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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

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By *outhlondon_guyMan over a year ago

London

Sounds good. When you thinking

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sounds good. When you thinking "

No idea yet want to see what interest there is 1st.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes, please. Sounds fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry I’m too young to attend, hopefully it’s a great night

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Sorry I’m too young to attend, hopefully it’s a great night

Will have to try arrange a private social with you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So am i

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm up for a social. Looking to meet new people from fabs

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By *S2629Couple over a year ago

crawley

We would deffo be up for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m up for this aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Getting some good interest.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am keen on this as well.

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By *quirtqueen1983Couple over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

We are in

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By *wlman200Man over a year ago

Croydon,

I am in

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm too old

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By *lyn2000Man over a year ago

london

I'm 11 years too late,lol

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By *hisfaceMan over a year ago

South East London

Sounds fantastic.... my area too x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s all hot air nothing will happen

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s all hot air nothing will happen "

Nice of you to comment then block us.

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By *ondonerMan over a year ago

London / Essex borders

Depending on date and location I'd be very keen! Always nice to meet some people on your hotlist ')

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m interested in coming

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By *ax55Man over a year ago

Hertford

I’m to old lol

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By *FSurreyCouple over a year ago

Surrey

Possibly, depends on location

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By *oldenskyWoman over a year ago

london

Can’t it be up to 44

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By *k1986Man over a year ago

local

Could be tempted, depending on dates

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can’t it be up to 44 "
maybe for you

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By *hat The CuckCouple over a year ago

South London

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

We would be interested and would love to meet other locals but sadly we’re blocked

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

We would be interested and would love to meet other locals but sadly we’re blocked

Turns out you was no idea why. We’ve never spoken to you so can’t see why. Unblocked now though

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By *oldenskyWoman over a year ago

london

"Can’t it be up to 44 maybe for you

Pretty please

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

at 48, would I be too old?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Can’t it be up to 44 maybe for you

Pretty please "

I never got to meet you at the last social so you can definitely come.

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By *exyangeleyesMan over a year ago

london

I would be interested depending on location

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By *idingInPlainSightMan over a year ago

Mitcham

I can't decide if it is foolish of me to reply to this thread, but I'd love to be part of this social.

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By *team7279Couple over a year ago

London

We might be keen depending on the date! Mrs A qualifies on age, but Mister A is 6 years over. Will she need to check him at the door?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It sounds like it could be a lot of fun. Hopefully I can come along. X

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By *onzoniko1Man over a year ago

North Woolwich

Sounds like a great plan, depending on location I'm definitely up for it. Count me in.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can host tomorrow night? Park Plaza hotel in Westminster.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I can host tomorrow night? Park Plaza hotel in Westminster. "

Good for you but this is a thread for a social

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By *oldenskyWoman over a year ago

london

"Can’t it be up to 44 maybe for you

Pretty please

I never got to meet you at the last social so you can definitely come. "

Thanks see you at the next one

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was thinking fun but one of us may not make the cut of 40

Life is so unfair

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hey everyone, we’re starting to look at dates. It will be a Saturday evening we know that much xx

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By *cd and scruffCouple over a year ago

Rochester

I feel sooo old.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s all hot air nothing will happen

Nice of you to comment then block us. "

I think you’ll find u blocked me

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"It’s all hot air nothing will happen

Nice of you to comment then block us.

I think you’ll find u blocked me

Clearly we made a good choice then.

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Why have you set an age limit?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Why have you set an age limit?"

Why should we not have?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

Let me get this right you want us to organise a social for over 40’s?

There are plenty of socials around London that people over 40 can go too.

We was trying to organise a social for the younger crowd in London.

As a lot of the socials you will find the attendees are over 40 and not really what we want to play with or drink with.

No other socials have been aimed at the younger crowd.

Unfortunately the abuse we’ve been getting via private messages from people over 40 has put us off from doing this.

Sorry everyone.

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

Let me get this right you want us to organise a social for over 40’s?

There are plenty of socials around London that people over 40 can go too.

We was trying to organise a social for the younger crowd in London.

As a lot of the socials you will find the attendees are over 40 and not really what we want to play with or drink with.

No other socials have been aimed at the younger crowd.

Unfortunately the abuse we’ve been getting via private messages from people over 40 has put us off from doing this.

Sorry everyone. "
. Stag & Vixen I am sorry to hear that you have been getting abuse from people over the age of 40 who really should know better.It’s your social and you organise it as you see fit you have set a criteria so stick with it.I am sure it will be a great success as it looks like you are targeting age group that perhaps are comfortable attending other socials with people nearer their age group as opposed say to my age group.Best of luck with everything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

Let me get this right you want us to organise a social for over 40’s?

There are plenty of socials around London that people over 40 can go too.

We was trying to organise a social for the younger crowd in London.

As a lot of the socials you will find the attendees are over 40 and not really what we want to play with or drink with.

No other socials have been aimed at the younger crowd.

Unfortunately the abuse we’ve been getting via private messages from people over 40 has put us off from doing this.

Sorry everyone. . Stag & Vixen I am sorry to hear that you have been getting abuse from people over the age of 40 who really should know better.It’s your social and you organise it as you see fit you have set a criteria so stick with it.I am sure it will be a great success as it looks like you are targeting age group that perhaps are comfortable attending other socials with people nearer their age group as opposed say to my age group.Best of luck with everything."

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

Let me get this right you want us to organise a social for over 40’s?

There are plenty of socials around London that people over 40 can go too.

We was trying to organise a social for the younger crowd in London.

As a lot of the socials you will find the attendees are over 40 and not really what we want to play with or drink with.

No other socials have been aimed at the younger crowd.

Unfortunately the abuse we’ve been getting via private messages from people over 40 has put us off from doing this.

And this is exactly what we was trying to do but have had nothing but grief since suggesting it. It’s fine for other socials to ignore younger people but put an age limit on and we are in the wrong. "
. Most of the socials I have attend there hasn’t been many under 40’s about so I can understand where you are coming from and what you are trying to do.I think what you are trying to do is good for the age group you are trying to attract.The social may start of small but in time may grow and develop

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?"

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try...."

Must be fairly thick if you think at 48 you would of been invited to a 25-40 social.

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By *omvampmMan over a year ago

gillingham

"Hi everyone

Putting the feelers out to see if there is interest for a social with us and like minded fabbers ages 25-40

Date and Location not set yet but will be local to Croydon/Bromley

Stag and Vixen xxx

Would def be interested sadly I'm 46 so guess that's me out I see there's a lot of us over 40 replied cud we not extend the boundaries or maybe organise another social for us old people lol x

Let me get this right you want us to organise a social for over 40’s?

There are plenty of socials around London that people over 40 can go too.

We was trying to organise a social for the younger crowd in London.

As a lot of the socials you will find the attendees are over 40 and not really what we want to play with or drink with.

No other socials have been aimed at the younger crowd.

Unfortunately the abuse we’ve been getting via private messages from people over 40 has put us off from doing this.

Sorry everyone. "
I totally respect what your saying was simply asking the question wasn't expecting you to organise a separate social for us older people was just putting the idea out there and was not criticising you in anyway my apologies if it came over that way and I certainly don't condoned people being rude to you it's your social you invite whom ever you wish. We all get older and we were all younger once to tastes change as do opinions and likes dislikes x age should be just a number I think now but prob if asked when I was younger I'd say different as prob you will when your nearer 50 than 40 anyway hope you have fun and find what you desire I wish you both well xx

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try....

Must be fairly thick if you think at 48 you would of been invited to a 25-40 social.

Sorry!!!!!!!! What was that about people being abusive to you? A simple, sorry but 48 os out of age range, would have done the trick.

I was going to say sorry you had got abusive emails and then say do t give up.

But, nahhhhhh, beat give up guys. Suits everyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try....

Must be fairly thick if you think at 48 you would of been invited to a 25-40 social.

Sorry!!!!!!!! What was that about people being abusive to you? A simple, sorry but 48 os out of age range, would have done the trick.

I was going to say sorry you had got abusive emails and then say do t give up.

But, nahhhhhh, beat give up guys. Suits everyone"

Shouldn’t really need to point that fact out that your over the age limit but then again you should have seen the age limit and not even bothered posting.

We have given up bothering to host a social due to people like yourself. Thinking your self entitled to ignore and disrespect what people are looking for.

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By *r_PinkMan over a year ago

london stratford

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try....

Must be fairly thick if you think at 48 you would of been invited to a 25-40 social.

Sorry!!!!!!!! What was that about people being abusive to you? A simple, sorry but 48 os out of age range, would have done the trick.

I was going to say sorry you had got abusive emails and then say do t give up.

But, nahhhhhh, beat give up guys. Suits everyone

Shouldn’t really need to point that fact out that your over the age limit but then again you should have seen the age limit and not even bothered posting.

We have given up bothering to host a social due to people like yourself. Thinking your self entitled to ignore and disrespect what people are looking for. "

All I know is that I am not rude .... Unlike yourself. End of... No more even bothering reading this one anymore. So feel free to be rude and abusive to me... I wont be looking x

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By *os19Man over a year ago

Edmonton

"at 48, would I be too old?

Really? Are you really asking that?

Yes I really am asking..

I gotta try....

Must be fairly thick if you think at 48 you would of been invited to a 25-40 social.

Sorry!!!!!!!! What was that about people being abusive to you? A simple, sorry but 48 os out of age range, would have done the trick.

I was going to say sorry you had got abusive emails and then say do t give up.

But, nahhhhhh, beat give up guys. Suits everyone

Shouldn’t really need to point that fact out that your over the age limit but then again you should have seen the age limit and not even bothered posting.

We have given up bothering to host a social due to people like yourself. Thinking your self entitled to ignore and disrespect what people are looking for. "
. Stag & Vixen don’t give up on trying to host a social for the 25 - 40 group if that is what you want.Forgot the older ones who have been rude & abusive to you if you really want to do it give it a go.You have hit upon a good idea it seems a shame not to follow it through.Best of luck with whatever you decide.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can do it! I believe in you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Phew! This thread takes some reading to get to the end of...

Anyways, I'll second the last post here and say don't give up on the under 40s social idea, it's a great idea and those of us who have seen the thread and actually qualify would love for it to take off, by the sounds of it

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By *lyn2000Man over a year ago

london

I don't qualify age wise but I hope you don't give up on hosting your social night,don't let the morons put you off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I feel sooo old. "

One of us feels that way but doesn’t act it. Say hello?

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By *harmingCMan over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

Sorry you two are getting a lot of flack for just putting feelers out in regard to a social, hope they haven’t taken all the fun out of it for you,

Also would like to show my interest in the meet,

Hope you have a good week

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By *kbull4uMan over a year ago

Christchurch Dorset

Count me in please. Although I am 41 ?

Ade x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m too old to attend lol

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By *tlwMan over a year ago

Bermondsey

Count me in please!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds interesting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Count me in please. Although I am 41 ?

Ade x"

You are too old, they said 40 max.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey... count me in x

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Hey... count me in x"

You're too old for them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!"

What is your problem?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think its a great idea, i'd be interested.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?"

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

A lucky escape, methinks

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab. "

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab. "

I think she made a statement not a question. She was just pointing out to the person that they were too old. I don’t think she would have been questioning why you are excluding older.

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By *isaB45Woman over a year ago

Fabville

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab. "

Actualy, this is a public forum, and and I asked a simple question. It shouldn't result in a tirade of abuse.

I'm stepping out now, since I have nothing further to say.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

I've been to a few socials, none have had an age limit and everyone has mixed well and enjoyed themselves.

Obviously I'm too old to attend, but I would be put off by any social which discrimated on age, race, sezuality or anything else

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

And that’s totally fine as it’s your preference. This is our preference. You like older men, we personally don’t. We was aiming a social at people in our age range as you tend to have more in common

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

That’s more understandable than saying younger people tend not to want to mingle with all the old folk

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've been to a few socials, none have had an age limit and everyone has mixed well and enjoyed themselves.

Obviously I'm too old to attend, but I would be put off by any social which discrimated on age, race, sezuality or anything else"

Again that’s totally fine. But socials and clubs do themed nights. BdSm/BBW/ cubs and cougars and so on. We are tailoring a social to our preference and have had a lot of interest in it.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

I'm sorry, but speaking from my vast experience on fab that is rubbish!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I think she made a statement not a question. She was just pointing out to the person that they were too old. I don’t think she would have been questioning why you are excluding older. "

Look further up the thread where she asked a question. Her sentence finished with a question mark generally that signifies a question.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

Actualy, this is a public forum, and and I asked a simple question. It shouldn't result in a tirade of abuse.

I'm stepping out now, since I have nothing further to say. "

What’s a tirade of abuse? Please explain

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

I'm sorry, but speaking from my vast experience on fab that is rubbish! "

Darling that’s your opinion and you are entitled to it....I think you are saying it’s rubbish that people of a similar age range tend to have more in common, but from our experience that has been the case....naturally there are exceptions. We attend other socials and mix with all ages,But our wants and needs are different as a couple to yours as a single female. We are allowed preferences as is anyone else on fab

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

You know your welcome to stay at ours again.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

You know your welcome to stay at ours again. "

Well duhhh, who else with be my maps and feed me

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

I'm sorry, but speaking from my vast experience on fab that is rubbish!

Please don't patronise me, I am not your darling.

I was under the impression that group socials were about meeting new people generally and not an opportunity for the organisers to vet possible new play partners.

You obviously have your own agenda and I wonder if you'll be asking for face and body pictures next

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

You know your welcome to stay at ours again.

Well duhhh, who else with be my maps and feed me

And get up in the morning to go buy you a toothbrush so you don’t have banging breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hey... count me in x

You're too old for them!

What is your problem?

I think what Lisa was trying to point out, was that 1978 was the wrong year to be born.

She’s also questioning why we put an age limit on. To be blunt it’s none of her business why we put an age limit on. We shouldn’t need to justify to anyone why we was having an age limit.

Most young people don’t really want to go to socials with the older crowd so we thought we would try and cater for the younger side of fab.

I’m 22 so would be too young anyway, even if I was anywhere near ya. But I wouldn’t mind socialising with anyone of any age

I'm sorry, but speaking from my vast experience on fab that is rubbish!

Please don't patronise me, I am not your darling.

I was under the impression that group socials were about meeting new people generally and not an opportunity for the organisers to vet possible new play partners.

You obviously have your own agenda and I wonder if you'll be asking for face and body pictures next"

Oh calling someone darling isn’t patronising actually, but oh well.

It’s not about vetting play partners, we do plenty well in the play department. You’ve missed my point. What’s the difference between ours and a bbw/BdSm/cubs and cougars social? The answer is nothing.

You don’t know us, you’ve no idea what we’re about....let alone to imply we have an agenda.

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By *aucy tiggerWoman over a year ago

Back where I belong

Whatever, good luck with your social I'm off to deal with my verruca

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"this has now become a free for all sooo, I’m coming. Don’t care if I’m not wanted

You know your welcome to stay at ours again.

Well duhhh, who else with be my maps and feed me

And get up in the morning to go buy you a toothbrush so you don’t have banging breath"

That is true.. can’t ask for more

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Whatever, good luck with your social I'm off to deal with my verruca

See you later. Thanks for your input. Your many years of experience on fab has really helped in this situation.

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By *adyGardenWoman over a year ago

LONDON (se)

Wow people can be so rude just because they don't fit a preference. Here I was thinking this was a place for grown ups but reading some comments it's like playground bs.

OP you do you and just ignore the haters and don't give them your voice by replying to their nonsense

Have a great Easter weekend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wow people can be so rude just because they don't fit a preference. Here I was thinking this was a place for grown ups but reading some comments it's like playground bs.

OP you do you and just ignore the haters and don't give them your voice by replying to their nonsense

Have a great Easter weekend "

I do believe rudeness have come from both sides not just people who don’t fit into the criteria.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

It’s quite amusing to see an OP defend their preference of age setting (fair enough) and be bolshy to anyone that asks if there’s flexibility (one can say sorry but no without being so arsey) but the best bit is the fact that the entitled bolshy attitude is a farce when earlier up the thread they already flexed their age preferences for a 44yr old female, and can’t see that that might also mean others will ask the question ignoring the age stipulation as the OP has already demonstrated it’s not fixed in stone (for some).

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It’s quite amusing to see an OP defend their preference of age setting (fair enough) and be bolshy to anyone that asks if there’s flexibility (one can say sorry but no without being so arsey) but the best bit is the fact that the entitled bolshy attitude is a farce when earlier up the thread they already flexed their age preferences for a 44yr old female, and can’t see that that might also mean others will ask the question ignoring the age stipulation as the OP has already demonstrated it’s not fixed in stone (for some).

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

it’s becoming quite boring talking about all of this all the time. Yes someone of 44 has been told they can come....it’s someone that one half of us have met before briefly at another social....not that we need to explain.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest. "

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions."

Oh sweetie I am ever so sorry.....I made a mistake....I should of said that despite what you decide on our attitude....it will have zero impact on us and it will not change.....nothing shattered here

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions.

Oh sweetie I am ever so sorry.....I made a mistake....I should of said that despite what you decide on our attitude....it will have zero impact on us and it will not change.....nothing shattered here "

There’s a great quote from Shakespeare that springs to mind; “methinks the lady doth protest too much”...

Anyway, thanks for making me chortle. Good luck with your social, you’ve every right to have your fun however you want.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Second social posting is up on the London forum...can’t wait to see you all

Kisses xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions.

Oh sweetie I am ever so sorry.....I made a mistake....I should of said that despite what you decide on our attitude....it will have zero impact on us and it will not change.....nothing shattered here

There’s a great quote from Shakespeare that springs to mind; “methinks the lady doth protest too much”...

Anyway, thanks for making me chortle. Good luck with your social, you’ve every right to have your fun however you want.

If you read the thread you will see we have only said no to one person. We haven’t rejected anyone else.

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By *adyGardenWoman over a year ago

LONDON (se)

"Wow people can be so rude just because they don't fit a preference. Here I was thinking this was a place for grown ups but reading some comments it's like playground bs.

OP you do you and just ignore the haters and don't give them your voice by replying to their nonsense

Have a great Easter weekend

I do believe rudeness have come from both sides not just people who don’t fit into the criteria. "

I didn't read everything as too much to read

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By *stellaWoman over a year ago

London

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions.

Oh sweetie I am ever so sorry.....I made a mistake....I should of said that despite what you decide on our attitude....it will have zero impact on us and it will not change.....nothing shattered here

There’s a great quote from Shakespeare that springs to mind; “methinks the lady doth protest too much”...

Anyway, thanks for making me chortle. Good luck with your social, you’ve every right to have your fun however you want.

If you read the thread you will see we have only said no to one person. We haven’t rejected anyone else. "

If you read my comments can you show me where I’ve said otherwise? Very odd. I have no issue with you saying no to anyone, just found it amusing how indignant and incredulous you were as to the audacity of anyone outside of the age range even asking or coming on the thread when you yourself changed your mind on the same thread. Again, I have no problem with you saying yes or no to anyone, just the level of projected butt-hurt you were giving out whilst simultaneously chastising anyone else who asked a question was hypocritical and ahem, demonstrative of a very immature attitude. Apt really.

But of course, you’re not bothered with anyone expressing their thoughts. So not bothered you’ve posted another thread.

Seriously, I do wish you well. You’ve genuinely delighted me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

By all means run your own social how you want to, but check your attitude when you yourself are inconsistent with what you say.

I am sure your replies may come across arsey if you had been the one receiving abuse via private messages about this but your not.

Our attitude is not for you to decide on to be honest.

Au contraire. I’m perfectly entitled to make a judgement and decision on what I deem your attitude is, darling. Sorry to shatter your illusions.

Oh sweetie I am ever so sorry.....I made a mistake....I should of said that despite what you decide on our attitude....it will have zero impact on us and it will not change.....nothing shattered here

There’s a great quote from Shakespeare that springs to mind; “methinks the lady doth protest too much”...

Anyway, thanks for making me chortle. Good luck with your social, you’ve every right to have your fun however you want.

If you read the thread you will see we have only said no to one person. We haven’t rejected anyone else.

But of course, you’re not bothered with anyone expressing their thoughts. So not bothered you’ve posted another thread.

Seriously, I do wish you well. You’ve genuinely delighted me.

Wouldn’t of mentioned the other thread if it didn’t bother you. Fairly pathetic you keep coming back. You are just giving us untold entertainment while we do our garden.

Cheers.