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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is lady I chat to now and then that I would absolutely love to get naked with. She lives across the pond and I do hope to meet her someday, even if it's just to spend a little time in her company  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yes. There's someone I find a bit fascinating, we've spoken a few times but I think they think I'm just a bit weird  "
Yeah I get to the point where I’m like, I’m going to stop messaging you as I’m pretty certain you think I’m strange!!  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Theres 3 that are out of reach for the reasons you listed, that and they might be a bit out of my league "
Rubbish. I don’t believe in leagues. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Theres 3 that are out of reach for the reasons you listed, that and they might be a bit out of my league
Rubbish. I don’t believe in leagues. Everyone is beautiful in their own way. "
Ok shall I say that I will be punching then  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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I did. I'm going to say compatibility wise (it was basically because he wouldn't fancy me in a million years and how do you even switch to that chat?). Now we're friends and I like that a lot. |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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Distance .. if you get the buzz distance is no matter. I'd say still message people. You never know. It depends what you're after. I have followed my instincts on a couple of occasions and found gorgeous connections at the opposite end of the country from here and other sites.
Story of my life though, the majority of my loves and relationships are never local to me x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Distance .. if you get the buzz distance is no matter. I'd say still message people. You never know. It depends what you're after. I have followed my instincts on a couple of occasions and found gorgeous connections at the opposite end of the country from here and other sites.
Story of my life though, the majority of my loves and relationships are never local to me x "
Oh 100% agree. Distance for me is not an issue. You have to go with your gut and if there is a connection. I won’t go into massive detail on my “ultimate man” as he is very active on the forums |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a giggle recently with one of those 'out of reach' people..turns out we both thought that about eachother. Go for it!
And if it's not to be, trust that, and move on x "
So did it happen for you though?! |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
Whitley Bay |
"Distance .. if you get the buzz distance is no matter. I'd say still message people. You never know. It depends what you're after. I have followed my instincts on a couple of occasions and found gorgeous connections at the opposite end of the country from here and other sites.
Story of my life though, the majority of my loves and relationships are never local to me x
Oh 100% agree. Distance for me is not an issue. You have to go with your gut and if there is a connection. I won’t go into massive detail on my “ultimate man” as he is very active on the forums "
You'll have a few wondering and hoping now I'm sure!  |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"I had a giggle recently with one of those 'out of reach' people..turns out we both thought that about eachother. Go for it!
And if it's not to be, trust that, and move on x
So did it happen for you though?! "
Yes, it's happening! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a giggle recently with one of those 'out of reach' people..turns out we both thought that about eachother. Go for it!
And if it's not to be, trust that, and move on x
So did it happen for you though?!
Yes, it's happening! "
wow. Well maybe you are the lesson that everyone that is saying yes needs!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres a few I speak to regularly that I would love to go and meet but I doubt I'd ever get the chance. Perhaps a one off here and there but I'd like more than that. I'm happy chatting away for now and fantasizing about it though. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x"
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would encourage anyone to send out that first message. What ifs are no good, if nothing else at least you would know you took your shot. If they feel the same way then you'll be over the moon with yourself for being brave |
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol "
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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No, if someone is out of reach for things I can't control (age, compatibility etc) then they'd never reach "crush" levels - anything that I can control (distance for instance) there are ways to work round it if the interest is mutual |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead."
What if the filters prevent you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Distance .. if you get the buzz distance is no matter. I'd say still message people. You never know. It depends what you're after. I have followed my instincts on a couple of occasions and found gorgeous connections at the opposite end of the country from here and other sites.
Story of my life though, the majority of my loves and relationships are never local to me x
Oh 100% agree. Distance for me is not an issue. You have to go with your gut and if there is a connection. I won’t go into massive detail on my “ultimate man” as he is very active on the forums "
We need to know who he is to help you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Send the message, filters allowing and what you are actually looking for if distance is the issue, you’ve got nothing to lose and maybe something to gain.
You only live once .. do it ! "
You’re gone again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Described perfectly, OP.
Yes, there's a couple. I haven't burnt all bridges, so who knows when we're released into the wild. I might get my wicked way with them. |
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Out of reach is a difficult thing to quantify. There’s someone on the forums who intrigues me by the way she comes across. I think there’s so much more to her than the image she portrays. I’m in no way her type. Would I class her as a crush though - probably not in that way. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Does everyone have an ultimate Fab crush, that you may or may not have had a conversation with. But they are out of reach. Could be for many reasons. Age, distance, tastes, compatibility.
I’m not shy to admit I do, not to say there are not also some amazing guys that I have or will meet. But there is an ultimate one.  "
A few. |
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"Send the message, filters allowing and what you are actually looking for if distance is the issue, you’ve got nothing to lose and maybe something to gain.
You only live once .. do it !
You’re gone again "
They’ve made me a man  |
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"Out of reach is a difficult thing to quantify. There’s someone on the forums who intrigues me by the way she comes across. I think there’s so much more to her than the image she portrays. I’m in no way her type. Would I class her as a crush though - probably not in that way. "
You never know.... start the conversation  |
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Distance isn't an issue
It just has to be mutual attraction and unfortunately I can sense it
I've talked to a couple of people and then gave them an out of the chat and they took it and never heard back unless I checked in.
Anywho enough about me ha |
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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
What if the filters prevent you "
If filters prevent you then leave it.
Unless they're posting in a thread which involves messaging and have taken their filters down x |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Does everyone have an ultimate Fab crush, that you may or may not have had a conversation with. But they are out of reach. Could be for many reasons. Age, distance, tastes, compatibility.
I’m not shy to admit I do, not to say there are not also some amazing guys that I have or will meet. But there is an ultimate one. "
I think we all have or have had crushes on people that for whatever reason seem out of our reach. If i'm clearly not what they're looking for i'm content to anonymously admire from a distance. If I feel there's a possibility of initiating something, I do. Nothing ventured, nothing gained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A couple of ladies I've messaged and they politely declined, doesn't stop me crushing on them though
The main thing is you reached out
This is what I think..Why not go for it "
You never know what will happen |
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There are a few who I'm too shy to message first and maybe I doubt I'd be what they're looking for either so that stops me messaging too.
I'd be happy to know if i was anyone though and I have had a few lovely surprises on here too so once lockdown is over I'm hoping to get to meet them |
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"I have a lady crush and I have never reached out to a woman before. So I plucked up the courage and was very pleasantly surprised by the response...it made my day.
See you just never know "
This is the beauty of things x |
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"I have a lady crush and I have never reached out to a woman before. So I plucked up the courage and was very pleasantly surprised by the response...it made my day."
We were contacted by a lady for the first time recently. It was lovely to have that happen, actually. |
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"I have a lady crush and I have never reached out to a woman before. So I plucked up the courage and was very pleasantly surprised by the response...it made my day.
We were contacted by a lady for the first time recently. It was lovely to have that happen, actually. "
How.lovely..it was very exciting for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ooh nothing better than a little fab crush "
I've crushed on you guys since your veri popped up on a mutual friend's profile. I was absolutely delighted to meet you both in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Theres a special someone i cant wait to meet, she knows who she is and after all the chats and messages can't wait to see her...in fabsville distance just a minor detail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can say there are 3 or 4 ladies on fab the I do have eyes for that I know I have 100% no chance with at all a couple of them I've spoken do and talk to offen enough and a couple I have either spoken to a couple of times or not at all
And I believe the reason for having no chance is a combination of distance and looks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have, but I’ve mentioned it before in a similar thread, so she knows. I’d be very happy if she said she’d bought a train ticket and made a packed lunch up once this is over |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm gonna wait till this lockdown is over so I can organise a road trip on my bike. Take in a few sights around the UK and make a point of meeting my FAB crushes.....if they'll meet me that is....Whether its for nothing more than a coffee or an overnight stay with a cooked breakfast in the morning! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real "
I think you may be right in some cases but I think for those of us that regularly use the forums we will naturally be drawn to other users regardless of distance and build a connection even know people are miles away.
Its easy to get close to people you chat to regularly with out even thinking about distance until it's to late by which time you already fancy then |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real "
Hmmm that is interesting... I don't pay attention to location until I click with someone, then i think oh bugger |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real "
distance doesn't bother me and everything is real |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real "
It's possible. The person would enjoy a fantasy with little chance of actually acting on it?
Due to my circumstances, i'm distant from everyone but that hasn't been a barrier for me. If I click with someone, I will travel. Where there's mutual want, a way is found, I feel |
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real "
Not me, I've built connections with far away people but also someone who turned out to live so close I could just about walk it if I wanted to . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real
Not me, I've built connections with far away people but also someone who turned out to live so close I could just about walk it if I wanted to ."
not a neighbour omg |
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead."
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder "
Was it my dick pics? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I often wonder if people deliberately build connections with those who are too far away to meet as some kind of psychological way of actually avoiding anything that's real
Not me, I've built connections with far away people but also someone who turned out to live so close I could just about walk it if I wanted to ."
I'd be happy to live walking distance from lacey she is very sexy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does everyone have an ultimate Fab crush, that you may or may not have had a conversation with. But they are out of reach. Could be for many reasons. Age, distance, tastes, compatibility.
I’m not shy to admit I do, not to say there are not also some amazing guys that I have or will meet. But there is an ultimate one. "
Yep  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder "
Go on. Take the plunge |
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder
Was it my dick pics? "
I've chatted to you before so it's not you! Although I did put you on my list yesterday on the matchmaker thread so you did dissapoint me then ?? |
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"Send the message, filters allowing and what you are actually looking for if distance is the issue, you’ve got nothing to lose and maybe something to gain.
You only live once .. do it ! "
This is spot on.... one life. Jump out of your comfort zone as you never know whose out there .... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder
Was it my dick pics?
I've chatted to you before so it's not you! Although I did put you on my list yesterday on the matchmaker thread so you did dissapoint me then ??"
Oh I'm sorry!
I rarely look into couples on here though. More of a single girl perv! |
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder
Was it my dick pics?
I've chatted to you before so it's not you! Although I did put you on my list yesterday on the matchmaker thread so you did dissapoint me then ??
Oh I'm sorry!
I rarely look into couples on here though. More of a single girl perv! "
You're forgiven with the dick pics I got this morning I got 2 matches anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There is someone in the forum's who interests me. I watch how they interact with other people. I would never message them though.
Mrs x
You should at least message. I’m brave enough to do that bit. But from there I’m not that good! Lol
I agree, there's no harm in sending a message.
You never know where it could lead.
I would probably just be dissapointed if I chatted to them. Prefer to just watch and wonder
Was it my dick pics?
I've chatted to you before so it's not you! Although I did put you on my list yesterday on the matchmaker thread so you did dissapoint me then ??
Oh I'm sorry!
I rarely look into couples on here though. More of a single girl perv!
You're forgiven with the dick pics I got this morning I got 2 matches anyway! "
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"I'm gonna wait till this lockdown is over so I can organise a road trip on my bike. Take in a few sights around the UK and make a point of meeting my FAB crushes.....if they'll meet me that is....Whether its for nothing more than a coffee or an overnight stay with a cooked breakfast in the morning! "
You know our door is, metaphorically, always open |
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I have reached out to a few of mine. Hopefully will see them at the odd social. Before the lock down came I was going to attend a lot more.
I don’t see distance an issue myself as I’m happy to explore new places and if I meet someone along the way to say hello to then it’s a bonus. |
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I had one, messaged a few times and received polite replies, always saying I was too far away. I had to give up for fear of annoying them and accepted they were always out of my league anyway. So I watched quietly from a distance.
Then I came across a profile on another site, body pic only (as were fab pics) and thought “I recognise you “! So I tried a fresh angle and we met within a week. That was in November last year and now we’re in love like I would never believe!
So have faith, it can happen ?? |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
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Really don’t get the distance thing , admittedly we tend to have a preference for non local meets as we like adventures but surely it’s better to meet the right people, even if it’s a bit of challenge to make it happen?
It might not work out, you might give up a weekend and cost of travel/accom, but your options to choose from are much better and it will probably be a good experience anyway visiting a new place, new club, like a mini holiday !
If it does work out you have a new friend/s and can take in turns to travel or meet half way. Some of the best relationships are when you have to overcome travel , you both know you’re making the effort because they are worth it.
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"Send the message, filters allowing and what you are actually looking for if distance is the issue, you’ve got nothing to lose and maybe something to gain.
You only live once .. do it !
This is spot on.... one life. Jump out of your comfort zone as you never know whose out there ...."
You get it..... nothing ventured, nothing gained |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't. I'm not in the right headspace for sexual stuff right now, but I feel I'm in the way of B getting action and in in the way of the women who may want to get nekkid with him.
Basically, I'm feeling like a complete cock blocking loser.
P |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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"I don't. I'm not in the right headspace for sexual stuff right now, but I feel I'm in the way of B getting action and in in the way of the women who may want to get nekkid with him.
Basically, I'm feeling like a complete cock blocking loser.
P"
You're not. Does B want action? It's something you work through as a couple - just because one half is unhappy with something it doesn't make them a cockblock. x |
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Of course I have one of maybe a couple more than one.
There are some very special or unique things about those individuals that puts them in a special category. I do wish we could have folders in the hotlist to manage such people. |
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By *r B.Man
over a year ago
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"I don't. I'm not in the right headspace for sexual stuff right now, but I feel I'm in the way of B getting action and in in the way of the women who may want to get nekkid with him.
Basically, I'm feeling like a complete cock blocking loser.
P"
You are far from a loser! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea."
Job on then out it up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up"
How do you know if you matched??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
How do you know if you matched?? "
I dont know it would be his rules and thread |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
How do you know if you matched?? "
as long as we get matches together I dont mind x |
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up"
Not sure my strike record of thread success is good enough to start one like that.
I would be to scared no one would join in. |
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
Not sure my strike record of thread success is good enough to start one like that.
I would be to scared no one would join in."
Failing to try is the only failure in life |
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
Not sure my strike record of thread success is good enough to start one like that.
I would be to scared no one would join in.
Failing to try is the only failure in life "
True words. |
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
Not sure my strike record of thread success is good enough to start one like that.
I would be to scared no one would join in.
Failing to try is the only failure in life "
WD done it. |
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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago
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Now I'm in Peterborough I'm hoping there's more people within meeting distance.
There's a couple of platonic friends I'd love to meet and a few others I'd love to meet for a lot of sexy fun.
But I have patience. Lots of it. |
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"Maybe we need a iut of touch matchmaking thread.
One or two people make a note of peoples FAB crushes and if two people match they get a pm or posted as a match on the thread.
Just an idea.
Job on then out it up
Not sure my strike record of thread success is good enough to start one like that.
I would be to scared no one would join in.
Failing to try is the only failure in life
WD done it."
I have joined |
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There are two couples who we like but we feel very self conscious and inadequate when we look at their pics..hence why we don't contact them.I (mrs) would feel like Quazmodo next to her... |
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"There are two couples who we like but we feel very self conscious and inadequate when we look at their pics..hence why we don't contact them.I (mrs) would feel like Quazmodo next to her... "
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But if you contact them it feels wrong and you're wasting their time
