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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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but i can't see how this is going to end, financially I'm buggered, people who have the opportunity to work from home don't realise how lucky they are but are moaning about it, I've been in this room for weeks on my own its just not possible to sustain this for much longer and what happens then? I hope the people who started this realise the enormity of what they've done, I'm an extremely positive person but i can't see how I'm going to survive this, how many people are in my position many i suspect, so those that have a job and money coming in stop and think for once about those that don't, their are no public loos available lol thats a problem that nobody is thinking about it caught me out the other day. 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have no money coming in right now , D has no work and I’ve had to take unpaid leave to keep myself safe , hopefully it will only be for a few more weeks but who knows ?! I know you are in a real shit situation and I feel for you x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have no money coming in right now , D has no work and I’ve had to take unpaid leave to keep myself safe , hopefully it will only be for a few more weeks but who knows ?! I know you are in a real shit situation and I feel for you x"
i can't do this for another week though lol i bet old Boris is panicking  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We are all gonna have to adapt to survive,could you become a key worker?"
I've been trying to get work here but everything is agencies and Internet, i will try ringing agencies today
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By *innocentMan
over a year ago
Littlehampton |
theres PLENTY of help available.
-Self employed 80% income based on last 3 years returns ( wonder how many wish they didnt fiddle them now )
-almost instant application of universal credit baring in mind demand
-government back bank loans for small business
-80% wage for those who cant work from home.
-defered mortgage payments
-defered tax payments
what else do you want?
THINGS WONT JUST BE GIVEN TO YOU.
The help is there, adjust your lifestyle. Dont sit and wait.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"theres PLENTY of help available.
-Self employed 80% income based on last 3 years returns ( wonder how many wish they didnt fiddle them now )
-almost instant application of universal credit baring in mind demand
-government back bank loans for small business
-80% wage for those who cant work from home.
-defered mortgage payments
-defered tax payments
what else do you want?
THINGS WONT JUST BE GIVEN TO YOU.
The help is there, adjust your lifestyle. Dont sit and wait. "
i was employed but laid off so only just signed back up for self employment |
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something."
hes living in a hotel room so doubt he got that |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something."
dont have any of the above but thanks |
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"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something."
Thats all well and good but what about things like council tax? Water rates, energy bills, rent, food, the list goes on.
As for cancelling things, some will entered into 12-18 month contracts and unable to cancel without a fee.
Some people wont be seeimg that 80% of income till june.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something.
Thats all well and good but what about things like council tax? Water rates, energy bills, rent, food, the list goes on.
As for cancelling things, some will entered into 12-18 month contracts and unable to cancel without a fee.
Some people wont be seeimg that 80% of income till june.
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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago
Nottinghamshire |
"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something.
Thats all well and good but what about things like council tax? Water rates, energy bills, rent, food, the list goes on.
As for cancelling things, some will entered into 12-18 month contracts and unable to cancel without a fee.
Some people wont be seeimg that 80% of income till june.
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I dont see my full 80% till may pay I get paid tomoz but got three weeks work included in that |
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By *innocentMan
over a year ago
Littlehampton |
unless you are homeless, no one will be left without income.
If you have to wait, spend wisely.
as for every day bills, its literally advertised daily, posted on all their websites, help is available.
People just need to stop thinking and start doing.
Yes your lifestyle will change for a while, but if you cant adjust fast the tide will be more difficult to fight.
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I know that things are really bad at the moment for you and I'm truly sorry to hear this. And there is no let up at the moment for any of us.
Do what ever you can do...I've no idea what it's like work wise where you are, but I hope you can find something, anything to get you through x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know that things are really bad at the moment for you and I'm truly sorry to hear this. And there is no let up at the moment for any of us.
Do what ever you can do...I've no idea what it's like work wise where you are, but I hope you can find something, anything to get you through x"
thank you lovely |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
"theres PLENTY of help available.
-Self employed 80% income based on last 3 years returns ( wonder how many wish they didnt fiddle them now )
-almost instant application of universal credit baring in mind demand
-government back bank loans for small business
-80% wage for those who cant work from home.
-defered mortgage payments
-defered tax payments
what else do you want?
THINGS WONT JUST BE GIVEN TO YOU.
The help is there, adjust your lifestyle. Dont sit and wait. "
Sadly a large percentage wont qualify for any of this short term relief / additional debt...
As a project manager been brought in on one of the above mentioned plans.....its soul destroying seeing how many we are turning away |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but i can't see how this is going to end, financially I'm buggered, people who have the opportunity to work from home don't realise how lucky they are but are moaning about it, I've been in this room for weeks on my own its just not possible to sustain this for much longer and what happens then? I hope the people who started this realise the enormity of what they've done, I'm an extremely positive person but i can't see how I'm going to survive this, how many people are in my position many i suspect, so those that have a job and money coming in stop and think for once about those that don't, their are no public loos available lol thats a problem that nobody is thinking about it caught me out the other day.
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Passing on positivity & all the luck to you fella |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"but i can't see how this is going to end, financially I'm buggered, people who have the opportunity to work from home don't realise how lucky they are but are moaning about it, I've been in this room for weeks on my own its just not possible to sustain this for much longer and what happens then? I hope the people who started this realise the enormity of what they've done, I'm an extremely positive person but i can't see how I'm going to survive this, how many people are in my position many i suspect, so those that have a job and money coming in stop and think for once about those that don't, their are no public loos available lol thats a problem that nobody is thinking about it caught me out the other day.
Passing on positivity & all the luck to you fella "
thank you, you to |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but i can't see how this is going to end, financially I'm buggered, people who have the opportunity to work from home don't realise how lucky they are but are moaning about it, I've been in this room for weeks on my own its just not possible to sustain this for much longer and what happens then? I hope the people who started this realise the enormity of what they've done, I'm an extremely positive person but i can't see how I'm going to survive this, how many people are in my position many i suspect, so those that have a job and money coming in stop and think for once about those that don't, their are no public loos available lol thats a problem that nobody is thinking about it caught me out the other day.
Passing on positivity & all the luck to you fella thank you, you to "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you in the hotel?everywhere at home that i live are vulnerable, i came here originally for a break now I'm kinda trapped here "
Go to air B&B - it's cheaper  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring? "
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol x |
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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago
edinburgh |
Do you need to pay for your own hotel bill or is that funded from government help schemes ??
I do really fell for people like yourself, stick in there and soon there will be light at the end of the tunnel |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol x"
lol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check |
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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago
Dubai & Nottingham |
Don’t lose hope, just keep remembering things will get better, it’s just temporary. It’s going to be tough but you will be ok, there is help. Thousands of people are in exactly the same situation, you’re not alone. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don’t lose hope, just keep remembering things will get better, it’s just temporary. It’s going to be tough but you will be ok, there is help. Thousands of people are in exactly the same situation, you’re not alone. "
i know that was the reality check i got when i was abruptly woken by the fire alarm this morning |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol xlol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check "
That bloody alarm!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol xlol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check
That bloody alarm!!!!!!"
i know right...... I'll complain to owner lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol xlol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check
That bloody alarm!!!!!!i know right...... I'll complain to owner lol "
Ha ha good luck with that ! Want me to make you a decent pasty and send ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol xlol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check
That bloody alarm!!!!!!i know right...... I'll complain to owner lol
Ha ha good luck with that ! Want me to make you a decent pasty and send ?"
lol no that one i had day before yesterday put me right off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sending hugs xthank you lovely hope you guys are ok to
D is still in the land of nod but I’m good thanks xSnoring?
Can’t hear him but the puppy is now lol xlol hey i was awoken again by the fire alarm at 4.30am and this is the reality check
That bloody alarm!!!!!!i know right...... I'll complain to owner lol
Ha ha good luck with that ! Want me to make you a decent pasty and send ?lol no that one i had day before yesterday put me right off "
Lol x |
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"Supermarkets are looking for new staff is that an option? yep been looking into it but its overseen by agencies and the Internet
Also farms needs new staff for fruit picking etc not ideal but it might be something, some farmers also have a caravan or two onsite "
That’s a good idea
If you think you’re about to be homeless then try to get help now
Maybe the council or a charity
All the best to you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey OP none of us can truly understand your position..having to move out of home etc and not go back..yes we hear of all these benefits that sound amazing but there's the waiting in line and why oh why does everything have to be done on bloody Internet. .what happened to human contact..social distancing obviously. Man I ve been homeless in past so my heart goes out to you. Stay strong, dig deep. Are there any food banks. .aids stations..because technically you are homeless. Would it be worth talking to hotel owner, though you may already have done that cos you re a smart fella, to see if there's some kind of arrangement you can come to..makes my blood boil that everything is Internet. .there was a time you could walk into a local office and talk to someone. Any bakeries, grocers etc that have produce to dispose of at end of day..I know bloody regulations say it has to be thrown but ffs these are strange times. When did you last eat a proper full meal? Is the hotel still doing food? Look I know I'm a guy though some would say otherwise but hugs mate..stay strong..talk to the bank..see if there's any rulings to help people get money without incurring interest etc..go to your local church..talk..often they know who or how to contact the right people as they deal with this kind of thing more than most. Fk I better stop now. If you need a chat pm me. Take care man  |
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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago
south coast |
"Hey OP none of us can truly understand your position..having to move out of home etc and not go back..yes we hear of all these benefits that sound amazing but there's the waiting in line and why oh why does everything have to be done on bloody Internet. .what happened to human contact..social distancing obviously. Man I ve been homeless in past so my heart goes out to you. Stay strong, dig deep. Are there any food banks. .aids stations..because technically you are homeless. Would it be worth talking to hotel owner, though you may already have done that cos you re a smart fella, to see if there's some kind of arrangement you can come to..makes my blood boil that everything is Internet. .there was a time you could walk into a local office and talk to someone. Any bakeries, grocers etc that have produce to dispose of at end of day..I know bloody regulations say it has to be thrown but ffs these are strange times. When did you last eat a proper full meal? Is the hotel still doing food? Look I know I'm a guy though some would say otherwise but hugs mate..stay strong..talk to the bank..see if there's any rulings to help people get money without incurring interest etc..go to your local church..talk..often they know who or how to contact the right people as they deal with this kind of thing more than most. Fk I better stop now. If you need a chat pm me. Take care man "
The banks are open arms as protected by gov and at negative risk..........but forget about zero interest.....its not going to happen |
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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago
Serendipity |
The Local Authority where you are, that’s who you need to approach and they’ll advise you. Even with lockdown, they will have someone to speak to.
There are community hubs online as well, to register with. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why are you in the hotel?everywhere at home that i live are vulnerable, i came here originally for a break now I'm kinda trapped here "
If you're not ill then go home. Shelling out on a hotel room isn't practical |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey OP none of us can truly understand your position..having to move out of home etc and not go back..yes we hear of all these benefits that sound amazing but there's the waiting in line and why oh why does everything have to be done on bloody Internet. .what happened to human contact..social distancing obviously. Man I ve been homeless in past so my heart goes out to you. Stay strong, dig deep. Are there any food banks. .aids stations..because technically you are homeless. Would it be worth talking to hotel owner, though you may already have done that cos you re a smart fella, to see if there's some kind of arrangement you can come to..makes my blood boil that everything is Internet. .there was a time you could walk into a local office and talk to someone. Any bakeries, grocers etc that have produce to dispose of at end of day..I know bloody regulations say it has to be thrown but ffs these are strange times. When did you last eat a proper full meal? Is the hotel still doing food? Look I know I'm a guy though some would say otherwise but hugs mate..stay strong..talk to the bank..see if there's any rulings to help people get money without incurring interest etc..go to your local church..talk..often they know who or how to contact the right people as they deal with this kind of thing more than most. Fk I better stop now. If you need a chat pm me. Take care man
The banks are open arms as protected by gov and at negative risk..........but forget about zero interest.....its not going to happen"
Yeah that would be about right..people bailed so many banks out years ago and what did we get in return..0 per cent interest rates..it's a crazy world..oh and no offence meant here..just a Lil angry that the supermarkets are bumping their prices up, the Vatican has closed down offering words instead of finances or food..world wide and still money protects money...so sad. |
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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago
Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel |
"theres PLENTY of help available.
-Self employed 80% income based on last 3 years returns ( wonder how many wish they didnt fiddle them now )
-almost instant application of universal credit baring in mind demand
-government back bank loans for small business
-80% wage for those who cant work from home.
-defered mortgage payments
-defered tax payments
what else do you want?
THINGS WONT JUST BE GIVEN TO YOU.
The help is there, adjust your lifestyle. Dont sit and wait. "
Not everyone qualifies for Universal Credit.
It's a long drawn out procedure to get a bank loan apparently.
The 80% self employment doesn't come in until June. That's a long time to live on zero income yet still have things like rent to pay and food to buy.
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By *oi_LucyCouple
over a year ago
Barbados |
"Heres some more advice:
-sky TV? cancel it
-drive a car? SORN it
-Broadband? Cancel it.
-phone creditors; they will help.
If its really that bad after just a few weeks, do something.
Thats all well and good but what about things like council tax? Water rates, energy bills, rent, food, the list goes on.
As for cancelling things, some will entered into 12-18 month contracts and unable to cancel without a fee.
Some people wont be seeimg that 80% of income till june.
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You cancelled your gym membership yet?
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OP
Unless you or those you normally live with are ill, do can still live with them.
If you are technically homeless, contact your local authority now and claim Universal Credit if you haven't already.
I would also suggest contacting supermarkets directly, many are offering direct temporary contracts. If you drive then the pizza chains and other places might want delivery drivers.
Feel free to mesaage me, if you need advice around housing... it's my speciality. |
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"unless you are homeless, no one will be left without income.
If you have to wait, spend wisely.
as for every day bills, its literally advertised daily, posted on all their websites, help is available.
People just need to stop thinking and start doing.
Yes your lifestyle will change for a while, but if you cant adjust fast the tide will be more difficult to fight.
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This is so ridiculously naive. Spend wisely? I.e. don't eat? Because that is the reality some people are facing. |
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By *eniorsxMan
over a year ago
Coggeshall |
I sympathise with you actually, I've been caught in a similar situation myself and am having to do what I can to cope both emotionally and financially. There's been plenty of good advice posted thus far, so I'll save my 2pence worth, but as far as support goes, this thread is showing you that there are people concerned for your situation and wellbeing, some you may not even know. And as ironically as it may read, it takes a negative situation such as yours to show actually, there are some really warm genuine people frequenting these forums.
I hope it gets better for you, and always keep your chin up pal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey OP none of us can truly understand your position..having to move out of home etc and not go back..yes we hear of all these benefits that sound amazing but there's the waiting in line and why oh why does everything have to be done on bloody Internet. .what happened to human contact..social distancing obviously. Man I ve been homeless in past so my heart goes out to you. Stay strong, dig deep. Are there any food banks. .aids stations..because technically you are homeless. Would it be worth talking to hotel owner, though you may already have done that cos you re a smart fella, to see if there's some kind of arrangement you can come to..makes my blood boil that everything is Internet. .there was a time you could walk into a local office and talk to someone. Any bakeries, grocers etc that have produce to dispose of at end of day..I know bloody regulations say it has to be thrown but ffs these are strange times. When did you last eat a proper full meal? Is the hotel still doing food? Look I know I'm a guy though some would say otherwise but hugs mate..stay strong..talk to the bank..see if there's any rulings to help people get money without incurring interest etc..go to your local church..talk..often they know who or how to contact the right people as they deal with this kind of thing more than most. Fk I better stop now. If you need a chat pm me. Take care man "
even the church is shut and agree internet sucks where jobs are concerned, hotel stopped doing restaurant food two weeks ago and breakfast a week ago, so hot food has been a problem for a week now although I've found a fish and chip shop open in paignton a few miles away so may go there, the time thing is the main problem really i have been in isolation for two weeks tomorrow and for me thats enough, thanks for your words appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I sympathise with you actually, I've been caught in a similar situation myself and am having to do what I can to cope both emotionally and financially. There's been plenty of good advice posted thus far, so I'll save my 2pence worth, but as far as support goes, this thread is showing you that there are people concerned for your situation and wellbeing, some you may not even know. And as ironically as it may read, it takes a negative situation such as yours to show actually, there are some really warm genuine people frequenting these forums.
I hope it gets better for you, and always keep your chin up pal"
my chins up and i agree lovely people here, thankyou |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP
Unless you or those you normally live with are ill, do can still live with them.
If you are technically homeless, contact your local authority now and claim Universal Credit if you haven't already.
I would also suggest contacting supermarkets directly, many are offering direct temporary contracts. If you drive then the pizza chains and other places might want delivery drivers.
Feel free to mesaage me, if you need advice around housing... it's my speciality. "
thankyou I'm trying to get work its just getting past the internet, you put in urgent delivery driver jobs, you register your cv which obviously is inappropriate i don't normally work as a delivery driver but the Internet takes you no matter how many different ways you word it, to anything but urgent delivery driver jobs, i even tried the BBC website which had links to tescos and asda urgent delivery driver jobs but nothing all i could find is a job where you need a van which i don't have lol thought about hiring one but i don't have sufficient resources for that I've been here 5 weeks remember staying in hotels |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Can you not go home if you have been in isolation for two weeks? As you are not ill you wouldn't be passing anything on to your relatives?"
they haven't said it but they are worried and its more about them not wanting to take the risk, for many i think its the fear of the unknown. China it seems has come through it and it also seems businesses are having money pumped into them to rejuvenate and companies in China are buying up business going for cheaper prices caused by the problems that they initially caused now theres mercenary for you, a problem orinating in that country but ultimately directly benefitting them. On a lighter note at least the sun is shining |
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