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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
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Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
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All good points also don't white night all the attractive popular people xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
All good points also don't white night all the attractive popular people xx"
Brilliant list, I'll add
Don't be sleazy, it's not a good look
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
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Great thread Chunky  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
I honestly don't see where the difficulty lies as it's not rocket science. Just be respectful and address people normally. If things develop they develop through a natural, unrushed process. If they don't, you've had a, hopefully, pleasant interaction with another person.
As to more fit and attractive men not making such an effort; perhaps because they stand out more by being naturally more attractive and feel that's enough for them? Shortsighted approach perhaps because if the personality comes up lacking their odds of success plummets as well? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Welcome everyone to Chunkys Gents school of fab 
(whistles innocently) "
You should get yourself a school teachers cap, gown and cane to keep us all in check 
Yes Sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want.
Don't get jealous
Don't lamp post piss"
Totally agree with this my feet are wet from the amount of piss people put on me  |
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
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The forum is a lovely way to start chatting to people you wouldn’t usually come across from all parts of the uk.
The keys is always be respectful and considerate.
I’ve had some amazing chats and quite fond of some, we end up chatting one on one from here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I honestly don't see where the difficulty lies as it's not rocket science. Just be respectful and address people normally. If things develop they develop through a natural, unrushed process. If they don't, you've had a, hopefully, pleasant interaction with another person.
As to more fit and attractive men not making such an effort; perhaps because they stand out more by being naturally more attractive and feel that's enough for them? Shortsighted approach perhaps because if the personality comes up lacking their odds of success plummets as well?"
It's not rocket science, nope. Some still can't get their heads around it though |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
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This is great advice! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course having a hot tub doesn’t come in to play at all!
You got a hot tub and I’m afraid it won’t make a slight bit of difference!
So you can always lend me yours and I can look after it whilst you follow everyone pointers! |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Of course having a hot tub doesn’t come in to play at all!
You got a hot tub and I’m afraid it won’t make a slight bit of difference!
So you can always lend me yours and I can look after it whilst you follow everyone pointers! "
Or come and join me. I'll get the bubbles going. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
"
Speaking as a little Bob Hoskins/ Danny DeVito looking bloke myself I can thoroughly get behind this message... |
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"Hey guys,
I get asked how come I'm liked in the forums and female friends ask why arent some of the fit and good looking ones more charming.
Sooooooo I'd thought I'd be my usual helpful self and put a few 'general' pointers out there:
1. Be nice.
2. Don't be a twat, creep, dickhead, (Insert word of your choice).
3. Get rid of the cock avatars.
4. Try not to slag off others in the forums.
5. Be a little complimentary - even to other males.
6. Be humorous.
7. When talking to a couple - remember there are 2 in the couple
.
Feel free to add other pointers, but please be friendly.
"
Great points sir |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be patient and don’t post when your pissed.
Don’t bite when someone is trolling a thread or saying something designed to get a reaction (that way lies madness and a spell on the naughty step).
Don’t be creepy, greedy or needy. |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Personally chunky I just think your a top guy the ladies love you the men wanna be like you and you have the best wing man on fab lol "
Oh shush you, don't overdo it.
I'm just a normal bloke.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally chunky I just think your a top guy the ladies love you the men wanna be like you and you have the best wing man on fab lol
Oh shush you, don't overdo it.
I'm just a normal bloke. "
What you are is a friend something that is very desirable your funny and your an open book. Thats why people like you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Of course having a hot tub doesn’t come in to play at all!
You got a hot tub and I’m afraid it won’t make a slight bit of difference!
So you can always lend me yours and I can look after it whilst you follow everyone pointers!
Or come and join me. I'll get the bubbles going. "
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want.
Don't get jealous
Don't lamp post piss"
But lamp post pissing is so much fun though.
I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well. |
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want.
Don't get jealous
Don't lamp post piss
But lamp post pissing is so much fun though.
I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well."
There is a penis receptacle?  |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want.
Don't get jealous
Don't lamp post piss
But lamp post pissing is so much fun though.
I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well."
I try to treat a woman like a friend. If anything else sparks then all the better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't get narky if you don't get a response or its not the response you want.
Don't get jealous
Don't lamp post piss
But lamp post pissing is so much fun though.
I think that if you talk to women like women, not penis receptacles, you tend to do well."
I sometimes mess around pretending to lamp post piss but anyone that knows me also knows I'm to much of a flirt and I'm never serious. I like to have fun and treat ladies with respect though I do get a bit cheeky |
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message.
Nice post OP
Jo x
Jo what if like me you can't read???? "
You are more than capable of reading!!
Otherwise ask a friend to help maybe??
Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Be yourself and for goodness sake read the profile before sending a message.
Nice post OP
Jo x
Jo what if like me you can't read????
You are more than capable of reading!!
Otherwise ask a friend to help maybe??
Xx"
I dont have friends I'm so lonely  |
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I have to say from lurking in here a while now, there are quite a few gents who come across well in the forum's, OP included. A lot of men could learn something from hanging about in here for a bit x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us  "
I know it does you poor souls... |
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us
I know it does you poor souls... "
And we will burn your cottages if you buy them in Wales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour. "
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
Yeah especially with the Welsh!
Yes, because it confuses us
I know it does you poor souls...
And we will burn your cottages if you buy them in Wales "
Even if my late grandad was Welsh |
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing "
Putting it that way I now like it |
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Putting it that way I now like it "
I get it |
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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago
liverpool wavertree picton clock |
"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Putting it that way I now like it
I get it "
Thanks  |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing "
Ouch |
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By *hunky Gent OP Man
over a year ago
Maldon and Peterborough |
"I can't imagine anyone reading this and thinking it applies to them though. Even if it does."
But if just one person reads it and thinks twice before posting next time, then it's a success. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Ouch "
It's OK Chunky, he knows I'm only playing with him x |
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums."
Jeremy Corbyn? |
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"Don’t lamppost piss
Heard this a lot on here. But what does it mean?
When you heap praise on people which is over the top and is done to try and gain favour.
For Example...
Welshkinky I think you are amazing,so funny, and I love all your pictures, and the chats we have make me hot hot hot
Thank kind of thing
Ouch
It's OK Chunky, he knows I'm only playing with him x"
Yes I do... and these tears are through hay fever honest x |
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums.
Jeremy Corbyn?"
As much as it would amuse me to see him on here he's just a tad outside my age range  . |
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"Be patient and don’t post when your pissed.
Don’t bite when someone is trolling a thread or saying something designed to get a reaction (that way lies madness and a spell on the naughty step).
Don’t be creepy, greedy or needy."
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums.
Jeremy Corbyn?
I thought as it was easter anyone with the JC initials would be apt
As much as it would amuse me to see him on here he's just a tad outside my age range . "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums."
So is politics an aye or a noe? I think this might be where I’ve been going wrong |
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"Oh, and avoid politics and religion as has been said a few times
This one makes me laugh as it was specifically his political posts that attracted me to someone I met off the forums.
So is politics an aye or a noe? I think this might be where I’ve been going wrong "
I guess it's a polarizing thing. It's always going to attract some and put off others. |
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