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What exactly is someone that’s up their own arse?
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible  |
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It annoys me so much when people say that. There’s no need if it’s in response to rejection. I’ve heard it loads from people I have politely rejected/ not replied quick enough to/ not replied at all to.
I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin. |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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Shut that noise out! It’s other people’s insecurities being projected on you. |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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We enjoyed pretty women last night ,
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"It annoys me so much when people say that. There’s no need if it’s in response to rejection. I’ve heard it loads from people I have politely rejected/ not replied quick enough to/ not replied at all to.
I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin. "
I’ve heard it a few times from blokes I’ve rejected. So much so that I put it in my profile. |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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Arrogance. Ignorance. Conceit.
Oh and I wasn't sure whether this was a literal question so...
It also means being full of yourself. So much so that your head is metaphorically up your own arse filling you up.
None of these are particularly attractive qualities so I hope the person saying these thing was wrong |
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I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.
It means that someone is very far removed from reality. They are that far removed and insecure in themselves that they exist on their own hype and inflated egos and to make things slightly worse they believe the crap they spout and insult others by thinking they believe what is being said. Those up their own arse work hard to convince others of their worth.
It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.
e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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I’ve had that before.
I just think someone says that to you when they can’t deal with rejection.
What they can’t have automatically becomes them feeling like you think you’re better than them.
Which isn’t true, everyone is allowed to have their own preference and wants. We all are allowed to say if someone Is for them or not.
That’s my take anyways. |
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Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself.  |
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"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.
It means that someone is very far removed from reality. They are that far removed and insecure in themselves that they exist on their own hype and inflated egos and to make things slightly worse they believe the crap they spout and insult others by thinking they believe what is being said. Those up their own arse work hard to convince others of their worth.
It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.
e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....
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"U just answered ur own question " u think ur better than everyone else" fyi id hate to have someone say that to me...just saying! "
Lol this right here |
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"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself. "
Fuck em |
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By *mberWoman
over a year ago
Preston |
"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.
It means that someone is very far removed from reality. They are that far removed and insecure in themselves that they exist on their own hype and inflated egos and to make things slightly worse they believe the crap they spout and insult others by thinking they believe what is being said. Those up their own arse work hard to convince others of their worth.
It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.
e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....
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This.
I don't think it is about rejection at all. I can think of people who haven't rejected me but I might consider them to be narcissistic. |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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In my opinion ,someone that is up their own arse is a person who is condescending, arrogant , pompous , obnoxious ,self centered ,selfish, full of their own self importance , passive aggressive and a narrcasist.. |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
In my opinion ,someone that is up their own arse is a person who is condescending, arrogant , pompous , obnoxious ,self centered ,selfish, full of their own self importance , passive aggressive and a narrcasist.."
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"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself. "
So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves. |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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expression bit like you born with a sliver spoon ...stuck up ya own ass are you a snob? |
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"apart from passive aggressive...... "
Well ,I think someone being passive aggressive is one who doesn't like being asked to do things or will only do them when it suits them to do it and carries a " who do you think you are to ask me " attitude.. |
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Everyone is different and if you like who you are,how you look and are confident in yourself then don't worry about how some may see or describe you as that becomes their problem you will still be you  |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible "
well I know few men who can have be pretty big thow |
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"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself. "
Why should you put yourself down to please others? Its impossible to be attracted to everyone. I'm always honest and will say I am sorry I don't fancy you. I've only ever had one that came back with a load of abuse, to the point I blocked him. Chin up! Chest out! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself.
So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves. "
Yeah. I’m just reflecting on the responses from my rate my personality thread a few days ago! |
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By *anxmann55Man
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Douglas Isle of man....... |
"It annoys me so much when people say that. There’s no need if it’s in response to rejection. I’ve heard it loads from people I have politely rejected/ not replied quick enough to/ not replied at all to.
I think it’s just means their feelings are hurt and they want someone to blame rather then take it on the chin.
I’ve heard it a few times from blokes I’ve rejected. So much so that I put it in my profile. "
this fella has it on his profile that he is up his own ass interesting I'm sure  |
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By *anxmann55Man
over a year ago
Douglas Isle of man....... |
"Everyone is different and if you like who you are,how you look and are confident in yourself then don't worry about how some may see or describe you as that becomes their problem you will still be you "
absolutely... |
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"Could understand it from a rejection point of view, tell someone they’re not your type, they respond saying I think I’m too good for them.
But I’ve had it said from forum interaction so haven’t rejected anyone. It’s just people thinking I believe I’m better than others because I don’t put myself down about my appearance and think highly of myself.
So they are mistaking your confidence for being up your own arse. Sounds like they have some insecurities themselves.
Yeah. I’m just reflecting on the responses from my rate my personality thread a few days ago!"
How can anyone rate a personality from written messages ? |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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Iv a quote on my profile ‘never look down on anyone unless you are helping them up’ people who are up ones arse only think of themselves in my book I don’t think that’s you at all Annie you are an amazingly confident woman  |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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Think the simple response to anyway who says that to you is fuck off and block. But it says more about them than you. You could be classed as up your own arse because you have standards and there’s nothing wrong with individual standards |
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"I don't agree with any of the above. It doesn't mean thinking you are better than anyone else ( others don't come into it) It isn't always just a jealous retort made by the rejected.
It means that someone is very far removed from reality. They are that far removed and insecure in themselves that they exist on their own hype and inflated egos and to make things slightly worse they believe the crap they spout and insult others by thinking they believe what is being said. Those up their own arse work hard to convince others of their worth.
It's not so much conceit as it is self delusion.
e.g. they are not up someone elses arse hole but up their own arse..... narcissistic etc.....
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As above. I would interpret up my own arse as self centred/self obsessed. Very focused on their own ego. Unable to acknowledge others properly whilst demanding from others to put them first. Something like that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't agree i think that it's someone who thinks that they are better than you. There's a few people on here who are like that. It's as if they think that they are above everyone else and look down on them |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
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They are only saying it because they would like to be up yours. Well it is very sexy |
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"Had it said to me many times that I’m up my own arse or think I’m better than everyone else but what exactly is it that makes you up your own arse?
Having several ribs removed, that would enable one to be up one's arse. Otherwise physiologically impossible "
It depends how big your dick is
i've heard of some guys that can get it up their own arse  |
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On a serious note though. Sounds like someone didnt get an answer they wanted from you.
S x
