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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
When I first signed up to the site, posting pics was something I knew was necessary if I hoped to attract anyone, but something I dreaded as (a) I'm not that creative and (b) I wasn't sure I had a body worth showing off
With time and a little practice though I came to find that actually I was wrong about (a) and through that grew in confidence about (b)
Have been bereft of both ideas and time lately but generally speaking it's been something I've come to enjoy doing when I put my mind to it and I do it these days as much for myself as to attract others |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I quite like chatting with a girl and swapping pictures etc. Doesnt have to be sexy ones but if they are, I quite like knowing they were taken for me and vice versa.
Uploading any for fab is purely to let folk have a glimpse of who I am.....and the odd forum game. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I normally shy away from the camera and have done all my life, but the relative anonymity here let's me be brave and I also think if you are to be successful on here as a guy you need to post pictures. The challenges I take pics for because they are fun and it would be rude talking to you folk and not joining in  |
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I post my pics on here to show some others what I am into kink wise and others are direct memories of people I've met and I want to show that I'm thinking of them, I wouldn't show pics of me and them, they are private for my memories.
Sexting wise I communicate with pics its lots of fun for me and a like minded man  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I post them more for myself to be honest. I have fun taking them but I don't post everything I take.
I do share some in private with friend's which is nice. I appreciate a well taken pic so it's not always about perving, although I'm a huge perve |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go through phases. I’ll take quite a few then I won’t bother for months. I don’t like cam/FaceTime so I don’t do that, apart from with someone I’m seeing regularly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
A mix of reasons.....
A confidence boost when people like them, to push my boundaries about how open I can be and feel a bit more courageous and carefree from doing so; ‘quid pro quo’ maybe to a lesser extent, but given how freely available a lot of very nice explicit pics are here, you don’t often have to give to receive.
Perhaps a little bit of exhibitionism, but I’d rather look better than I do now. If I get there, every pic of me will be naked!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
We post pocs, so others know we are real and can decide if we are the kind of people they might consider meeting. |
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I find if you don't post pictures every now and then your profile gets quiet and receive less messages or people interested.
So for me it's to get me on the updates I guess so I might catch someone's eye with a pic they like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do it because its hot haha. We love to see what we’re getting and think that’s true of anyone looking to swing, can’t see many people turning up on a blind date, most of us aren’t desperate for a shag we’re looking for additional mind blowing sex |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not so keen on sharing videos I always feel a bit like I am forcing my parts on them, despite me doing just that very thing this morning,poor sod! but in general I just put up a pic I like. I like watching others videos though probably more than just pictures. |
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Being a skinny lad, when I first joined fab (all those years ago), I mainly just showed my knob as I had zero self confidence and low self esteem.
To post a body picture took a huge push from me and over the years I have pushed myself further and further trying to find a sense of well being with the way I look.
Now I accept I am who I am and therefore post pictures that make me feel good and hopefully attract the occasional strumpet..... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why do you do it OP? You post photos quite oft and it will be interesting to read why you do."
I guess to show off a bit. I'm naturally shy and not one to be noticed but on here I can be a bit more risqué and show a side to myself usually reserved for those I'm being intimate with.
Obviously I want to attract people too and having that physical starting point is a different experience for me, I'm not "sexy" and I wouldn't turn heads so to have that here is exciting and fits with the nature of the site. |
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By *r SxxMan
over a year ago
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Good question.
It's wierd because I'm actually quite shy in real life and not very body confident, but here I feel more happy to share/ I push myself to do it.
..... Also boredom plays a big part Haha |
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"I find if you don't post pictures every now and then your profile gets quiet and receive less messages or people interested.
So for me it's to get me on the updates I guess so I might catch someone's eye with a pic they like. "
Also boosts your confidence getting fabs or a compliment on 1 or 2 of them. Especially if you are self conscious like me about being so skinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy taking pictures, in fact I've got a bit addicted to it  .
I'm enjoying developing my techniques to get better pictures, what angles work for me, backdrops etc
Validation would be nice, but I don't seem to get a huge amount of fabs (cries in the corner)
It's all fun at the end of the day though |
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
A lot of questions there OP!
For me I do enjoy the instant gratification that posting a picture does for me personally, also before an event I sometimes post one up, to chat to people before attending!   |
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Enjoy posting them and hubby enjoys taking them
Don't send other pics to anyone really unless it's a face pic.
Like fabs on then and messaging after.
But generally I'm not someone who posts pics of myself on other social media.
It's the anonymity of it I guess.
Jo x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I enjoy taking pictures, in fact I've got a bit addicted to it .
I'm enjoying developing my techniques to get better pictures, what angles work for me, backdrops etc
Validation would be nice, but I don't seem to get a huge amount of fabs (cries in the corner)
It's all fun at the end of the day though "
I always fab your pics  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
pics serve a very small purpose for me, they let me know body and hopefully face but they really have no significance sexually  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I enjoy taking pictures, in fact I've got a bit addicted to it .
I'm enjoying developing my techniques to get better pictures, what angles work for me, backdrops etc
Validation would be nice, but I don't seem to get a huge amount of fabs (cries in the corner)
It's all fun at the end of the day though
I always fab your pics "
Yes you do |
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I just enjoy experimenting with different looks & styles. I hope it encourages others like me to do the same & vary appearance. I do have my favourite look but it isn't half good fun trying new stuff out. I'm naturally very shy so Gemma kinda gives me a chance to be brave & yes, show off a little when I wouldn't dare do anything as a guy. My location means I'm off the radar for a wider audience so my pic fabs are usually quite low. I'm not bothered as such, but seeing what others like guides me for future choices & direction I should go. I suppose missing out on teenage make up lessons that females learn young, doing it now is like wow this is a whole new world & so much fun to try! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"I like to think I brighten someone’s day 
To the point of needing five pairs of sunglasses at one time and Factor 1000 sunblock "
Well I’m a red head you can’t look and not expect to get burned a little |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attraction and showing off are interchangeable. Especially on here. We attract others by showing off the pictures we take of ourselves from an imagined third-person point of view.
Through self-objectification we hope to get validation of some sort. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
I post photos here because I like to show off, it makes me feel good. I don't get off on it a d it doesn't do anything for me sexually but it is a confidence boost.
I don't do 1:1 picture or video sharing though. I just post whatever I feel like posting on my profile and people can look at it if they choose to.
Also, I hate when people tell me they're wanking over my pictures, I don't care if they do, I'd just prefer not to know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's a mixed bag for me. I don't really like pics of myself and so have a few carefully selected ones.
Of course I choose profile pics that have an impact but I don't have that many pics on my profile. If I'm playing a game, I may choose something with a impact value, but I'm not an avid pic swapper. I like an idea of what the person looks like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I enjoy the process of taking them. Posting them is more of a dot over 'i'. Helps me see what is considered attractive visually. Gives me a good shallow boost. |
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Majority of mine last year were for challenges. Sometimes I just get an idea in my head and go with it.
I post the pics because I like them, if others do to that’s a plus. I do find it interesting what gets fabbed and what doesn’t.
I do go through stages of covering up to all out there, well except the lady, she’s never on show.
As for swapping, if I do, that’s a very personal thing between myself and the other person and it’s part of a build up to a meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I struggled at first and my pictures were crap. I got to know people in chat rooms, but over time I started to improve.i got more inspiration when I started using the forum and began to enjoy the creativity. When I lost weight during the latter half of 2016 and 2017 I enjoyed the results a lot more, but the creativity was stifled after getting a whole string of photos rejected. It kind of crushed my enthusiasm. Now I do it because I feel I need to upload a new one every so often but getting creative pics approved is a chore I can do without.
I rarely send pics to others and have only made one video just to see if it got a response.
I guess the novelty has worn off and I’m not that interested in them anymore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I like to think I brighten someone’s day
To the point of needing five pairs of sunglasses at one time and Factor 1000 sunblock
Well I’m a red head you can’t look and not expect to get burned a little "
I thought you were blonde! |
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When we first started we posted pics as an advertisement to potential playmates, coming on here looking for bi females was very daunting and we think that showed in our early pics  but now, the whole process of taking pics is very horny! The planning, setting up and prep build up the anticipation, taking the pics is obviously very horny! Even when I’m cropping them the horn is building up then when they are posted or sent the messages or conversations generated are horny!
We do it -
for the horn!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When we first started we posted pics as an advertisement to potential playmates, coming on here looking for bi females was very daunting and we think that showed in our early pics but now, the whole process of taking pics is very horny! The planning, setting up and prep build up the anticipation, taking the pics is obviously very horny! Even when I’m cropping them the horn is building up then when they are posted or sent the messages or conversations generated are horny!
We do it -
for the horn!
D."
Watching them is horny. Fabbing them gets horny. Enlarging for detail.. well = horny. Returning for second helping = Hornier.
Sending a compliment and planting a naughty thought = yeah.. did I say horny?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm an exhibitionist. I like to show online as well as in real life (making it look like an accident). The lockdown has put the end to the real life fun but I still have the internet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to have a laugh and hope it shows through pics, if we can give someone a giggle in a world where smiles can be hard to muster at times then huzzah.
B likes the showy offy side to pic taking, whereas for myself it's more the moment captured.
I also find it a kind of therapy in a way. I often have a distorted view of myself and seeing a photo can quite literally take me by surprise or have me in tears in a good way.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The ones on my profile are so that potential meets will know what to expect.
However when I send them to guys I'm dating/have slept with it's for the positive attention or thrill that they are looking at them getting turned on.
I don't send pics at all to people I haven't met. |
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"When we first started we posted pics as an advertisement to potential playmates, coming on here looking for bi females was very daunting and we think that showed in our early pics but now, the whole process of taking pics is very horny! The planning, setting up and prep build up the anticipation, taking the pics is obviously very horny! Even when I’m cropping them the horn is building up then when they are posted or sent the messages or conversations generated are horny!
We do it -
for the horn!
D.
Watching them is horny. Fabbing them gets horny. Enlarging for detail.. well = horny. Returning for second helping = Hornier.
Sending a compliment and planting a naughty thought = yeah.. did I say horny?
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See! Now you’ve got me going again!
D. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to believe you get out what you put in. If you put in effort it shows that care. That’s what mine are trying to do.
I wouldn’t mind pic sharing if they were into it. It shows that you’re comfortable with another to do it, especially face pics. As for dick pics, guess that’s more of an ego thing to show it off but some thing are best kept for the bedroom |
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
I just think the world deserves to see my awesome shoes.
Simple. |
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"Well not me, you.
If you post pics why is it? Just to attract others? To show off? Do you get a thrill from it? If you choose not to why is that?
What about one on one? Do you like swapping pics and vids on a more intimate level?
I've noticed most people who want to pic/vid swap seem to be more keen about sending theirs, why's that? "
Entirely put up pics to try and get meets. New pic every now and again keeps the profile fresh and improves chances people will want to meet. |
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