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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone....thought it would be good to have a thread for stag/vixen/hotwife to all chat amongst ourselves. For those of us who have an understanding of what this lifestyle is and looking for those who wish to join in with us.
No cuck couples or “bulls” who think us girls need a “proper man”
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
The hotwife and stag/vixen dynamics are sure fascinating and the uneducated will ultimately frame the wrong picture based on a mindset engineered by 'most' of the hardcore online porn. Some tweets I've seen are awful too however it should be accepted it can also be a kink too. The sexually empowered woman surely is the hottest thing going.
For some though it could even be a pathway, especially for a hotwife, to go down a cuckold route. Cuckoldry doesn't appear to be entirely submissive either so consequently I think there will be lots of differing views on it. Either way, whether hotwife, vixen or as a cuckoldress I sense a husband/boyfriend shouldn't resist her byt embrace her choices.
Listening to quite alot of material and chatting so without doubt, even within the hotwife lifestyle there, there are bespoke agreements. The subtlest of shifts in a play dynamic could also have a monumental impact and perhaps a shift in the direction of a journey. Ultimately, my view, which probably will always scratch the surface, is that whatever dynamic is agreed it should be seen to significantly improve the couple's lifestyle across many areas, not just for their sexual satisfaction.
Any differing views? Is it possible hotwives and vixen/stags don't talk about cuckoldry? Any hotwives, vixens, cuckoldresses or cucks willing to share their journey so far?
Good grief. Forgive my inquisitive mind. I should get out more. 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different. "
Humiliation could be subjective. To one guy it might be expected yet to another it might be a mind blowing. I caveat this by sayimg I'm following a stag/vixen lifestyle which is insightful but it's their story amd nobody elses. I also fully comprehend it is not similar to the lifestyle name I now dare not say (out of respect of the thread's purpose) nevertheless the tiniest of kinks make each stag/vixen lifestyle bespoke and possibly not a one size fits all dynamic.
What makes it a one size fits all dynamic? Playing together? Complete control from hubbs? 75% Control from hubbs? 50% control? Any less, what's that then?
By the way, either way I think it's bloody thrilling regardless of my view. x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different.
Humiliation could be subjective. To one guy it might be expected yet to another it might be a mind blowing. I caveat this by sayimg I'm following a stag/vixen lifestyle which is insightful but it's their story amd nobody elses. I also fully comprehend it is not similar to the lifestyle name I now dare not say (out of respect of the thread's purpose) nevertheless the tiniest of kinks make each stag/vixen lifestyle bespoke and possibly not a one size fits all dynamic.
What makes it a one size fits all dynamic? Playing together? Complete control from hubbs? 75% Control from hubbs? 50% control? Any less, what's that then?
By the way, either way I think it's bloody thrilling regardless of my view. x "
Please don’t take this the wrong way....but I have no idea what you’re talking about. It literally makes zero sense!! |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different.
Humiliation could be subjective. To one guy it might be expected yet to another it might be a mind blowing. I caveat this by sayimg I'm following a stag/vixen lifestyle which is insightful but it's their story amd nobody elses. I also fully comprehend it is not similar to the lifestyle name I now dare not say (out of respect of the thread's purpose) nevertheless the tiniest of kinks make each stag/vixen lifestyle bespoke and possibly not a one size fits all dynamic.
What makes it a one size fits all dynamic? Playing together? Complete control from hubbs? 75% Control from hubbs? 50% control? Any less, what's that then?
By the way, either way I think it's bloody thrilling regardless of my view. x
Please don’t take this the wrong way....but I have no idea what you’re talking about. It literally makes zero sense!! "
I won't; no problem.  I await the enlightenment so for now less said the better. x |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
Babbacombe Torquay |
Anyone who believes that humiliation HAS to be part of a cuckold relationship doesn't truly understand cuckolding.
Cuckolding has many facets, that different cuckold couples enjoy to a different degree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyone who believes that humiliation HAS to be part of a cuckold relationship doesn't truly understand cuckolding.
Cuckolding has many facets, that different cuckold couples enjoy to a different degree "
That’s cool but this is a thread for hot wife stag vixen stuff. Plenty of cuckold threads to enjoy |
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By *anes HubbyCouple
over a year ago
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"Anyone who believes that humiliation HAS to be part of a cuckold relationship doesn't truly understand cuckolding.
Cuckolding has many facets, that different cuckold couples enjoy to a different degree
That’s cool but this is a thread for hot wife stag vixen stuff. Plenty of cuckold threads to enjoy "
Simply responding to your comments about cuckold and humiliation..... |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
"I'm a Stag and my long term girlfriend is my vixen. Works perfectly for us."
OK, a girlfriend, and a long term one at that (long term being relatively subjective too) so how would you respond to anyone saying that it's just a FWB relationship? You both living together would knock that ridiculous question out the park, right? |
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Yep, that basically covers us as I understand it! There's no power dynamic involved for us, just Mrs indulging her desires and Mr appreciating her at her hottest. I guess there's something of a voyeuristic streak being satisfied for me (Mr) as well! |
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"I’m trying to get into this lifestyle as a bull for a cuckold couple, can anyone give me any pointers "
I would from our experience that its the sort of thing that you are either a bull or not. There is a common misconception that bulls just rock up and fuck her senseless telling her what to do...
I have no doubt there are people who know better than me on this topic, but thats just my perspective. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
London |
"I’m trying to get into this lifestyle as a bull for a cuckold couple, can anyone give me any pointers "
Yes, go to a club and get experience getting caught in the headlights of a party. Embrace many aspects of the swinging lifestyle. Inform yourself. Go through what appears to be a normal passage of play and chill the hell out.
A cuckold couple has no time for wannabes as their time is terribly precious. You fail to deliver and you have literally screwed yourself alongside binning whatever self proclaimed reputation you held. A cuckold couple having done due diligence would rule you out immediately. A cuckold couple who doesn't seriously puts at risk their relationship if they are chatting to someone who is looking for pointers at this stage.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thanks for starting this thread. Not overly experienced in this but, my understanding is that the vixen/hotwife is very different cuckolding, and, that basically it comes down to there being no form of humiliation. I particularly like that sense of enjoyment that everyone can have together. |
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We are a hotwife couple. Mr Alice (Chris) is no way a cuckold. Sharing me with men turns him on...Big Time! He loves it!
I don't have the same inclinations re sharing him. I have my own personal kinks, we are all wired differently.
Most men we meet for MMf/MMMMf etc get it! And I love the way they all hug and shake hands and thank my other half for his generosity after we've all had a good time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are a hotwife couple. Mr Alice (Chris) is no way a cuckold. Sharing me with men turns him on...Big Time! He loves it!
I don't have the same inclinations re sharing him. I have my own personal kinks, we are all wired differently.
Most men we meet for MMf/MMMMf etc get it! And I love the way they all hug and shake hands and thank my other half for his generosity after we've all had a good time."
Bumped into yourself several times and you as a couple,and whatever the set up it seems to work for both of you as you’ve both always been happy all the time I’ve seen you..
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By *almprintsWoman
over a year ago
deepest, darkest West |
I'm a hotwife and for us it is simply that my husband is terribly proud of his wife and wants me to enjoy myself and other people.
He gets turned on by my exploits and I love turning him on with stories and little "trophies", i.e. scratches, bruises. No judgement, no jealousy, just fun.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different. "
We don’t get the confusion either, stag / vixen is completely different to the cuckold scenario, well put op. |
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Hi all can I join in with you all.
Iv been on the side of the lifestyle just over a year now but getting more active now. I'm really loving the social side of it and met and made some really lovely friends. I wish I'd got into the lifestyle a lot sooner.
Anyway I'm looking forward to chatting with you all and maybe even meeting you at some point.
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
Catthorpe |
"Stag/vixen is totally different to cuckolding.
There is no humiliation involved in a stag vixen lifestyle. I really struggle to understand where people think there are the same.
Yes that is our opinion but i have asked on this thread for it to be stag/vixens not cuckolds as they dynamic is different.
We don’t get the confusion either, stag / vixen is completely different to the cuckold scenario, well put op."
Almost always clear cut. Great profile btw |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
Aberdeenshire |
Hey everyone! Great idea for a thread! We have a couple of questions, the first is somewhat rhetorical!
1. Why when someone says something like: “Let’s not discuss cuckolding”, does everyone then start saying: “Yeah, but cuckold...”
2. Definitions of Stag / Vixen / Hotwife/husband...
Are we right on thinking that in general these are:
Stag - a husband of a vixen who has sexual relations with others while his partner is there.
Vixen - a wife who has sexual relations with others while her partner is there.
No humiliation in either case but both could be playing with others at the same time, or just watching, but they would be present. Stag/Vixen doesn’t really describe if it’s only the husband or only the wife that plays in the way that cuckolding/cuckqueaning does?
Hotwife - a wife who has sex with others without their husband being present but possibly sending photos etc
Hothusband - same as Hotwife but it’s the husband who has sex with others without the wife present.
Would this be accurate? |
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By *bzcoupleCouple
over a year ago
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"Can call yourselves what ever you want.
We just started a thread that for once wouldn’t involve cuckolding.
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Absolutely, they are just labels and we wouldn’t class ourselves as any one as our dynamic changes as our mood does!
Just curious as definitions vary so much! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stag and vixen here. I (mr) get totally turned on by my vixen flirting and playing and love that she gets treated well and gets to be so sexual. For me it’s a million miles from the humiliation involved in cuckolding |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Stag and vixen here. I (mr) get totally turned on by my vixen flirting and playing and love that she gets treated well and gets to be so sexual. For me it’s a million miles from the humiliation involved in cuckolding"
Exactly the same here. More than happy to let her play on her own or join in. Just depends what mood I’m in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Were completely new this but Jay absolutely loves me with other men. Weve strayed away from couples in favour of two males and I've even attended meets alone and come back with stories and pictures for Jay. In no way is he a cuckold and in no way is there any humiliation. Am I right in thinking we may be starting to fall into the stag and vixen lifestyle? X |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Were completely new this but Jay absolutely loves me with other men. Weve strayed away from couples in favour of two males and I've even attended meets alone and come back with stories and pictures for Jay. In no way is he a cuckold and in no way is there any humiliation. Am I right in thinking we may be starting to fall into the stag and vixen lifestyle? X"
Sounds about right to us. |
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"Hey everyone! Great idea for a thread! We have a couple of questions, the first is somewhat rhetorical!
1. Why when someone says something like: “Let’s not discuss cuckolding”, does everyone then start saying: “Yeah, but cuckold...”
2. Definitions of Stag / Vixen / Hotwife/husband...
Are we right on thinking that in general these are:
Stag - a husband of a vixen who has sexual relations with others while his partner is there.
Vixen - a wife who has sexual relations with others while her partner is there.
No humiliation in either case but both could be playing with others at the same time, or just watching, but they would be present. Stag/Vixen doesn’t really describe if it’s only the husband or only the wife that plays in the way that cuckolding/cuckqueaning does?
Hotwife - a wife who has sex with others without their husband being present but possibly sending photos etc
Hothusband - same as Hotwife but it’s the husband who has sex with others without the wife present.
Would this be accurate?"
Well if it is an accurate definition that makes sense to me - so it would indicate that in the two meets we have had with the same chap its in a Stag/Vixen role as the two of us enjoyed sexual relations with Spice with no one being humiliated or pushed away. In my day it was just called a 3some 
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By (user no longer on site)
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Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x |
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I’m a hotwife and my partner is a stag - he doesn’t play with others but his kink is to get off on watching me with other guys, sometimes joining in.
We’ve been together 2 years and it’s a constantly evolving thing. I think at first he wanted to be more of a ‘dom’ but soon realised I’m not very good at doing what I’m told . Our relationship is very equal - we are very open with communication and both express what we need. He likes to be the one to organise meets so largely I leave that to him as it makes him happy, although I do have input. I like clubs and the element of mystery of not knowing who will be there, so that keeps me happy too.
He’s got to know very well what I like, what kind of guys I like...he will step in at meets if he knows I’ll be unhappy about something, and he’s my quality control at clubs too! I feel very safe with him there, and it’s really hot kissing him or holding his hand while I’m being fucked.
It took me a while to get my head around the fact that he was REALLY ok with me having sex with other people and him not doing that (I personally couldn’t deal with that which is why I’ve only played when single before we got together). But now I can see he is, and oddly each meet/club trip makes our relationship stronger and we’re even more in love. And the reclaim sex afterwards is always great |
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Any women interested in teaming up wite
For this scenario,i am a reasonably attractive male with a athletic toned body and a gsoh.easy going and non pushy. Can accommodate and travel for the right person x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Opposite for us, I love doughnut, my husband going out and having a good time, I love hearing about it all.
I find him very sexy and want to share him, we sometimes play together but not often with another female. |
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"I’m a hotwife and my partner is a stag - he doesn’t play with others but his kink is to get off on watching me with other guys, sometimes joining in.
We’ve been together 2 years and it’s a constantly evolving thing. I think at first he wanted to be more of a ‘dom’ but soon realised I’m not very good at doing what I’m told . Our relationship is very equal - we are very open with communication and both express what we need. He likes to be the one to organise meets so largely I leave that to him as it makes him happy, although I do have input. I like clubs and the element of mystery of not knowing who will be there, so that keeps me happy too.
He’s got to know very well what I like, what kind of guys I like...he will step in at meets if he knows I’ll be unhappy about something, and he’s my quality control at clubs too! I feel very safe with him there, and it’s really hot kissing him or holding his hand while I’m being fucked.
It took me a while to get my head around the fact that he was REALLY ok with me having sex with other people and him not doing that (I personally couldn’t deal with that which is why I’ve only played when single before we got together). But now I can see he is, and oddly each meet/club trip makes our relationship stronger and we’re even more in love. And the reclaim sex afterwards is always great "
Our dynamic is the same |
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The wife gets the freedom to enjoy the company of the opposite sex. Many married women would like to enjoy the company of men other than their husbands, but they don’t get that chance. When a man allows his woman to be in the company of other men, she can enjoy that fresh kind of intimacy.
Jealousy is one of the major reasons many relationships fail and insecurity is a contributing factor in many disagreements and breakups. Hotwifing can help to rid the man of his feelings of jealousy, and when he gives his wife the freedom to be who she wants to be, she knows her husband has her best interests at heart, which helps her trust him more
Hotwifing gives both the man and woman in a couple the perfect chance to gain important knowledge about themselves and each other that can help increase the intimacy of their connection. The new adventures and the wide variety of options dramatically deepen a couple's bond.
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I don't particularly mind what the dynamic is, be it stag/vixen or cuckold. I just love meeting hotwife couples.
The not into humiliation thing does make me smile though. Its such a common misconception. In reality more often that not cucks have no interest in being humiliated unless its directed at them by their hotwife. |
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By *oobyLewCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey everyone! Great idea for a thread! We have a couple of questions, the first is somewhat rhetorical!
1. Why when someone says something like: “Let’s not discuss cuckolding”, does everyone then start saying: “Yeah, but cuckold...”
2. Definitions of Stag / Vixen / Hotwife/husband...
Are we right on thinking that in general these are:
Stag - a husband of a vixen who has sexual relations with others while his partner is there.
Vixen - a wife who has sexual relations with others while her partner is there.
No humiliation in either case but both could be playing with others at the same time, or just watching, but they would be present. Stag/Vixen doesn’t really describe if it’s only the husband or only the wife that plays in the way that cuckolding/cuckqueaning does?
Hotwife - a wife who has sex with others without their husband being present but possibly sending photos etc
Hothusband - same as Hotwife but it’s the husband who has sex with others without the wife present.
Would this be accurate?"
This sums it up for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love the hotwife scenario. I would be very interested in trying to find a nice couple for this kind of arrangement. I have met couples and love the dynamic it creates. |
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By *oobyLewCouple
over a year ago
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x"
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? |
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? "
sounds like your had amazing meets |
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By *oobyLewCouple
over a year ago
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? sounds like your had amazing meets "
Yes we have the hard part is finding the right person some think that a hotwife/vixon will have sex with anyone. Far from it we both have to be comfortable with them and above all he has to tick the right boxes for her. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? "
We had the same thing happen the other week apart from it was at ours and stag was sick upstairs just before we all went up.
He decided to sit it out and leave vixen to play on her own. |
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? sounds like your had amazing meets
Yes we have the hard part is finding the right person some think that a hotwife/vixon will have sex with anyone. Far from it we both have to be comfortable with them and above all he has to tick the right boxes for her. "
You sound exactly like us vixen won’t play with anyone unless we are both comfortable with them. I used to join in but now I’m more than happy to stay downstairs and enjoy the reclaim sex even more. |
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By *oobyLewCouple
over a year ago
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than
disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? sounds like your had amazing meets
Yes we have the hard part is finding the right person some think that a hotwife/vixon will have sex with anyone. Far from it we both have to be comfortable with them and above all he has to tick the right boxes for her.
You sound exactly like us vixen won’t play with anyone unless we are both comfortable with them. I used to join in but now I’m more than happy to stay downstairs and enjoy the reclaim sex even more. "
I dont go along just enjoy the fact she's having a great time and feeling special |
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"Yeah the only difference is that in many stag / vixen relationships the vixen meets guys on her own and not just (if at all) with her stag. We love both x
Still trying to work this out Stag /Vixen or hotwife. Ours started by accident we had arranged a MMF meet but I was ill rather than disappoint them both (we had meet the other man a few times as a couple) I told her to go on her own. At first she was reluctant but did agree I can only say it was great for both of us. We still enjoy this sort of arrangement and there's no humiliation at all I love the fact that it turns her on so much but is she a hot wife or vixen? sounds like your had amazing meets
Yes we have the hard part is finding the right person some think that a hotwife/vixon will have sex with anyone. Far from it we both have to be comfortable with them and above all he has to tick the right boxes for her. "
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By *andm288Couple
over a year ago
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"We are a hotwife couple. Mr Alice (Chris) is no way a cuckold. Sharing me with men turns him on...Big Time! He loves it!
I don't have the same inclinations re sharing him. I have my own personal kinks, we are all wired differently.
Most men we meet for MMf/MMMMf etc get it! And I love the way they all hug and shake hands and thank my other half for his generosity after we've all had a good time."
Well put couldn’t agree more |
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Definitely prefer Hotwives / Stag Vixen meets. Sharing a hot wife seeing the smile and the naughty exchanges between the couple is such a turn on. Especially if there are challenges or Roleplay scenarios to follow. Also like a go with the flow. Not so keen on cuckold
Any hotwives, Stag/Vixen coupled check my profile, send a message or wink if your interested.
Have fun everyone. |
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over a year ago
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We are loving the Hotwife lifestyle...
we were both singles on fab for years before we met.. then fell totally in love... we’ve now been together for two years.
If you’re thinking about doing it definitely do.. just have open and good communication.
And just enjoy it.. I like seeing her as the centre of attention when we meet for mmf, she also meets solo.. in fact she is later this evening..
Hotwife= hotlife |
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We are just starting out and love the hotwife , stag vixon life style . People or some guys on here think couples do it because something missing from relationships . Far from it . We have the most amazing sex life with each other . It’s that good we are able to talk about fantasys and this is how got into the hotwife lifestyle  |
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over a year ago
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"I'm a hotwife and for us it is simply that my husband is terribly proud of his wife and wants me to enjoy myself and other people.
He gets turned on by my exploits and I love turning him on with stories and little "trophies", i.e. scratches, bruises. No judgement, no jealousy, just fun.
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I can certainly attest to you being a hotwife and have partaken in an exploit or two with you! Heres to many more |
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We both enjoy the hotwife scenario, in our opinion it’s one of the most sexually powerful acts a couple can share.
There is nothing more arousing than your wife either going out on a date or bringing her lover home and taking him upstairs. To reclaim my wife after she has been with her lover is very erotic.
Just our opinion of course. |
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we were both singles on fab for years before we met.. then fell totally in love... we’ve now been together for two years.
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Trust me to go looking for a really unusual type of relationship - great to read that someone else has found it successfully, though!
This post made me wonder...
Q: Stag/vixen couples ... how did you meet? Was it through the lifestyle, or did you meet in vanilla land and discover the dynamic afterwards?
- Stag (one day |
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By *Xtriple7Couple
over a year ago
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I guess we fall into this group. We're not into so called 'bulls, cucks' and humiliation.
We got started in this lifestyle by me being brutally honest & upfront about the fact that I enjoyed gang bangs when I was single. Fortunately for me she was interested in knowing more.
Over the course of several months we went from watching only at a gb to having her as the centre of attention at her own gb.
We've had some bumps along the way with me getting jealous etc, but with good communication we've got through any issues and are looking forward to more fun times. |
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We’d love to hear from gents that understand the hotwife dynamic. Have really struggled to find suitable guys on here, with the patience to actually chat to L and build up the tension. |
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I think everyone had their own things that just work for them. I love my wife being a hotwife and it leans towards cuckolding at times maybe in that I like to be told to watch it to listen for instance.... But it's about teasing and not about humiliation. It's about enjoying her being able to have a good time and seeing her enjoy herself sexually, but still somewhat present.
It's a funny line, but when you get it just right the thrill is great... |
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"We love the hotwife scene just so hard to find a guy that totally understands the dynamics. But the search goes on."
The hotwife scene is very enjoyable for everyone involved. A celebration of the wife attractiveness without any of degradation and humiliation of cuckholding.  |
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We've been in the lifestyle over a year now. A Vixen/Stag lifestyle is the Stag expressing he's confident and comfortable in sharing his Vixen with other Men/Women because he likes watching his Vixen having pleasure.
Best part of it, is my Stag reclaiming me after I've had sex with someone else xx
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"We've been in the lifestyle over a year now. A Vixen/Stag lifestyle is the Stag expressing he's confident and comfortable in sharing his Vixen with other Men/Women because he likes watching his Vixen having pleasure.
Best part of it, is my Stag reclaiming me after I've had sex with someone else xx
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It’s always good when others understand the dynamics. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I really enjoyed reading all the different opinions on this lifestyle and what works for everyone.
I was introduced to this lifestyle many years ago and have been enjoying it ever since.
The fundamental difference for me here is the husband. The stags I have met are confident guys that enjoy to share, watch, Show off there queen to other men.
It’s a unique dynamic where all 3 people involved will satisfy there own kink/desire which will be different to the other people involved.
For me the chemistry is most important. Being able to go out for drinks together chat flirt be friends, the build up and connection is what makes is so exciting for me.
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This sums up our dynamic. We happily play as a couple with a couple (but it is hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction between all).
So we have both agreed to enjoy a hotwife/husband stag/vixen lifestyle too. Ensuring we have the trust and communication in place to allow each-other to go out and have "fun" with regulars or one-offs alone.
Post meeting, describing what happened and the reclaim sex has really added spice to our relationship. |
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By *oAnCouple
over a year ago
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"This sums up our dynamic. We happily play as a couple with a couple (but it is hard to find a dynamic where there is mutual attraction between all).
So we have both agreed to enjoy a hotwife/husband stag/vixen lifestyle too. Ensuring we have the trust and communication in place to allow each-other to go out and have "fun" with regulars or one-offs alone.
Post meeting, describing what happened and the reclaim sex has really added spice to our relationship. "
Because of my age difference with Mo (60) and I'm (mid 30) we have also found like you that it is easier for us to have fun separately, rather than try and find a couple for us both. We also have a unique circle of friends this way.  |
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