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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.
We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.
I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.
That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.
My reasons for doubting
Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.
Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.
Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.
I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.
What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wouldn’t base it just on oral skills; I’ve had FwBs in the past who’ve had very few relationships prior to our fun but have given head like a seasoned porn star. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x"
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Some mens cock are more appealing to suck than others.
Maybe she saw yours and thought “that’s the one for me!” And never looked back.
It happens."
Best response yet, love it |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me "
if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol |
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol "
That’s what I was thinking...unless it isn’t really a couples profile  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol "
my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol
my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol
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the only person that can give u the answer is your wife lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont get hung up on something that not important talk to her or let it go x
My mind is at ease, if she is being honest then great, if she told a fib its because its to be exclusive to me if your mind at ease you wouldnt of posted this on the forum were there every chance she could see it Lol
my mind wasnt at ease when i posted it but is now due to a few response's here, Ie why would she lie, we are entitled to questions and to have to been given answers to why might be lol
the only person that can give u the answer is your wife lol "
That is true, but would the answer be true? that's something i would never know, so i have to accept that its the truth or its a white lie for my benefit.
Either way its end of conversation. I accept it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are previous relationships and what she did with the partners important to you now? Does she know you are telling Fab m_mbers her private business?
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Interesting you take from all this is that what she did with previous partners, yet i have not mentioned previous partners, and only spoke about experiences she may have or not done  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter?
I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao
So what's the point of the thread then?"
If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter?
I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao
So what's the point of the thread then?
If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy "
As I suspected. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter?
I think you missed the point where i said, im at ease with it now lmao
So what's the point of the thread then?
If you read all the comments you would come to that conclusion all by yourself. enjoy
As I suspected. "
You suspected what sorry?
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"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this
You think? i think you might be wrong lol  "
If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !
If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this
You think? i think you might be wrong lol
If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !
If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .
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yeah ok lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this
You think? i think you might be wrong lol
If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !
If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .
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Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you posting on your couples profile? Why don’t you just talk about it with her? Why is it a problem? Just why?? "
The second message in the thread and you didn’t reply!!! I wonder!! I smell something  |
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"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this
You think? i think you might be wrong lol
If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !
If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .
Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this?"
I doubt very much IF you have a wife that she even knows you are on here lol!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Why are you posting on your couples profile? Why don’t you just talk about it with her? Why is it a problem? Just why??
The second message in the thread and you didn’t reply!!! I wonder!! I smell something "
you assume i didnt speak to her, you assume i have to reply. why do you assume i have too? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't think you'll be getting a blow job for a while after she sees this
You think? i think you might be wrong lol
If my husband had posted this thread I can assure you the only contact hed have to his cock would be my knee...very forcibly !
If you had doubts then the place to air them is direct to your partner NOT to ransdoms on a forum! Total disrespect in my book .
Would it make you feel better when my wife reads this?
I doubt very much IF you have a wife that she even knows you are on here lol!
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Would you like to know for sure?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Does it matter if she has or hasn’t given blowjobs to other men? Genuinely? Because their doesn’t seem worth the inevitable argument
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Lol you read some of the comments not all |
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So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.
Why is that hard to believe.
20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.
Why is that hard to believe.
20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So 20 years ago your wife was quite young and just not had that experience.
Why is that hard to believe.
20 yrs and you have never had any reason to doubt her. And sure her bj skills aint bad, she's been sucking your cock for 20yrs!
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I really dont give two hoots if you have a wife or not .
You boast how respectful you are on profile ..well this thread blown that out the water .
Also any chance of meets ...ohh but youve no meets anyway so no loss there then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I really dont give two hoots if you have a wife or not .
You boast how respectful you are on profile ..well this thread blown that out the water .
Also any chance of meets ...ohh but youve no meets anyway so no loss there then "
You need a cuddle? |
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By *asha86Couple
over a year ago
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"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.
We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.
I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.
That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.
My reasons for doubting
Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.
Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.
Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.
I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.
What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?
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Doubt it is something she is likely to lie about....or at least I can't see why she would. She wouldn't benefit from it in any way. The only way to know is to ask questions and keep channel of communication open and to talk about it all. Maybe try talking about all the things you've tries, would like to try, have tried but didn't like etc and see where it leads. Sorry if I rambled xT |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.
We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.
I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.
That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.
My reasons for doubting
Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.
Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.
Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.
I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.
What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?
Doubt it is something she is likely to lie about....or at least I can't see why she would. She wouldn't benefit from it in any way. The only way to know is to ask questions and keep channel of communication open and to talk about it all. Maybe try talking about all the things you've tries, would like to try, have tried but didn't like etc and see where it leads. Sorry if I rambled xT "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?"
You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.
I'll be the first to post |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?
You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.
I'll be the first to post"
No let me be first please ! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?
You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.
I'll be the first to post
No let me be first please ! "
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I’m not sure why it’s such a big deal or why you doubt her, but it’s perfectly possible. My partner of almost 20 years doesn’t like BJs and in all that time I’ve sucked his cock once. Until I joined Fab I’d only sucked him that once and two other guys on one night stands, so I was really inexperienced in that area. Fortunately I’m a very quick learner! |
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"Does it matter if she has or hasn’t given blowjobs to other men? Genuinely? Because their doesn’t seem worth the inevitable argument
Lol you read some of the comments not all"
Aw couples and their games x
Silly us for just not being in on it  |
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"I've been with my wife for 30 plus years and she said she has never had anal sex with anyone else only me should I believe her ?
You could make a whole new thread with your question, maybe i could respond with some thing like, she only telling you that because she wants it exclusive for you.
I'll be the first to post"
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"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.
We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.
I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.
That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.
My reasons for doubting
Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.
Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.
Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.
I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.
What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?
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Why would she lie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and my wife have been together for 20 years and in all that time i never had a reason to doubt or believe something that she has told me, until now.
We was chatting one night about blowjobs that i had received in past and would i be interested in receiving a blowjob from another women in the future, Obviously i was excited at the thought of having someone other than my wife sucking me off.
I replied with "sure i would be interested by if i am to be receiving, what about you giving a blowjob to someone else" response was hmmm dunno, "not something you would like to try" i replied, to cut a long story and the reason for my wife's hesitation is she as never given a blowjob to anyone other than myself.
That shocked me and I'm not sure i can completely believe what she has told me.
My reasons for doubting
Previous partners including one that i know was a relationship for 2 years.
Couple of one night stands prior to our relationship.
Blowjob skills i would say were not beginners level.
I though we have spoken about previous relationships we have never gone to deep on info.
What do you guys/gals think? Is she telling a white lie here?
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i believe her and so should you....... this is good advice hope she knows you're here |
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