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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in |
I wink at somebody often and then I will send them a message if I get a returned wink ,,, some ways it's better in a message because if you write a long message out and it's ignored at least a wink it's just a wink ,,, imo anyway  |
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We do reply to winks and get replies back. MrD might be busy but browsing and sends out a wink as a quick 'nice profile' thing.
Sometimes sending a meaningful message takes time rather than the generic 'hi how are you' message.
MsD x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I send a wink to see if I get a response. If not I won't message the person as they are not interested. Thought that was the idea of the wu k system on here. |
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I get why women prefer a message when you see how many messages and winks the get bombarded with constantly - you need something to catch your eye and stand out. However, don’t see anything inherently wrong with winks - women and couples use them too. If there’s a wink and mutual attraction then that’s fine. Generic copy and paste messages are no better! |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"I wink at somebody often and then I will send them a message if I get a returned wink ,,, some ways it's better in a message because if you write a long message out and it's ignored at least a wink it's just a wink ,,, imo anyway "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never wink and completely forget to check the, by the time I remember they’re weeks old and 100s of them"
Same. Don’t think I’ve ever looked at who’s winked. |
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We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi  |
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"We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi "
Seems like the most sensible approach. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anyone ever bother to look at and reply to their winks??
Surely it’s just easier to send a message x"
I do respond with a message if I like the look of them and they’re local. I wink back if they’re too far away, but I like the look of them. I do nothing if I’m not keen.
I don’t send winks as I know they’d be lost in the mountain of winks the profiles I’d go for would get, so it’s pointless. |
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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago
Wiltshire and London |
"We like winks, quicker to establish if there is an initial attraction. If we wink and don’t get a wink back then we move on as we know they aren’t interested. Same the other way around, if we receive a wink from someone we like then will wink back as a come and say hi "
Good to know - if this were more usual it would save a lot of time (which is so scarce nowadays) wasted on carefully crafted introductions that probably never even get a glance. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I got winked by a woman in California many years ago and that lead to a fine evening of my holiday
On here, I do wink but don’t believe it is as good as sending a message but happy to be proven wrong by sending winks this week |
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Winks are a nice subtle was of flirting r saying...I'd love a cuppa tea. 
well at least it keeps us occupied 
