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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.  "
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge |
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Get some better pics..I don't mean to be harsh but that are not very interesting and nor is your profile.
You really should take look at other guys profiles. We have some very hot, tempting ones on the forum. Can't hurt to see what tips you can pick up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. "
Well you're clearly an individual who can take advice on board
I wish you good luck in your endeavours
Godspeed |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. "
So men are individuals but women aren’t
Cool |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. "
So you'll tailor your profile to suit every single suggestion women make? We all like different things after all. |
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Well if you dont want to know what works for men then feel free to join the ranks of those who end up as experts in oneanism and having a pile of special socks hidden under the bed....
Me, well I'll stick to shaving my legs and playing in my harem thanks  |
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some.
So men are individuals but women aren’t
Cool"
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. "
OP you could always create a second thread & ask men for their advice too. You may genuinely be surprised. Best of luck anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I accept that. I don't want a fake profile. Just one that isn't overly seedy. Lol"
The thing is the one thing we want is a man who shows himself as he is not what he thinks we want to see.
It's your profile and should represent you, show yourself off as best you can. That means decent pics and text with personality. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
A"
you can't possibly have the women all to yourself, thats unheard of here, its all down to showing personality in a message or having great pics and attention to detail but mostly its luck that they read your message and not somebody elses    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The only way you're going to get an objective answer is if women are a hive mind and don't have changing moods or preferences.
Afraid that's not so."
Have you read this thread
Women clearly are a hive mind  |
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"The only way you're going to get an objective answer is if women are a hive mind and don't have changing moods or preferences.
Afraid that's not so.
Have you read this thread
Women clearly are a hive mind "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im a guy so I wont offer you advice.
If I was to do so I would suggest including why you cant accommodate at your age. Some will assume because you live with a partner...or indeed your mum?
But don't listen to me because I cannot offer you advice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Im a guy so I wont offer you advice.
If I was to do so I would suggest including why you cant accommodate at your age. Some will assume because you live with a partner...or indeed your mum?
But don't listen to me because I cannot offer you advice."
Boom!!!!!! |
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge "
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised "
Fancy a fuck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"But surely women are best suited to say what they prefer. Success for men is subjective and down to that individual. I'm talking objectively.
What is a yes or a no for most not some. "
I think you answered your own question OP. It's down to individual preferences and they vary greatly between women too. There's no magic formula. Just be interesting and yourself. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Im a guy so I wont offer you advice.
If I was to do so I would suggest including why you cant accommodate at your age. Some will assume because you live with a partner...or indeed your mum?
But don't listen to me because I cannot offer you advice."
Excellent point. Thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck!"
Safe sex is my only interest lol. If I put more, men assume I’ll do it with any random fucker from fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I accept that. I don't want a fake profile. Just one that isn't overly seedy. Lol
The thing is the one thing we want is a man who shows himself as he is not what he thinks we want to see.
It's your profile and should represent you, show yourself off as best you can. That means decent pics and text with personality. "
Exactly this. Just show you as a person through your profile. If you were female what would get you interested in you! Not sure that makes sense  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck!
Safe sex is my only interest lol. If I put more, men assume I’ll do it with any random fucker from fab"
But for women, that's different ha! Might go and change my interests now lol |
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised
Fancy a fuck?"
I’m in isolation tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised
Fancy a fuck?
I’m in isolation tho "
Yes...arent we all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck!
Safe sex is my only interest lol. If I put more, men assume I’ll do it with any random fucker from fab
But for women, that's different ha! Might go and change my interests now lol"
double standards alert! |
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised
Fancy a fuck?
I’m in isolation tho
Yes...arent we all "
Lol I’ll be over once this lockdown finishes |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck!
Safe sex is my only interest lol. If I put more, men assume I’ll do it with any random fucker from fab
But for women, that's different ha! Might go and change my interests now lol
double standards alert!"
LOL it was a joke! It should be clear that just because we listed something as an interest, it's not necessarily on offer and definitely not with anyone! |
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"Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
A"
If you are unable to read a profile any profile and realise it smacks of perv loaner you are perv loner xxx
What you appear to ask for is a generic appeal to all template. The women I like hate that
I have heard it suggested some women like a man who knows what they are doing without being mothered (of course some do love to mother an innocent naive newby)
So the question begs
Do you want to tell a woman who you are and what you're about KNOWING you will not be for everyone
Or do you want to pretend to be the man that you are convinced a majority may like the words of ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised
Fancy a fuck?
I’m in isolation tho
Yes...arent we all
Lol I’ll be over once this lockdown finishes "
boom! no profile needed
See you soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Interests = safe sex. That's it???
I agree with what's been said before. You could learn so much more from successful men or their profiles and yes, what matters is what you can offer and what you like.
Your photos aren't great. The second one for me is particularly bad. Just my opinion. Last thing, it makes me laugh when men put something like "if you want to know more about me, ask!". Why should we make the effort when you took about 10 seconds to write your profile? Good luck!"
you should make an effort always, never put obstacles in the way? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your profile is very bland. Another single male profile that doesn’t stand out against the thousands of other men’s profiles.
My profile is hidden and I'm swimming in clunge
You have this certain presence when you’re on the forums, so I wouldn’t be surprised
Fancy a fuck?
I’m in isolation tho
Yes...arent we all
Lol I’ll be over once this lockdown finishes
boom! no profile needed
See you soon "
That was smooth AF. Can you teach me Also, what do you think about mine Don casanova Juan  |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
A"
I'd gladly offer some but you'd prefer to hear from ladies only. Fair enough |
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"Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
A
I'd gladly offer some but you'd prefer to hear from ladies only. Fair enough "
I enjoyed reading your profile _hillout  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One issue I see is that the OP can't accomodate and says he can't meet at short notice. Many women will highly suspect he is married. "
Or lives with a girlfriend. |
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By *hilloutMan
over a year ago
All over the place! Northwesr, , Southwest |
"Right. I'm a newbie and want to make sure my profile isn't treated like I'm some pervy loner who still lives with their mother.
What tips do you ladies have for us men?
Gents. Don't comment. Learn from whatever replies this gets.
Thanks.
A
I'd gladly offer some but you'd prefer to hear from ladies only. Fair enough
I enjoyed reading your profile _hillout "
Aww thank you |
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