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"I don't think I'm that good at it but I don't know, I'm not on the receiving end. I've almost how forgotten and that's quite sad. I must flirt more with B, we don't do anywhere near enough and that's even sadder P" Slight change of subject, but do you bother buying full size blankets? or are you ok with just getting inside a pillow case? | |||
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. " Come teach please | |||
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"I’m hopeless at it. I think for some it comes across as endearing though which is handy " I bet you're endearing | |||
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"I’m rubbish
Liar, liar. Knickers on fire "I’m not wearing any  | |||
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"I can't in person, I'm terrible at it How I'm not a virgin I'll never know" No such thing as a virgin prince i've heard | |||
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. Come teach please "It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting  | |||
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"I’m rubbish
Liar, liar. Knickers on fire
I’m not wearing any "Fanny on fire then | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are "I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art | |||
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"I don't think I'm that good at it but I don't know, I'm not on the receiving end. I've almost how forgotten and that's quite sad. I must flirt more with B, we don't do anywhere near enough and that's even sadder P Slight change of subject, but do you bother buying full size blankets? or are you ok with just getting inside a pillow case?" Pillow cases are just the ticket P | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art"Don’t you just do this....... | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art
Don’t you just do this....... "Are you flirting with me | |||
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. Come teach please
It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting "Agreed. Flirting I think is a bit like business sense. It's something you don't necessarily learn. You either have a knack for it or don't. | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art"Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating. | |||
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"I'm a natural flirt, and I do love a good flirt, and without wanting to sound big headed, I am fairly successful with flirting. Mr, however on the other hand couldn't flirt if his life depended on it." All evened out then | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art
Don’t you just do this....... "That would work with those that don't get it. So yeah. Carry on | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on " Nailed it pen pal! | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on " Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops | |||
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"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it. " 
Own it girl. 
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. Come teach please
It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting "Are u flirting with, now | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art
Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating. "Again, I agree  | |||
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"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.
Own it girl.
Jo.Xx "  love you xx | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops "Ooops. Silly me!!! | |||
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. Come teach please
It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting
Are u flirting with, now "What do you think? | |||
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"I love banter and inuendo.... When i really like someone i get intense "The innuendo is particularly satisfying when both people "get it" | |||
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"I can pass truthful compliments with ease, but I'd rather concentrate on nsa courtship of a friend/relationship then partake in meaningless flirting with lots on here" Lol that wasn't the question | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops "Did you accidentally type that without realising | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art
Don’t you just do this.......
Are you flirting with me "I’m always trying too, first time you noticed | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising "I think some people log in without realising! | |||
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"I love banter and inuendo.... When i really like someone i get intense "Agree, it can get very intense with the right person | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising "Silly me | |||
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"I'm a natural flirt, not always a good thing though, has been known to get me in to trouble a few times. " Depends on the situation, context and vibe. Knowing when not to flirt is nearly as important as knowing who to do so. | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising! " that made me laugh more than it should | |||
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Aww he's learnt to flirt forum style"Emojis are a lifesaver | |||
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"Cue everyone telling you how crap they are
I think with more people talking via text, flirting has become a bit of a lost art
Nah can still flirt via text... it's just different. I think many on here really struggle with the different ways of communicating. "Yes you can on text, I mean flirting in person has become a bit of a lost art. | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising!
that made me laugh more than it should "I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please "With the right person yes it just flows. | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising!
that made me laugh more than it should
I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life"Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there? | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows. "Bit of a rush isn't it? | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising!
that made me laugh more than it should
I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life
Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there? "Have I offended you? I don't know you so it was unintentional. I'm here for comedic value nothing else. | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it? "It most certainly is, can’t get enough  | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising!
that made me laugh more than it should
I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life
Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there?
Have I offended you? I don't know you so it was unintentional. I'm here for comedic value nothing else. "No, no, it takes a hell of a lot to offend. Just wondered and may indeed have read it wrongly, for which I apologise. | |||
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"Apparently I do it without knowing it in person but I can also be quite blunt with it. Other ways I can instigate it or react, as long it flows smoothly it works. If you find you are not understanding each other and having to explain some comments then it’s not working, connection is not right so just move on Yeah I've been told I flirt by accident. Oops
Did you accidentally type that without realising
I think some people log in without realising!
that made me laugh more than it should
I'm here till lockdown is lifted. Then I have a life
Not sure if reading back through the chain, that there's a bit of a dig there? "No dig at all | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it?
It most certainly is, can’t get enough "What a coincidence, neither can I! | |||
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"I'm brilliant at it and love it. Not sure I'd be any good at "pulling" if I was crap at flirting. Come teach please
It isn't something you can teach. If you haven't got "it" you'll be crap at flirting
Are u flirting with, now
What do you think?"Who u minx, u are, aren’t u | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it?
It most certainly is, can’t get enough
What a coincidence, neither can I! "A good thing to have in common that’s for sure. anymore boxes ticked then lol | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it?
It most certainly is, can’t get enough
What a coincidence, neither can I!
A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.
anymore boxes ticked then lol "Get out the checklist | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it?
It most certainly is, can’t get enough
What a coincidence, neither can I!
A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.
anymore boxes ticked then lol
Get out the checklist "Yours or mine | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please
With the right person yes it just flows.
Bit of a rush isn't it?
It most certainly is, can’t get enough
What a coincidence, neither can I!
A good thing to have in common that’s for sure.
anymore boxes ticked then lol
Get out the checklist
Yours or mine "On the count of 3? | |||
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that's all I know how to do
If only emojis are in real life I'd have more success where I'm oblivious ha | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. " You flirty tart, you | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you "My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!! | |||
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"I’m completely shite at it "Not from what i've observed | |||
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"I’m completely shite at it
Not from what i've observed "Are you watching me | |||
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or  . An example - woof woof to me is not sexy or flirty in the slightest but hey, it just means I'm not compatible.
I think flirting can also be rather, well dull. I mean sure, it's fun and nice and can be sexy if done well. But the thing that adds an extra turbocharge to a dynamic for me is openness and mental stimulation, not silky smooth lines delivered in a well practised tone.
(I'm not making deliberate reference to anyone, sorry if you're the sexy woofer person but that was the first example I could think of ) | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!"Aww...luves you  | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Aww...luves you " x | |||
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"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it "We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!"Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people | |||
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"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it
We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler "High praise indeed from a master | |||
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"I’m a natural flirt, love it and I’m good at it.
Own it girl.
Jo.Xx
love you xx"Love you beautiful
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"I don't know if I agree with this idea that you can flirt or you can't. I think most people, whether it's a brash, in your face flirting style or a geeky, introverted style (they are just two examples of flirting styles) are able to flirt. What actually counts is the person that you're flirting with being on the same wavelength. Like if you're an outsider looking in some flirting can be a bit or . An example - woof woof to me is not sexy or flirty in the slightest but hey, it just means I'm not compatible.
I think flirting can also be rather, well dull. I mean sure, it's fun and nice and can be sexy if done well. But the thing that adds an extra turbocharge to a dynamic for me is openness and mental stimulation, not silky smooth lines delivered in a well practised tone.
(I'm not making deliberate reference to anyone, sorry if you're the sexy woofer person but that was the first example I could think of )"I like this. I think this is right. I get a build up of rapport and excitement through conversation. I don't always clock that the other person is interested, but I certainly can get excited myself by a building "vibe" or dynamic. And for me it's very rarely traditional flirting. It's a passionate engaging conversation plus something I can't quantify/ describe in body language and facial expression. | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people "Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! | |||
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"I could flirt with a paper bag. This has the unfortunate side effect of everyone thinking I've got the hots for them. "That would be a sight to see! | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people
Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! "Sorry | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people
Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! "Shit, is that why you like me | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people
Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them!
Sorry ". I meant more in real life but I’ve encountered a few here as well | |||
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"I’m a terrible flirt and good at it
We've crossed flirtational swords before. You're a skilled dueler
High praise indeed from a master "Well met, Padawan | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people
Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them!
Shit, is that why you like me"Hahaha. That didn’t come out as I meant it to | |||
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"You either are or you aren’t. I don’t think you can’t try to be/try not to be flirty. You flirty tart, you
My friendliness gets mistaken for flirting so so much though. On here and in real life. All the time!!
Me too Nora I find it so hard to be mean to people
Same. I talk to anyone and everyone I do. It’s a standing joke with my friends that I’m a weirdo magnet . I always get them! " | |||
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"I’m completely shite at it "That's a big fat lie | |||
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"I'm a fabulous flirt I must say - comes very naturally to me "Handy isn't it? | |||
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"I’m completely shite at it
That's a big fat lie " | |||
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"I'm wank at flirting.... " I'm flirt at wanking Sophie | |||
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"I'm wank at flirting.... I'm flirt at wanking Sophie "Hahahaaa want to swap techniques? | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. " I'll get me coat | |||
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"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?" Yes | |||
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"I'm naturally warm .. it gets mistaken for flirty. My actual flirting is so over the top I have to have a word with myself. But sometimes I go the other way if I'm very attracted to someone and can go all neutral or shy. But in short .. I'm naturally warm, friendly, flirty " This is me too.
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"I'm wank at flirting.... I'm flirt at wanking Sophie
Hahahaaa want to swap techniques? "If we got ourselves all mixed up, we'd come out on top. Or possibly on the bottom. Who knows | |||
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"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are? Yes " Another yes vote here, we both agree. | |||
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"Does anyone feel there's a link between how well you flirt and how naturally outgoing or reserved you are?" Yes I do. I'm flirty and quite a 'go getter'. I have confidence to walk up to a stranger eg in a club and make conversation and flirt. Mr on the other hand stands back and would never make a first move. | |||
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"Im not hot , black, straight or even a guy but its your arse that makes you good at fliting, surely" Depends if you're talking out of it. Lol | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. " That's true, too. | |||
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"I’m a good flitter , I’m good at reading body language, eye contact and just a spark you know when you meet Someone. You just know that sexual attraction. X" Completely agree | |||
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"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now." Clearly a link then. | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. That's true, too." Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle | |||
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"Whenever I'm d*unk, there are no lines for me "What’s your poison | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. That's true, too. Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle " Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different. | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober" That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that. | |||
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"How good at it are you? Do you enjoy it, engage in it? Does it come naturally or seem like part enigma part herculean effort? Indulge me please "Depends on who you are flirting with it kinda like a comedy if you don't get the right reply or response, even the best lines or actions ain't going to work. | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. That's true, too. Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different." Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman. | |||
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"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now. Clearly a link then." I think there is. When I was more extroverted I did it unconsciously at times. Whereas now I pick and choose my moments.my flirting is less overt now and more subtle and often involves wordplay and skewing a conversation that is otherwise innocent. | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that. "Mines a gin or ameretto! | |||
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"I flirted more often and more outrageously when I was more extroverted than I do now. Clearly a link then. I think there is. When I was more extroverted I did it unconsciously at times. Whereas now I pick and choose my moments.my flirting is less overt now and more subtle and often involves wordplay and skewing a conversation that is otherwise innocent." I get where your coming from. I really do | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!"You're on. (after this lockdown)  | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!
You're on. (after this lockdown) "Haha, deal! | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!
You're on. (after this lockdown)
Haha, deal! "Now, Where's that virus remedy?? | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!
You're on. (after this lockdown)
Haha, deal!
Now, Where's that virus remedy?? "If you can create that you’d be rich enough not need plain Jane me flirting with you | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!
You're on. (after this lockdown)
Haha, deal!
Now, Where's that virus remedy??
If you can create that you’d be rich enough not need plain Jane me flirting with you "Money wouldn't change me and there's nothing plain about you. | |||
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"I’m top notch when d*unk. An embarrassment when sober That's got to be worth buying you a few drinks one day to see that.
Mines a gin or ameretto!"Gin is great. I like Plymouth. Nothin beats a Martini or a gin fizz | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. That's true, too. Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different. Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman. " I think the unfortunate varieties of flirting, those who have really grown into looks or confidence tend to avoid it, because in our formative years we were given way less slack for our fuckups. | |||
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"I think it’s very much dependant on the recipient. I know some guys think they’re amazing at it when actually they just come across smarmy. That's true, too. Do you think it’s easier for women to flirt than a guy to not come across smarmy? Think women’s flirting it much more subtle Oh no, women can be bad too. But not smarmy like men can be. It's different. Oh I agree women can be bad but if a blokes bad it more often than not comes across smarmy. But like you say it’s different for woman. I think the unfortunate varieties of flirting, those who have really grown into looks or confidence tend to avoid it, because in our formative years we were given way less slack for our fuckups." I just think some men are s*t at foreplay. I really do honestly think some men just flirt with anyone. And they absolutely love the attention. They are married or attached and really enjoy the attention they get on here. That’s ok as there’s probably women who do it. ! Cool. | |||
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You can feel the chemistry if it’s a reciprocal match but not all are. As I was discussing earlier too - I’m not particularly fond of or adept at sexting but if it’s with someone who uses the right language without turning it into a crude / vulgar conversation it can be .... erm .... hornilicious | |||
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