Is it possible (in your experience) to love more than one person at the same time? Romantic love, not family etc.
Has anyone ever been in this position, how did you feel and did you feelings change as time went on?
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OP, in all seriousness, yes I think it's entirely possible and was in such a position and the potential for polyamory was there but didn't pan out and the three of us didn't have the emotional know-how to handle all the difficult feelings that arose.
In the end, I had to make a choice. I choice one. Not sure if it was the right choice to this day (I'm not with her but do have a friendship with the other).
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"OP, in all seriousness, yes I think it's entirely possible and was in such a position and the potential for polyamory was there but didn't pan out and the three of us didn't have the emotional know-how to handle all the difficult feelings that arose.
In the end, I had to make a choice. I choice one. Not sure if it was the right choice to this day (I'm not with her but do have a friendship with the other).
Tread carefully and good luck"
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I'm poly. I've been with my longest partner over 4 years and he's been seeing another girl for about 18 months. Currently I've been seeing someone else for about 2 months but I previously was dating another for a year. It works for us and we're happy. Absolutely you can love more than one person. |
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"Is it possible (in your experience) to love more than one person at the same time? Romantic love, not family etc.
Has anyone ever been in this position, how did you feel and did you feelings change as time went on?
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"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?
I have been in the past.
Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?
Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them"
About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.
Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post  |
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"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?
I have been in the past.
Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?
Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them
About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.
Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post "
Shame it ended but you are still in touch maybe as fwb. |
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"Is anyone poly with a boyfriend and girlfriend?
I have been in the past.
Did it last a long time? Did they know about each other ?
Who do you date on Valentine’s Day? Both of them
About a year. They knew about each other and all three of us are still in touch.
Thinking back, the Valentine's we were together for I was living about an hour either side of each. He visited me on the day and she sent me lingerie in the post
Shame it ended but you are still in touch maybe as fwb."
It ended on good terms, we just all live pretty far apart now. He's in Singapore! She's still in the UK but we live about 3 hours apart. We met up last year for a meal while we were both in London which was awesome and if we were ever passing each other again we would try to meet up. |
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