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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
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Oh I dont mean that it should reveal who added you to the hotlist just saying that someone has so it keeps it on the down low for those who just wanna perve lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think I'd rather find out from a conversation than from some notification, in honesty... but all the same, that's a cool boost for you OP my dude!  "
I was just cuft that I was on someones hot list to be honest lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Congrats man, don't see any reason why you wouldn't be on someone's hot list, don't he so harsh on yourself.
Would be pretty cool to see if anyone has added you to hot list. Although, at times, would probably be bad for me to have an ego boost.. I'd probably get hyped up and go try take over the world  |
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"I think I'd rather find out from a conversation than from some notification, in honesty... but all the same, that's a cool boost for you OP my dude!
I was just cuft that I was on someones hot list to be honest lol"
Hint taken. Hotlisted.   |
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Oh I dont mean that it should reveal who added you to the hotlist just saying that someone has so it keeps it on the down low for those who just wanna perve lol"
Oh..got you...what if you never get a notification, that might be a bummer for you.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Oh I dont mean that it should reveal who added you to the hotlist just saying that someone has so it keeps it on the down low for those who just wanna perve lol
Oh..got you...what if you never get a notification, that might be a bummer for you.."
Well to be honest I hadn't expected to be on anyones I see myself as a bit of comic relief on the forums and I'm ok with that as i like to make people smile and yes I'm a flirt but happy to just be that I never expected much else lol. But being told I was on a hot list did give me a chufty badge lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think I'd rather find out from a conversation than from some notification, in honesty... but all the same, that's a cool boost for you OP my dude!
I was just cuft that I was on someones hot list to be honest lol
Hint taken. Hotlisted. "
God your a flirt lol  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
Most people prefer to keep to keep their hotlist choices to themselves, myself included. It comes up in conversation if you've really begun chatting to someone and I admit to having them listed or vice versa.
Made the mistake once of sending a well put together message to a long time hotlisted and frequent page one hottie and received a terse "no thanks not interested". That showed me!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just imagine all the "Why aren't I in anyone's hotlist" whines  "
Yes this would be the down side of this so maybe yes dont know until your told lol.
Still I'm a happy bunny now |
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"Most people prefer to keep to keep their hotlist choices to themselves, myself included. It comes up in conversation if you've really begun chatting to someone and I admit to having them listed or vice versa.
Made the mistake once of sending a well put together message to a long time hotlisted and frequent page one hottie and received a terse "no thanks not interested". That showed me! "
Oh that’s a real shame  |
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"Most people prefer to keep to keep their hotlist choices to themselves, myself included. It comes up in conversation if you've really begun chatting to someone and I admit to having them listed or vice versa.
Made the mistake once of sending a well put together message to a long time hotlisted and frequent page one hottie and received a terse "no thanks not interested". That showed me! "
Conversation..well, am I  |
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"Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree "
Awww widowdad, I’m sure you’re on a few members hotlist
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Most people prefer to keep to keep their hotlist choices to themselves, myself included. It comes up in conversation if you've really begun chatting to someone and I admit to having them listed or vice versa.
Made the mistake once of sending a well put together message to a long time hotlisted and frequent page one hottie and received a terse "no thanks not interested". That showed me!
Oh that’s a real shame "
Win some, lose some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree
Awww widowdad, I’m sure you’re on a few members hotlist
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Gobby flattery will get you everywhere |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the suspense of not knowing and then being told is better than some notification. I'd been chatting to someone for ages then she dropped it in to conversation that I was on her hotlist far better that way than knowing before talking to someone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Oh I dont mean that it should reveal who added you to the hotlist just saying that someone has so it keeps it on the down low for those who just wanna perve lol
Oh..got you...what if you never get a notification, that might be a bummer for you..
Well to be honest I hadn't expected to be on anyones I see myself as a bit of comic relief on the forums and I'm ok with that as i like to make people smile and yes I'm a flirt but happy to just be that I never expected much else lol. But being told I was on a hot list did give me a chufty badge lol "
So was it a hotty from the forums that hotlisted ya? |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Most people prefer to keep to keep their hotlist choices to themselves, myself included. It comes up in conversation if you've really begun chatting to someone and I admit to having them listed or vice versa.
Made the mistake once of sending a well put together message to a long time hotlisted and frequent page one hottie and received a terse "no thanks not interested". That showed me!
Conversation..well, am I "
Um...you were You're on a far better list now |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Oh I dont mean that it should reveal who added you to the hotlist just saying that someone has so it keeps it on the down low for those who just wanna perve lol
Oh..got you...what if you never get a notification, that might be a bummer for you..
Well to be honest I hadn't expected to be on anyones I see myself as a bit of comic relief on the forums and I'm ok with that as i like to make people smile and yes I'm a flirt but happy to just be that I never expected much else lol. But being told I was on a hot list did give me a chufty badge lol
So was it a hotty from the forums that hotlisted ya?"
I think that would be telling |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree "
Its not really necessary if someone wants you to have knowledge they are interested there is the wink system. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree
Its not really necessary if someone wants you to have knowledge they are interested there is the wink system. "
As I had said it wasnt so much so.you know.who more just an anonymous thing saying you have been hotlisted lol |
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I like the current system. I don't really use the hotlist for anything other than clubs and event profiles and I'm not bothered about who adds me - if anything it may make me question if it was their hot or their not list. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I like the current system. I don't really use the hotlist for anything other than clubs and event profiles and I'm not bothered about who adds me - if anything it may make me question if it was their hot or their not list."
A not list would just be cruel |
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"I like the current system. I don't really use the hotlist for anything other than clubs and event profiles and I'm not bothered about who adds me - if anything it may make me question if it was their hot or their not list.
A not list would just be cruel "
It's just an alternative use for the hotlist for some users. I don't think it's cruel, just the way things are. Either way I'd rather not know. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I think not knowing if you are or aren't is part of the appeal. A telltale sign you might be on someone's is if a profile you've not spoken to before constantly fabs your pictures. I've a few of these, though sadly they're 90% men |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think not knowing if you are or aren't is part of the appeal. A telltale sign you might be on someone's is if a profile you've not spoken to before constantly fabs your pictures. I've a few of these, though sadly they're 90% men "
Yes I also have that their are 3 or 4 men not local to me either that fab my pictures almost as soon as I up load them |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Same here. Sometimes I just wanna perve not talk "
That's because you are a perving ninja lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I’d be creeped out if they told me. Only because I think it’s weird someone that doesn’t talk to me is constantly watching my profile
Some of us like to be watched
Ooh it's weird. Occasionally I get recognised in a club by my public pictures and... that conversation never goes well because I stand there like  "
Never been to a club dont have that problem to date lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think it's nice of her to let you know that.
Sound a nice lady you should get to know more about
She seems lovely and we are now chatting
Woop woop my wingman.
You stud, you. "
Mate I was on cloud 9 being told I was on her hotlist and she is a stunner |
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"I see your point but I like to roam fab incognito...perving to my hearts content.
Same here. Sometimes I just wanna perve not talk "
You just perve at me all the damn time and don't say you don't |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I think it's nice of her to let you know that.
Sound a nice lady you should get to know more about
She seems lovely and we are now chatting
Woop woop my wingman.
You stud, you.
Mate I was on cloud 9 being told I was on her hotlist and she is a stunner "
Im always surprised by how many stunning ladies there are on here.
Also by the amount of ladies that are beautiful on the inside too.
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Keep up the good work. |
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By *r MoriartyMan
over a year ago
The Land that time forgot (Norfolk) |
An option to make it known to those on your hotlist that they are on it could be good but it would need to be an option you turned on, the current set up should remain the default imo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think it's nice of her to let you know that.
Sound a nice lady you should get to know more about
She seems lovely and we are now chatting
Woop woop my wingman.
You stud, you.
Mate I was on cloud 9 being told I was on her hotlist and she is a stunner
Im always surprised by how many stunning ladies there are on here.
Also by the amount of ladies that are beautiful on the inside too.
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Keep up the good work. "
All women are fake or lesbian! |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
I have about 3 people in my hotlist. Judging by the way I behave whenever I am around them, I suppose they know they’re in it anyway!
I’ve been told many times I am on people’s hotlists. But I suppose my fabbed photos tell me that too... |
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"Last night I was told by a very sexy lady that I was on their hot list and had been for some time.
I was flattered as I generally dont see myself as hotlist material for anyone. Then I got to thinking I wonder if I was on anyone else's hotlist???
Wouldnt It be cool if you had a notification just saying someone had added you to there hot list.
I mean for is guys especially that would be a big confidence boost. Anyone else agree "
Not on mine OP for obvious reasons but still a top fella... always nice to hear if you are or not. Think it’s particularly nice for a bloke to know given the ratio on here  |
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I've got people on my hotlist that I haven't spoke to. Generally because I'm not what they are looking for or I'm too faraway geographicly, it's because I find them attractive and perv their photos. The fabs give me away x |
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"It's pointless knowing you're on someone's hot list if they aren't going to make contact. I just don't get the point. "
Surely on the hotlist means you are looking to see if their personality meets the visual attraction?? It’s all very well and good being stunning but not if you want to high five them in the face with a chair |
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By *abonWoman
over a year ago
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I think hot means different things to different people, so never going to get agreement on the privacy/notification debate. The most classically physically attractive guys who have approached me are married...which is not hot for me.
I use mine as a reminder of people who I think are lovely or funny and who I might have a connection with...or someone who pushes a hot button that I’m naybe not ready to push yet. We haven’t all been fabbing for ages |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No because they might think I’m weird
I'm not saying anything
Shush you my mama says I’m special your special to me busty that smile brightens up my darkest day
Aww thank you WD  "
See I'm not always mean |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think hot means different things to different people, so never going to get agreement on the privacy/notification debate. The most classically physically attractive guys who have approached me are married...which is not hot for me.
I use mine as a reminder of people who I think are lovely or funny and who I might have a connection with...or someone who pushes a hot button that I’m naybe not ready to push yet. We haven’t all been fabbing for ages"
I think this is a very good point and but either way it made my day |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's pointless knowing you're on someone's hot list if they aren't going to make contact. I just don't get the point.
Surely on the hotlist means you are looking to see if their personality meets the visual attraction?? It’s all very well and good being stunning but not if you want to high five them in the face with a chair "
Surely you do that by making contact. You can't see if their personality is any good by having them on a hot list! |
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