer to anyone for my choices OP
Think you have missed the point of the thread hun x "
hope I haven't caused any offence x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I hide my verification summary and my veries as Im very private. I think a lot on here are the same lovely xx hide mine to but still have a green tick to say im verified "
Ah yes I forgot about the green tick xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Verifications are something fake people use to try and trick people into thinking they're not fake.
Only people without verifications are genuine
I don't understand this."
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('tis a little 'levity', Dear.....!!)
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By *avhonaWoman
over a year ago
Away with the faeries |
"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? Why would you not? After all no green tick is not going to help you with getting meets. "
And I could argue the opposite. Why should I need a verification posted here? If I'm approached less then that is personally fine for me. There are really effective ways, outside of fab, to verify someone as an authentic human being. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? Why would you not? After all no green tick is not going to help you with getting meets.
And I could argue the opposite. Why should I need a verification posted here? If I'm approached less then that is personally fine for me. There are really effective ways, outside of fab, to verify someone as an authentic human being. "
This is so true. And from past experience a verification really makes no difference when it comes to meeting the people you spark a connection with. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? Why would you not? After all no green tick is not going to help you with getting meets.
And I could argue the opposite. Why should I need a verification posted here? If I'm approached less then that is personally fine for me. There are really effective ways, outside of fab, to verify someone as an authentic human being. "
Agree with you totally, a lot more is made of veris by some than it really ought to be - yes they're an indication that somebody is who they say they are but they're (a) not foolproof and (b) are only one person's take on it (or more than one if multiple veris) and as such of little relevance in the overall scheme of things - as you say there are many other effective ways to be sure someone is who they say they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? Why would you not? After all no green tick is not going to help you with getting meets.
And I could argue the opposite. Why should I need a verification posted here? If I'm approached less then that is personally fine for me. There are really effective ways, outside of fab, to verify someone as an authentic human being.
Agree with you totally, a lot more is made of veris by some than it really ought to be - yes they're an indication that somebody is who they say they are but they're (a) not foolproof and (b) are only one person's take on it (or more than one if multiple veris) and as such of little relevance in the overall scheme of things - as you say there are many other effective ways to be sure someone is who they say they are."
And is it really a true reflection? Or do people sometimes feel they have to be nice? I know from past friends on here that they have felt the need to say things they don’t necessarily think.
That would be my worst nightmare |
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"Noticed a lot of profiles been on over a year with no veris have put "not meeting at the moment" as there status . ??? Like they were meeting anyway "
You have no idea if they are meeting or not.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Noticed a lot of profiles been on over a year with no veris have put "not meeting at the moment" as there status . ??? Like they were meeting anyway
I have no idea if you have no idea if they have an idea if they are meeting or not. But I know you have a nice ass
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What that woman says |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The last man we met didn't verify us nor we him. He was really nice and we're still in touch but I don't think either of us felt it was necessary to verify the other. "
I have actually preferred it when I have met someone here and verifications have never even been discussed or left. |
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"The last man we met didn't verify us nor we him. He was really nice and we're still in touch but I don't think either of us felt it was necessary to verify the other.
I have actually preferred it when I have met someone here and verifications have never even been discussed or left."
In a good or bad way?
I think there comes a point where its obvious if people are genuine in their intent and verifications become a bit superfluous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The last man we met didn't verify us nor we him. He was really nice and we're still in touch but I don't think either of us felt it was necessary to verify the other.
I have actually preferred it when I have met someone here and verifications have never even been discussed or left.
In a good or bad way?
I think there comes a point where its obvious if people are genuine in their intent and verifications become a bit superfluous "
Yes I could not agree more. In a good way |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? . Ahhhhh so these people meet but just never get verified ?? Now i get it "
You can completely hide all your veris, you do know this? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? . Ahhhhh so these people meet but just never get verified ?? Now i get it
You can completely hide all your veris, you do know this? "
But you can still tell if someone has one or not from the green tick on their profile which is what I think the OP was referring to |
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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? Why would you not? After all no green tick is not going to help you with getting meets.
And I could argue the opposite. Why should I need a verification posted here? If I'm approached less then that is personally fine for me. There are really effective ways, outside of fab, to verify someone as an authentic human being. "
kinda think you are missing the point. But hey ho |
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"Why does a lack of veri have to mean that they haven't been meeting? . Ahhhhh so these people meet but just never get verified ?? Now i get it
You can completely hide all your veris, you do know this? "
cant hide your green tick though |
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