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Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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If not To young its a blessing. As they are very eager to please if you get me. Also they can reload and some ive fucked can go all night, even wake you up between your legs  |
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"God I don’t want a younger guy ever
And I wouldn’t teach him anything anyway  "
I think 3 years younger is the most I’d ever go, it really has got a lot to do with a guys maturity for me.
Lol and I’m sure we all teach something new from time to time  |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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You need to go for someone about 10 years older |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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I wouldn’t go for a guy at all |
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over a year ago
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"Were the same age
Gutted 
She won’t be
That's just mean
Same age would always be on the table and usually what I go for but I’m just curious "
Then my offer to motor boat you is still on the table  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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Erm... I've not really found those choices.  I mean sure, there are a few younger inexperienced men but on the same hand age doesn't always reflect on experience levels. I generally prefer older men: not because they could "teach me a thing or two" (I'm not *that* inexperienced) but I just find them more attractive. |
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"I definitely don’t have a preference with regards to experience, it would be mood based I think, like right now it would be ‘let me show you’ but later it might be ‘show me what you’ve got’
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Ohhh D I very much like that answer  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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There is experience, particularly life experience that is only acquired through age. It may not be readily apparent but will often show in little details here and there.
This is not to equate experience with maturity, as they are not one and the same. Too often people confuse both. |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Erm... I've not really found those choices. I mean sure, there are a few younger inexperienced men but on the same hand age doesn't always reflect on experience levels. I generally prefer older men: not because they could "teach me a thing or two" (I'm not *that* inexperienced) but I just find them more attractive."
No I totally agree with you there I just find that older guys just come across differently from the younger guys.
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"Were the same age
Gutted
She won’t be
That's just mean
Same age would always be on the table and usually what I go for but I’m just curious
Then my offer to motor boat you is still on the table "
if that’s all you want lol |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older "
10 years might seem a little too much?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Were the same age
Gutted
She won’t be
That's just mean
Same age would always be on the table and usually what I go for but I’m just curious
Then my offer to motor boat you is still on the table
if that’s all you want lol"
Thats just the foreplay |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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if i were you I'd go for an older guy its like john west forget the rest  |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
There is experience, particularly life experience that is only acquired through age. It may not be readily apparent but will often show in little details here and there.
This is not to equate experience with maturity, as they are not one and the same. Too often people confuse both."
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"Were the same age
Gutted
She won’t be
That's just mean
Same age would always be on the table and usually what I go for but I’m just curious
Then my offer to motor boat you is still on the table
if that’s all you want lol
Thats just the foreplay "
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
if i were you I'd go for an older guy its like john west forget the rest "
It’s always been older for me but recently I have lowered my age range by 1 lol |
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"I definitely don’t have a preference with regards to experience, it would be mood based I think, like right now it would be ‘let me show you’ but later it might be ‘show me what you’ve got’
D.
Ohhh D I very much like that answer "
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over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
if i were you I'd go for an older guy its like john west forget the rest
It’s always been older for me but recently I have lowered my age range by 1 lol"
by 1 yearlol |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Erm... I've not really found those choices. I mean sure, there are a few younger inexperienced men but on the same hand age doesn't always reflect on experience levels. I generally prefer older men: not because they could "teach me a thing or two" (I'm not *that* inexperienced) but I just find them more attractive.
No I totally agree with you there I just find that older guys just come across differently from the younger guys.
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That's the experience |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Erm... I've not really found those choices. I mean sure, there are a few younger inexperienced men but on the same hand age doesn't always reflect on experience levels. I generally prefer older men: not because they could "teach me a thing or two" (I'm not *that* inexperienced) but I just find them more attractive.
No I totally agree with you there I just find that older guys just come across differently from the younger guys.
That's the experience "
Yeah. Possibly. I'm normally all for the older men. I just hate that cliched "teach a thing or two" and age, it's a bit Lolita-esque.
*I'm also realising that I'm not the target audience for the OP. I do like older men! |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??"
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here? |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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I can give you another option; an older guy who’ll teach you absolutely nothing new.
Winner |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here? "
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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Take them both to bed and get the best of both worlds |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Ahh just pick me
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Take them both to bed and get the best of both worlds "
Haha yay a threesome |
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over a year ago
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
Take them both to bed and get the best of both worlds
Haha yay a threesome "
Seems like the easiest way to choose  |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here?
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older "
I only ask because I'm not convinced you'd feel the same in ten years time. And if that's the case, there's no point in putting in an arbitrary limit like that. |
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"most guys that I'm attracted to are younger...mid thirties is young enouhh for me.
For me, age doesn't mean I'm gonna teach them anything.
I certainly ain't got all the moves."
By the time this is all over and people are meeting again I'll probably be young/mid thirties  |
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"most guys that I'm attracted to are younger...mid thirties is young enouhh for me.
For me, age doesn't mean I'm gonna teach them anything.
I certainly ain't got all the moves."
i have |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here?
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older
I only ask because I'm not convinced you'd feel the same in ten years time. And if that's the case, there's no point in putting in an arbitrary limit like that."
We all change with age don’t we. Today I feel a certain way and tomorrow might be different.
I’ve generally always gone for older guys but 6 years has been the max.
It really does come down to the connection you have. These things are just the initial first steps, if someone is ticking my boxes than age doesn’t play a big part.
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here?
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older
I only ask because I'm not convinced you'd feel the same in ten years time. And if that's the case, there's no point in putting in an arbitrary limit like that.
We all change with age don’t we. Today I feel a certain way and tomorrow might be different.
I’ve generally always gone for older guys but 6 years has been the max.
It really does come down to the connection you have. These things are just the initial first steps, if someone is ticking my boxes than age doesn’t play a big part.
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There's a simpler solution just say fuck it and pick this Welsh guy instead  |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here?
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older
I only ask because I'm not convinced you'd feel the same in ten years time. And if that's the case, there's no point in putting in an arbitrary limit like that.
We all change with age don’t we. Today I feel a certain way and tomorrow might be different.
I’ve generally always gone for older guys but 6 years has been the max.
It really does come down to the connection you have. These things are just the initial first steps, if someone is ticking my boxes than age doesn’t play a big part.
There's a simpler solution just say fuck it and pick this Welsh guy instead "
I’m guessing you’re into older women. What’s a guys max??
Most have 18-99 on their profiles lol |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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I’d say I’ve had enough experience from being about 25. My first LTR was 6 yrs older and I met her when I was 20. I think since then and up to being 25 I’ve just had new experiences working out what I like and what I don’t rather than gaining experience itself, so if I were you, I’d not discount younger guys due to ‘experience’. Granted I was very lucky to have an experienced older girlfriend for 5 years.
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"I dont mind younger or older. Experience doesnt mean much to me because I'm terrible in bed anyway
Oh POF you sell yourself really well lol
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
You need to go for someone about 10 years older
10 years might seem a little too much??
Okay, I'm intrigued. Why? Is there some sort of logic in play here?
If the right person came along then yes it wouldn’t be an issue, I’ve just not found someone who ticks the boxes for me and are 10 years older.
I might try lifting the age limit for a bit and see if someone peeks my interest who’s 10 years older
I only ask because I'm not convinced you'd feel the same in ten years time. And if that's the case, there's no point in putting in an arbitrary limit like that.
We all change with age don’t we. Today I feel a certain way and tomorrow might be different.
I’ve generally always gone for older guys but 6 years has been the max.
It really does come down to the connection you have. These things are just the initial first steps, if someone is ticking my boxes than age doesn’t play a big part.
There's a simpler solution just say fuck it and pick this Welsh guy instead
I’m guessing you’re into older women. What’s a guys max??
Most have 18-99 on their profiles lol"
I'd say my max is 50 |
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"I play with both age ranges, experience means nothing to me, its the ability to listen and read my body, responding to me and take me to pleasurable highs that I am looking for in a man "
There are plenty of young guys out there who are emotionally mature and enough old blokes who haven’t learned anything in life’s journey.
Age can be a guideline, but it’s no substitute for the “is this bloke a twat?” question |
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I think a younger guy will be in it for the sex and something to tell his mates about. You'd just be another notch on the bed post. An older guy may have the same traits but is more likely to appreciate you as a person more. An older guy would do his upmost to protect you and look after you and make you feel loved and wanted |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
If not To young its a blessing. As they are very eager to please if you get me. Also they can reload and some ive fucked can go all night, even wake you up between your legs "
I bet you had a fair few younger that also disappoint and have shot there kid way to quickly to handle a women like you... who is sexy and rather Hungary to be pleased repeatedlly |
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I think some older women like the power they have over the younger guys and the embarrassment they cause upon these young guys when they cum so quickly as they are not experienced enough to handle a women correctly. |
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"I think a younger guy will be in it for the sex and something to tell his mates about. You'd just be another notch on the bed post. An older guy may have the same traits but is more likely to appreciate you as a person more. An older guy would do his upmost to protect you and look after you and make you feel loved and wanted"
Awww that’s been the best answer for me by far
Mr Bants clearly knows what I’m after |
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"Confused from all the choices we have on here.
Would you go for an older guy who has the experience, more mature and could teach you a thing or two
Or a younger guy who you could teach a thing or two?
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Well as it is a swinging site and life is about having lots of experience and fun why could you not just enjoy both?. You will get great experience from both just in a completely different way. Try not to overthink it, if you are mentally and physically attracted just go and have fun xx |
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"I dont mind younger or older. Experience doesnt mean much to me because I'm terrible in bed anyway
Oh POF you sell yourself really well lol
At least you can never call me a liar"
Won’t be getting my hopes up then |
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"God I don’t want a younger guy ever
Seriously I absolutely do not want a younger guy
And even less an older guy
Even if he were the same age I dont want him
Does that help ? "
Let me get this right, just ladies for you then is that correct  |
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Blimey I forgot to say older guys for me, always been attracted to older men, I tried younger guys but it just doesn’t work, I don’t want to be anyone’s teacher! The youngest I would go is 45 now that I’m an old bird |
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"I think a younger guy will be in it for the sex and something to tell his mates about. You'd just be another notch on the bed post. An older guy may have the same traits but is more likely to appreciate you as a person more. An older guy would do his upmost to protect you and look after you and make you feel loved and wanted
Awww that’s been the best answer for me by far
Mr Bants clearly knows what I’m after "
I'm at that age where I could be either of those men. If I was to settle down though, which I would like to do, I'd like to settle down with someone around 5-10 years younger than me who knew what they wanted in life. |
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