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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now

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By *VineMan  over a year ago

The right place

The opposite is true too.

People that were here very regularly hardly here at all. Like me.

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By *hilloutMan  over a year ago

All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest


"Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now "

Alas, this is typical. Isolation is just reinforcing this behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope, I must not be worth their time either way

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I've noticed a few people have disappeared since coming into lock down

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now "

Yep! Including a guy I was seeing last summer who now has a monogamous girlfriend

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By *acey_RedWoman  over a year ago

Liverpool


"Nope, I must not be worth their time either way "

You're back!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman  over a year ago

On a mooch


"Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now "

There’s a few but also a few gone the other way... nothing queer as folk

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Maybe people were busy? And as always it takes two to maintain silence.

But of course if it's just boredom on their behalf and seeking a sexual thrill then I understand.

Otherwise I'd always welcome an hello from a friend. If not why be a friend?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

The ones that matter haven't gone anywhere

I ignore the boomerangs.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now "

Yep!

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By *elloIntrigueMan  over a year ago

North West UK

I'm here a lot more than I was. Ultimately figuring that my smilies on messages are a good thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" Maybe people were busy? And as always it takes two to maintain silence.

But of course if it's just boredom on their behalf and seeking a sexual thrill then I understand.

Otherwise I'd always welcome an hello from a friend. If not why be a friend?"

It can take 1 to cause silence, by not replying lol.

Jve had an ex, old friends, old meets, old planned meets that blanked me, bloody ridiculous.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I thought this thread was about those kiss fuck threads that have reappeared

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Not really I couldn't get any one to chat before and can't still do nothing vhanged for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Nope...still no one talking to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


" Maybe people were busy? And as always it takes two to maintain silence.

But of course if it's just boredom on their behalf and seeking a sexual thrill then I understand.

Otherwise I'd always welcome an hello from a friend. If not why be a friend?

It can take 1 to cause silence, by not replying lol.

Jve had an ex, old friends, old meets, old planned meets that blanked me, bloody ridiculous."

I am confused, they are messaging after ghosting, or they are blinking you?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've noticed a few people have disappeared since coming into lock down "

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


" Maybe people were busy? And as always it takes two to maintain silence.

But of course if it's just boredom on their behalf and seeking a sexual thrill then I understand.

Otherwise I'd always welcome an hello from a friend. If not why be a friend?

It can take 1 to cause silence, by not replying lol.

Jve had an ex, old friends, old meets, old planned meets that blanked me, bloody ridiculous.

I am confused, they are messaging after ghosting, or they are blinking you?"

Messaging after blanking mostly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Nope, I must not be worth their time either way

You're back! "

I never left, just hid my profile

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By *ce WingerMan  over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

There must be something in the water in Derby, cos I've had messages from 3 local guys this week. I've neither met nor spoken to any of them before

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By *naswingdressWoman  over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I've mostly noticed people making more of an effort. It's nice. We all need it at a time like this.

But I do know the kind of thing you mean, OP, and I'd react similarly.

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By *rHotNottsMan  over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

I’m guessing it’s a guy thing , usually when a female says no she means no

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple  over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"I've noticed a few people have disappeared since coming into lock down "

Possibly because they can't hide Fab from their partner while we're in lockdown.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"The ones that matter haven't gone anywhere

I ignore the boomerangs.

"

Boomerangs I'm using that!

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS  over a year ago

Ramsey


"I've noticed a few people have disappeared since coming into lock down

Possibly because they can't hide Fab from their partner while we're in lockdown."

Yes I suspect some people have had their fab naughty tome compromised by the sudden appearance at home 24/7 of partners & offspring. But equally others may be using fab again for boredom relief or to chat & help battle loneliness. Mixed bag & probably harsh to judge based on circumstances. Locally it's gone notably quiet on tv/ts profiles cos her indoors is just that, indoors preventing the guys dressing up. Me, I'm single before anyone asks!

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By *a LunaWoman  over a year ago

South Wales

My fellas have been fairly consistent with their messages but I’m staying away from Fab more than I would normally as been busy with home schooling. Plus, there have been a lot of doom and gloom “the end is nigh!!!!” Apocalyptic type chat about that is not good for my mental health.

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By *ools and the brainCouple  over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Any others notice alot of people you used to talk to suddenly crawling back out the woodwork now that we are in lockdown.

If I wasnt worth your time when you had freedom, you are not worth mine now "

Mrs was saying the opposite all these guys who have been talking every day when possibility of meet is there have all disappeared.

My opinion is that most people have a lot more important things on their minds so I said to cut them some slack .

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By *oxychicWoman  over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Alot of ppl have alot more time on there hands to being in lockdown gives ppl time to think to

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Yes I've spotted a bit of that x

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By *essie.Woman  over a year ago

Serendipity

Yes I’ve noticed that, but others have disappeared too.

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By *eliWoman  over a year ago

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I think people want to talk... and talking to someone you've spoken to before is easier most of the time than with someone new. I guess people are also a lot more reflective and sometimes want to make amends/sometimes are just horny so and sos.

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By *uke OzadeMan  over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Funny how the ‘fab single’ people have suddenly disappeared

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I think people want to talk... and talking to someone you've spoken to before is easier most of the time than with someone new. I guess people are also a lot more reflective and sometimes want to make amends/sometimes are just horny so and sos."

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By *SAchickWoman  over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"The ones that matter haven't gone anywhere

"

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