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I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone. |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone."
Why would you let them down? |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?"
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months"
I’m not sure anyone would expect that. You’re probably putting more pressure on yourself. Just aim for something fun and relaxed. It might not need a marathon |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months"
Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick. |
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over a year ago
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It's been nearly five years, I barely think about it at all these days. That said, when I do think about the possibility of getting laid it's massive anxiety time. |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months
Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick. "
I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.
I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted. |
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I’ve gone through periods of over a year without having sex so it’s no odds to me.
I do want to have a nice fuck though when we can start mixing with people again. |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months
Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick. "
Exactly this (Mrs)  long sessions are overrated.. |
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months
Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick.
I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.
I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted."
The best way to know is to talk to them. We're not monsters and I know personally I wouldn't want to be getting into bed with someone who was stressing themselves out over what they thought I might expect when the truth most likely is that I'm there because I click with them, not because I have expectations of some sort of sex god. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I’ll throw my hat in.....I’m not feeling good about it at all, to be honest.
I’ve no desire to be forever celibate but concern about being a let-down almost makes me want to not even try meeting anyone.
Why would you let them down?
I wouldn’t put money on me giving a marathon performance after 15+ months
Personally I think marathon penetrative sex is overrated. Plus there's other ways to please someone than with your dick.
I completely agree and I’m certainly not stingey when it comes to oral as I love going down on a woman; but there’s likely to be some expectation around penetration and not knowing what that may be is troubling.
I know this is mostly born from a confidence thing (or lack thereof) as in my past I’ve not had any problem; but neither my looks not my fitness are what they were 20 years ago, so capability gets doubted.
The best way to know is to talk to them. We're not monsters and I know personally I wouldn't want to be getting into bed with someone who was stressing themselves out over what they thought I might expect when the truth most likely is that I'm there because I click with them, not because I have expectations of some sort of sex god."
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