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By *otsossie OP Man
over a year ago
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Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?
I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.
But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?
I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one 
Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!
Just my boyish good looks, honest  |
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"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?
I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.
But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?
I don't accept friend requests or share face pics straight away. I don't see anything wrong with being cautious these days. As long as you remain polite people shouldn't get the hump over it. But that's just my opinion
I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one
Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!
Just my boyish good looks, honest "
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over a year ago
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"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?
I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.
But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?
I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one
Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!
Just my boyish good looks, honest "
Were always cautious on fab. Too many fake profiles ect on here.
Id say their loss 
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"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?
I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.
But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?
I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one
Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!
Just my boyish good looks, honest "
you can't appeal to everyone but most won't converse unless they are happy with your face so I'd get onto taking one you're happy with sooner rather than later    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very cautious especially as alot of the messages i receive are fuck now ones lol but i like to chat to get to know the person first before jumping into bed with them. Been catfished on here twice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop it, I’m getting all frisky from the atttention
New profile pic shows all you’re getting for now. This wasn’t intended as attention seeking "
That’s just teasing lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Being cautious is definitely the best attitude on fab. I'm the same with face pics, if the men can't understand that I need to get to know them before sending one, then they can move on. |
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It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.
If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam  |
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"It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.
If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam "
Damn! Is it? I'm booked in for an all you can eat tea and cake fest after lockdown finishes, I've paid my £150 deposit redeemable against cake and everything  |
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"We sent face pictures to a man once and he immediately deleted his profile. We're mingers of the first order
Hmmm it’s well dodgy isn’t it?"
We just thought he either knew us and we knew his wife or we are so awful that he deleted his profile and joined the priesthood. |
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"Am I wrong for being a bit cagey and cautious on here?
I reckon I’ve had a couple of catfishings, pretend women/couples especially.
But is it normal to get blocked for taking too long to respond to a message?
I’m not mad keen on sharing face pics after I got called “baby face” by one of the stunning ladies on here, so I maybe bide my time on that until I think I’ve got a half decent one
Not that there’s owt wrong with my face!
Just my boyish good looks, honest "
Fellow baby-face here, stay strong! a blessing and a curse at times |
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By *otsossie OP Man
over a year ago
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"I don't send face pics anymore, I haven't done that for years, Not really interested in sending random messages to people either, OP I'd send a pic when you want to not when they ask "
Yeah that’s how I’m playing it but it seems to be instablock territory.
Oh well, I suppose beating them all off with a shitty stick was getting dull anyway. |
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"It pays to be cautious on here and anywhere on the internet. You kind of develop a sixth sense after a while.
If someone messages me offering free tea and as much cake as I can eat - it’s probably a scam
Damn! Is it? I'm booked in for an all you can eat tea and cake fest after lockdown finishes, I've paid my £150 deposit redeemable against cake and everything "
That sounds like my kind of scam |
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"I don't send face pics anymore, I haven't done that for years, Not really interested in sending random messages to people either, OP I'd send a pic when you want to not when they ask
Yeah that’s how I’m playing it but it seems to be instablock territory.
Oh well, I suppose beating them all off with a shitty stick was getting dull anyway. "
At 45 its better to look 10 years younger then 10 years older |
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"I'd say that caution on any social media is a good thing
Wise words as always.
Hello stingly my ole mucker how are you?"
All good thanks buddy.
Getting a few projects sorted out, in between waiting on the cats hand and foot.
All good with you I hope? |
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But I’ve had dms from some others I’m less sure about. 