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"I've been back chatting with my mum for a year now after a huge fall out that last almost 10 years! It's great to have her back in my life." Thats great bud. I was estranged from my family for a long time as well. | |||
"I've been back chatting with my mum for a year now after a huge fall out that last almost 10 years! It's great to have her back in my life." Good for you , life's too short for bitterness | |||
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"I've been back chatting with my mum for a year now after a huge fall out that last almost 10 years! It's great to have her back in my life." Good man | |||
"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas "man hugs | |||
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"Who loves their mum? I love my mum.She's ace." I am not your mum!  | |||
"Hands up! My mama is a complete shady bitch. She makes me laugh and react with horror at the stuff she comes out with. My hero! I wouldn't change her for the world. " My mum is an ageing folk/punk. She had a pitch at the festival selling homemade rasta gnomes... | |||
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"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas " | |||
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"Who loves their mum? I love my mum.She's ace. I am not your mum! "I know that you big wazzock lol | |||
"Hands up! My mama is a complete shady bitch. She makes me laugh and react with horror at the stuff she comes out with. My hero! I wouldn't change her for the world. My mum is an ageing folk/punk. She had a pitch at the festival selling homemade rasta gnomes..." She sounds cool | |||
"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas
"That must be tough...I can't imagine it x | |||
"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas
That must be tough...I can't imagine it x"Got an awesome papa so it’s okay | |||
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"Who loves their mum? I love my mum.She's ace. I am not your mum!
I know that you big wazzock lol"Unfortunately mine passed away 2 days before ma 7th birthday in 1969  | |||
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"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas
That must be tough...I can't imagine it x
Got an awesome papa so it’s okay "I'm glad to hear that x | |||
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"I do, love her to bits but I bloody well hope she doesn't read this! " You'll never know... | |||
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"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas "13 for me momma bears are the best ever! | |||
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"19/9/97 the saddest day of my life " Sorry to hear that bud | |||
"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? " Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot. | |||
"Mine has vascular dimentia and some days I laugh at the things she says and sometimes I cry. It is heartbreaking to see your mum change in front of you and become a child most of the time and only your mum at others. So cherish your mums if you can. " | |||
"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot." Now, if you asked me if I missed my Granny (mum's mum), the answer is fuck yes! She was like my mother, she brought me up, more or less, and yes, I'm crying as I type this. My maternal Grandfather (aka surrogate father) is still alive. My mother now lives with him (her decision, not his, long story) but obviously I can't see him at the moment. I also can't stand the constant bitching from my mum about how she dislikes her father, how he's a grumpy old man etc. I can't stand him being demeaned and picked to pieces constantly. But I can't do anything about it and I can't even go and give him some respite from the fruitcakery. I will be distraught when my Grandad dies. He's 88...... My Grandparents are/were the most precious people to me, other my kids and my husband. I have to go and find a tissue, excuse me | |||
"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot. Now, if you asked me if I missed my Granny (mum's mum), the answer is fuck yes! She was like my mother, she brought me up, more or less, and yes, I'm crying as I type this. My maternal Grandfather (aka surrogate father) is still alive. My mother now lives with him (her decision, not his, long story) but obviously I can't see him at the moment. I also can't stand the constant bitching from my mum about how she dislikes her father, how he's a grumpy old man etc. I can't stand him being demeaned and picked to pieces constantly. But I can't do anything about it and I can't even go and give him some respite from the fruitcakery. I will be distraught when my Grandad dies. He's 88...... My Grandparents are/were the most precious people to me, other my kids and my husband. I have to go and find a tissue, excuse me " your granny sounded wonderful | |||
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"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot. Now, if you asked me if I missed my Granny (mum's mum), the answer is fuck yes! She was like my mother, she brought me up, more or less, and yes, I'm crying as I type this. My maternal Grandfather (aka surrogate father) is still alive. My mother now lives with him (her decision, not his, long story) but obviously I can't see him at the moment. I also can't stand the constant bitching from my mum about how she dislikes her father, how he's a grumpy old man etc. I can't stand him being demeaned and picked to pieces constantly. But I can't do anything about it and I can't even go and give him some respite from the fruitcakery. I will be distraught when my Grandad dies. He's 88...... My Grandparents are/were the most precious people to me, other my kids and my husband. I have to go and find a tissue, excuse me "I was looked after more by my nan too. She died when I was about fourteen. I cried like f*ck and went off the rails. Started drinking,taking drugs and playing fuck with the school. | |||
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"My Granny died on Remembrance Sunday 2009, I was 24. I was distraught but all it served to do was make me determined to be the mother she had been to me. My daughter (3) now, has her name as her middle name. I stood up at her funeral and gave a speech and I held it together. I held it together better than I am sat here now actually "Im so sorry. I didn't mean this thread to cause anyone any pain x | |||
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"My Granny died on Remembrance Sunday 2009, I was 24. I was distraught but all it served to do was make me determined to be the mother she had been to me. My daughter (3) now, has her name as her middle name. I stood up at her funeral and gave a speech and I held it together. I held it together better than I am sat here now actually
Im so sorry. I didn't mean this thread to cause anyone any pain x"Don't worry, no pain caused, honestly! I'm just a bloody big softie who is a bit ill and emotional! | |||
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"My Granny died on Remembrance Sunday 2009, I was 24. I was distraught but all it served to do was make me determined to be the mother she had been to me. My daughter (3) now, has her name as her middle name. I stood up at her funeral and gave a speech and I held it together. I held it together better than I am sat here now actually
Im so sorry. I didn't mean this thread to cause anyone any pain x
Don't worry, no pain caused, honestly! I'm just a bloody big softie who is a bit ill and emotional! "Glad to hear that. I've started a bit of a roller coaster with this one haven't I? Ehh blummin eck! Ps nothing wrong with being a softie x | |||
"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot. Now, if you asked me if I missed my Granny (mum's mum), the answer is fuck yes! She was like my mother, she brought me up, more or less, and yes, I'm crying as I type this. My maternal Grandfather (aka surrogate father) is still alive. My mother now lives with him (her decision, not his, long story) but obviously I can't see him at the moment. I also can't stand the constant bitching from my mum about how she dislikes her father, how he's a grumpy old man etc. I can't stand him being demeaned and picked to pieces constantly. But I can't do anything about it and I can't even go and give him some respite from the fruitcakery. I will be distraught when my Grandad dies. He's 88...... My Grandparents are/were the most precious people to me, other my kids and my husband. I have to go and find a tissue, excuse me
I was looked after more by my nan too. She died when I was about fourteen. I cried like f*ck and went off the rails. Started drinking,taking drugs and playing fuck with the school."Children dont come with a manual!! Parents make mistakes, I know I have and probably will again but different ones. My parents made mistakes too but that has never stopped me loving them. After all, I wouldn't be the person I am today if it wasnt for the experiences of yesterday and I dont think I turned out too bad? I dont hold grudges but sadly my eldest sibling does and has put and continues to put our mother through hell and I can see how much it hurts her and in turn, hurts me. I no longer have anything to do with her because of it. Remember, we are all allowed to make mistakes, the difference is whether we learn from them and apologise or continue to make the same ones. | |||
"I love mine too, she's not just my mum but also my best friend xx" | |||
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"My mum has turned into a bit of a fruitcake as she's got older. I'm ill with suspected Covid-19 and all I've had are conspiracy theory videos about how no one can catch a virus and how's it's really 4G waves or whatever. I genuinely struggle to get on with her nowadays, everything that comes out of her mouth is utter drivel and I don't want her indoctrinating my kids with it all, if I'm honest. It kills me to say that and I do keep in touch with her, but there's been a lot of things over my lifetime that show very selfish, unmotherly behaviour and choices that now, at age 34, I CBA dealing with, if I'm honest. Maybe that makes me a bad person? Not a bad person at all. You're just being real like. To be honest my mum wasn't the best like. I love her to bits but when I was a kid I was pretty much dragged up, had to fend for myself a lot. Now, if you asked me if I missed my Granny (mum's mum), the answer is fuck yes! She was like my mother, she brought me up, more or less, and yes, I'm crying as I type this. My maternal Grandfather (aka surrogate father) is still alive. My mother now lives with him (her decision, not his, long story) but obviously I can't see him at the moment. I also can't stand the constant bitching from my mum about how she dislikes her father, how he's a grumpy old man etc. I can't stand him being demeaned and picked to pieces constantly. But I can't do anything about it and I can't even go and give him some respite from the fruitcakery. I will be distraught when my Grandad dies. He's 88...... My Grandparents are/were the most precious people to me, other my kids and my husband. I have to go and find a tissue, excuse me
I was looked after more by my nan too. She died when I was about fourteen. I cried like f*ck and went off the rails. Started drinking,taking drugs and playing fuck with the school.
Children dont come with a manual!!
Parents make mistakes, I know I have and probably will again but different ones.
My parents made mistakes too but that has never stopped me loving them. After all, I wouldn't be the person I am today if it wasnt for the experiences of yesterday and I dont think I turned out too bad?
I dont hold grudges but sadly my eldest sibling does and has put and continues to put our mother through hell and I can see how much it hurts her and in turn, hurts me. I no longer have anything to do with her because of it.
Remember, we are all allowed to make mistakes, the difference is whether we learn from them and apologise or continue to make the same ones."I know and now as an adult I can see that my mum didn't have the best of lives herself. You don't notice when you're a kid the hassles that grown ups have. She was abandoned twice. First by my biological father and then by her husband , my stepdad. After that I think she just went into a downward spiral love her | |||
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"Cherish your mothers I still miss mines 15 years on, bless the mammas "Awww I lost my Mumma 3 years ago and struggling. Though glad she isn't around now, i'd be terrified for her | |||
"Just wanna say to all the people with hateful spiteful mums that we become stronger because of the fact and we always have love elsewhere...big love all xx" This is true, very true indeed. God bless my Granny | |||
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"Sadly some mums that do have bad things happen from their past do not want better for their own kid and treat them badly too. My mums a total bitch and very nasty and will do anything she can to hurt me....her mum did same to her. I just treat my kids with love and kindness and break the cycle ....so the good news is my kids love their mum..me " | |||
"Sadly some mums that do have bad things happen from their past do not want better for their own kid and treat them badly too. My mums a total bitch and very nasty and will do anything she can to hurt me....her mum did same to her. I just treat my kids with love and kindness and break the cycle ....so the good news is my kids love their mum..me
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"Bless your granny and my grandad who made me the woman ?? am today with his kindness and love xx" I should have added my Grandad in there too, because he was my other parent and actually still is. He's someone I'd phone for advice in a heartbeat, he's been there every step of the way, throughout my life. He's a wonderful man, so the bitching I get about him from other quarters distresses me greatly. God bless my Grandparents and your Grandad! And yes, I'm a woman too | |||
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"Bless your granny and my grandad who made me the woman ?? am today with his kindness and love xx I should have added my Grandad in there too, because he was my other parent and actually still is. He's someone I'd phone for advice in a heartbeat, he's been there every step of the way, throughout my life. He's a wonderful man, so the bitching I get about him from other quarters distresses me greatly. God bless my Grandparents and your Grandad! And yes, I'm a woman too "Grandparents can save our lives definitely ....my grandad literally was my everything...he brought me up and gave me something i never had elsewhere which is simply unconditional love. Blessings to you girl x | |||
"Boudoir-belle, there's making mistakes and moving on, and there's being selfish and unpleasant continually over my entire life (and probably before that too), to the point of alienating the entire family. I'm not going to go into vast detail here, but I don't think my POV on my mother is unfair. I have two kids, 17 and 3 and oh yes, I've made mistakes, but I sure as hell have put their needs front and centre, and will do so forever and ever, amen! The person who's learned most from my mother's mistakes is me. " My post wasnt aimed at you personally. It was a general observation from my own experiences. Sorry if you took it personally. I'm sad that your experiences weren't good but on the positive side, it's made you the mum you are today. After the storm comes a rainbow. Keep up the good work | |||
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"Boudoir-belle, there's making mistakes and moving on, and there's being selfish and unpleasant continually over my entire life (and probably before that too), to the point of alienating the entire family. I'm not going to go into vast detail here, but I don't think my POV on my mother is unfair. I have two kids, 17 and 3 and oh yes, I've made mistakes, but I sure as hell have put their needs front and centre, and will do so forever and ever, amen! The person who's learned most from my mother's mistakes is me. My post wasnt aimed at you personally. It was a general observation from my own experiences. Sorry if you took it personally. I'm sad that your experiences weren't good but on the positive side, it's made you the mum you are today. After the storm comes a rainbow. Keep up the good work "No need to be sorry, don't worry. I've been a mum since I was 16 and will be for the rest of my life, so I'm sure I'll cock up plenty, but my kids (or quasi adult, in my lad's case) will definitely be my priority over everything and everyone else, always. How it should be. | |||
