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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you didn't put enough thought into this!!
You really should have talked about it more and told her your exact feelings rather than go along with it to please her, or perhaps you thought it was a fantasy and would never actually happen??
Speak to her honestly, otherwise it could be relationship over!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Talk to her... Talk somemore.. I sometimes get cold feet before something... But with the support of master I find after that it Was better than I thought... Like my first gangbang... I wanted to just drive off...
But only you know if It's nerves or something more.
Cali |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"After months of fantasising about meeting a REAL bull we are doing it . Now I (the male ) am wanting to back out . But she doesn't , help...."
swinging is about coming to decisions together... and I know if I was with someone where they were not comfortable... I wouldn't do it...
tell her it is not fun, it is hurting you, and you feel uncomfortable... be honest with her!!! |
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By *ove2-shareCouple
over a year ago
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As everyone else said really, communicate, not just your fantasies , but about how you both feel,both before and after. a little jealousy may not be a bad thing it may even excite but if you are genuinely uncomfortable SAY. And if you do go through with it, i'd suggest you shag each other as soon as possible after share the memory and excitement as it may add something to your own sex lives too something that you can share. |
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If you go ahead with it willingly your relationship may not recover. Powerlessness is only a fantasy if you really want to be in that situation. If you don't want to be, don't get in it! Talk to her and be firm about your feelings. Good luck! Let us all know what she says |
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"After months of fantasising about meeting a REAL bull we are doing it . Now I (the male ) am wanting to back out . But she doesn't , help...."
congrats...you are now in the cuckold situation...having no say in what goes on ....have fun, enjoy  |
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dont go ahead with this until you have both agreed that its right for you. its a very strange feeling watching your wife with another man and it could end in nasty consequences. be very very sure about this.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"After months of fantasising about meeting a REAL bull we are doing it . Now I (the male ) am wanting to back out . But she doesn't , help...."
If you dont want to do something then don't do it. If your relationship is strong enough it shouldn't be a problem. If it isn't though maybe swinging isn't the best thing for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand cuckholding in a way.. because of me being my Masters slave, and that in some aspects the cuck has traits that would match my slave traits... the wanting to please, the humiliation aspect at times etc...The enjoyment from seeing Master have pleasure etc..
However, in the early days my Master was so very careful with me.. even now there are things that will be taken very slowly, with much discussion.
Your partner must be confused to as part of some cuck relationships is that the Cuck has no choice, even if he doesnt want it..
For me I do not understand that... because My Master likes me to get something from everything that we do... So if it would cause me emotional harm ( real harm, not just spur of the moment jealousy, or disgust etc) then Master would not allow it to happen.
Perhaps find some other guys that are cuckholded and speak with them.. ask them about their first time.. as it is a big thing..
May I ask have you seen your wife with another man before.. ??? if not maybe that would be a good starting point.. to leave the cuckholding at the door.. and just have a 3sum... and start from there.
good luck with what ever you chose..
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"After months of fantasising about meeting a REAL bull we are doing it . Now I (the male ) am wanting to back out . But she doesn't , help...."
If one of us don't want to do something, we don't. It really is that simple for us.
You need to tell her if you havn't already. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"After months of fantasising about meeting a REAL bull we are doing it . Now I (the male ) am wanting to back out . But she doesn't , help...."
my advice is if you dont want to do it dont do it, never do anything to please someone else its just a recipe for disaster, you will only end up resenting your wife and the situation if you feel like your feeling was ignored and you was mentally forced into do it to save a argument
Surely as a couple you should both be 100% behind every meet and your wife should respect that you dont want to do it anymore |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you need to be straight with your partner and tell her that to do this without you both being 100% happy with it could destroy your relationship. Fantasy is one thing but when you actually do it the reality can be very damaging.
As an aside is she maybe forcing the issue and doing it because she thinks that deep down that this will actually provide the humiliation aspect a cuck would be looking for ? just a thought. |
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