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Do guys still have to make the first move
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No they don't. It's just more expected that they do. I'm not sure why. I tend to make the first move if I'm interested but then I do sometimes wonder if they are just being kind so as not to say no/it's such a rare occurrence they want to go along with it.  |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.
Where ever both
OK, here yes, face to face no.
Ok why "
Because it's less of a risk on here, I don't care about rejection online. I'm a sensitive soul you see. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No they don't. It's just more expected that they do. I'm not sure why. I tend to make the first move if I'm interested but then I do sometimes wonder if they are just being kind so as not to say no/it's such a rare occurrence they want to go palong with it. "
I would find it hard to say no but it's the nicest thing to do, no point stringing someone along
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Do you mean on here? On here I often make the first move.
Where ever both
OK, here yes, face to face no.
Ok why
Because it's less of a risk on here, I don't care about rejection online. I'm a sensitive soul you see. "
You might be missing out your not a munter |
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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago
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"For me I have to make the first move or it would never happen , usually start with Chlorophyll 
Are you pursueing plants?
I got some chlorophyll, wanna photosynthesise tonight. "
ha ha ha , bloody predictive text !!! But if your offering , HELL YES  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No I need a chaperone to make sure I behave like a woman from the 20s should..... oh wait we aren’t in 1920, it’s 2020 !
Why behave 
Face splat ! "
If you want  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On here if I find someone I’m attracted to I’ll message them. In real life it’s harder. I’f approach more guys if I knew they were single, in real life you don’t know if the hot guy in Tesco has a wife waiting for him.
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