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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
We have a thread for folk from West and North London but not East London so this topic is for any people on the East side of town who would like to have a chat or just introduce themselves to others on here. |
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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago
clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands |
Sounds like a good idea, but let's see how many there are out there. |
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By *wosWoman
over a year ago
east london |
I'm here. ..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m here and up for this too |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
welcome _eeandes,_wos and sandman.
I was beginning to think that I was
the only member on here in East London!
I hope a few more of you guys will introduce yourselves
If there are enough of us maybe
a social meet could be a possibility in future. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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East London Born ok? Now living on the edge physically and mentally. Would love an East End welcome and seafood. Definitely love a social  |
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Im chadwell heath always up for a chat x |
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I'm Vinnie from Bethnal Green I love a social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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East London here  |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
east London here and always up for a chat |
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I too am in East London
Would like to attend a social. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
welcome guys 
Any more ladies or couples here in E.London?
Thinking about one of the bars in Westfields in Stratford as possible location for a social in future. |
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By *wosWoman
over a year ago
east london |
Sounds like a plan. .don't know any of the bars tho .. |
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Does erith count or are we the wrong side of the river? |
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By *adam07Man
over a year ago
london |
Reporting from Hackney. North/East London  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hornchurch hope it's ok |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Sounds like a plan. .don't know any of the bars tho .."
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I was at Westfields today and there are quite a few bars on the outside part walking towards John Lewis so its just a question of finding a suitable one next time i visit there. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Does erith count or are we the wrong side of the river?"
you'd be very welcome to join us
if you don't mind crossing the river to our side!
I don't think there is a South London chat thread at the moment.
welcome to everyone who introduced
themselves on here.
Good to know that there are quite a
few of us on the East side of Town! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Enough people for a social i believe |
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By *adam07Man
over a year ago
london |
"Enough people for a social i believe "
Not enough Females/Couples  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Enough people for a social i believe
Not enough Females/Couples "
We don't want a cockfest  |
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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago
clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands |
A few more couples and single women, then a social could be a lough. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
welcome to everyone
Lovely sunny day in East London  |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"West Ham here  "
West Ham are my team but have now lost 4 in a row and are bottom of table. It looks like were rubbish and will be relegated  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mark Canning town here |
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Hi All,
I'm based in Chigwell area.
Great to see many fellow east Londoners on here haha! |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"Does Sidcup count?
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we could do with some more ladies and couples on here to get a social organised so Sidcup counts! |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Since when is Erith and Sidcup considered east london?? Not that I am in anyway suggesting exclusion of course. It'll be a long trek for those from that area though unless its on the Essex border. I am having a demoralising time as a male newbie on Fab and was told that a social is a logical next step to try to solve that problem. I think, as is always the case, there will be a male heavy ratio. Still it is only a social so perhaps its not that important. We all gotta start somewhere. |
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"Since when is Erith and Sidcup considered east london?? Not that I am in anyway suggesting exclusion of course. It'll be a long trek for those from that area though unless its on the Essex border. I am having a demoralising time as a male newbie on Fab and was told that a social is a logical next step to try to solve that problem. I think, as is always the case, there will be a male heavy ratio. Still it is only a social so perhaps its not that important. We all gotta start somewhere. "
You want more couples and women but moan about sidcup and erith not being east london but the post asking if sidcup and erith count were from a single woman and a couple.
I like your logic.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Since when is Erith and Sidcup considered east london?? Not that I am in anyway suggesting exclusion of course. It'll be a long trek for those from that area though unless its on the Essex border. I am having a demoralising time as a male newbie on Fab and was told that a social is a logical next step to try to solve that problem. I think, as is always the case, there will be a male heavy ratio. Still it is only a social so perhaps its not that important. We all gotta start somewhere.
You want more couples and women but moan about sidcup and erith not being east london but the post asking if sidcup and erith count were from a single woman and a couple.
I like your logic.
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I think you misinterpreted there to be any tones of moaning in my reply. I was questioning how SE/Kent got involved in a E London thread.I have no problem with it, just that inferring it is confusing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Visiting east London every week with work. Been doing for near 2years now. Practically a resident lol. Just need a lady who I can woo every once in while here. Can happily accomadate and social locally. |
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By *angMan
over a year ago
London |
Kidbrooke here. Dunno what a social is but Id love to attend |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
To anybody who has attended a social of this nature before, what has been the composition of the attendees?
Unsurprisingly it looks like 90% single males are interested according to responses with the smaller number of the rest made up of a mixture, but I am guessing that if any females are in attendance then they will be generally aged 35+. I have only been to 1 social event before ever but the responses here and the initial potential interest kind of mirrors the exact scenario I experienced. At the social I attended I met about 10-15 guys maybe and just 3 women aged late 30s to 40s turned up; 1 made her excuses and left after just 1 quick drink. I emphasise the age element as it seems that swinging is very much a more mature lifestyle so naturally it is less likely to be attended by any young girls, though not impossible of course. The most pertinent point is that young girls have zero need to attend a social as they are already bombarded. That will also be the case with all women but more so for the younger females I bet.
All of these point are not an issue if people just want to socialise. Lots of people just want to chat with others who share the same attitude and want to share stories etc. But in terms of potential connections it looks like single males may find it to be wanting. I was told that meeting people in real life would yield better results than simply sending dozens or in my case, 100+ unanswered messages on Fab.
Without wanting to appear defeatist but rather realistic, is this just another dead end guys? |
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By *wosWoman
over a year ago
east london |
Haven't been to a proper social in absolute ages. ..and looking back they were some of the best nights ever...need to balance it out a bit somehow. .. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"To anybody who has attended a social of this nature before, what has been the composition of the attendees?
Unsurprisingly it looks like 90% single males are interested according to responses with the smaller number of the rest made up of a mixture, but I am guessing that if any females are in attendance then they will be generally aged 35+. I have only been to 1 social event before ever but the responses here and the initial potential interest kind of mirrors the exact scenario I experienced. At the social I attended I met about 10-15 guys maybe and just 3 women aged late 30s to 40s turned up; 1 made her excuses and left after just 1 quick drink. I emphasise the age element as it seems that swinging is very much a more mature lifestyle so naturally it is less likely to be attended by any young girls, though not impossible of course. The most pertinent point is that young girls have zero need to attend a social as they are already bombarded. That will also be the case with all women but more so for the younger females I bet.
All of these point are not an issue if people just want to socialise. Lots of people just want to chat with others who share the same attitude and want to share stories etc. But in terms of potential connections it looks like single males may find it to be wanting. I was told that meeting people in real life would yield better results than simply sending dozens or in my case, 100+ unanswered messages on Fab.
Without wanting to appear defeatist but rather realistic, is this just another dead end guys?"
I get where you are coming from as use to do socials that were more like pre drinks before attending a club and the attendees were pretty balanced as it was upon invitation basis. Initially had a couple that were purely socials and the demographic you mentioned was more or less like that as it was an open invitation.
In the kink scene they have munches, which are socials and there's an under 35 and under 25 event, so most that attend are usually within that age range. Lots of single girls and guys, however because that scene is varied in interests and more "socially acceptable" mainstream it's understandable why.
I think that parties that do happen with a balanced list of attendees are a very much invite only situation, not one that has an open invitation to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Unfortunately that's the case when we're talking of sex and attraction.
So if it's to get a verification to show how genuine you are a social is fine.
To actually meet and get "action" a club night it definitely the way forward for single guys. |
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By *ka01Man
over a year ago
london |
In Walthamstow, hope u all are well |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
Hi everyone
welcome to all who have posted recently.
Still not enough ladies or couples to even consider organising a social at the moment which is a shame but we can still live in hope!
Please do continue to introduce yourselves in the mean time and lets see how things go.
At least West Ham can't lose this weekend as were not playing! |
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East London through and through hi |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Insightful post Maebabe. And touches upon what was suspected. I think for kink it is based more on connection and trust so the meeting up is kinda vital. With sex/swinging, connection is a component but not always a prerequisite as some people are drawn mainly to appearances. As I always say, women needn't take an active role when on any dating or hook up site and are inundated regardless. Socials for them are kinda redundant in my view. I fear this social is dead before it even got going but it was worthwhile debating for a day. So...now what? Anyone wanna go to a club? This is my final avenue remaining before it is decided that I am doomed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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East london Couple, but not really interested in having a social with a group who are mostly single blokes.
Sorry guys but just not what we are looking for. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"East london Couple, but not really interested in having a social with a group who are mostly single blokes.
Sorry guys but just not what we are looking for."
I doubt anyone is looking for this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Canningtown born and bred here |
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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago
harwich |
walthamstow here would be interested if balance was right we used to go to socials at the half way house in essex they were always good fun
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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East London here.
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I run Pan People in Hackney. First Saturday of the month for bisexual and trans kinksters. Very social, rather filthy, strictly no Zombie Wanking Squad, all attendees assessed by me
If you're openly bi on here, you're welcome. All details on my profile |
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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago
clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands |
Canning town here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hackney/Stratford |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dagenham here if anyone is looking for a chat HMU |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I work in East London |
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I live wild on the marshes, what’s a social????? |
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By *lak38Man
over a year ago
hornchurch |
Romford/hornchurch here |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol |
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol "
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?"
I’d be interested if the dates work, looks like it could be a Lonely old affair tho? |
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By *eeandesCouple
over a year ago
clacton-on-sea Essex not east midlands |
"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?"
Count us in. |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?"
I'd be happy to help if
you'd like to drop me a line
when you're free. |
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?"
Im from stratford area. Be happy to attend/help if something is organised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello my fellow East Enders
An east end social would be |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello
Does working in East London count? |
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Hi add me a well please for any social or fun meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many men in here. I'm out. |
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By *rozacMan
over a year ago
london |
"Too many men in here. I'm out."
One less sausage |
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Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
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Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you? |
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"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you?"
What a memory.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you?
What a memory.
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What was my profile name? |
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"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
Your profile name rings a bell from another website from about 5 years ago. Do the letters 'BN' mean anything to you?
What a memory.
What was my profile name? "
Apologies but I don't remember. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
Probably a good thing all told. |
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"Probably a good thing all told."
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
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It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. |
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now. "
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
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I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though... |
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though..."
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong."
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. |
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points. "
I might have you confused with someone else.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
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That is quite difficult to do to be honest! |
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!"
I'll just have to live with this mystery. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery."
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery.
I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied. "
I know you weren't.
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Mr of couple here working in London this week always up for a social if onenis happening have done a few in my work travel always a good excuse to skip work dinner |
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By *adam07Man
over a year ago
london |
"Mr of couple here working in London this week always up for a social if onenis happening have done a few in my work travel always a good excuse to skip work dinner"
Why not bring the Mrs down  |
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By *adam07Man
over a year ago
london |
"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
Hey
I am in East London too & it's one of those horny days again where you trying to organise a meet. Would be awesome to link up somewhere local.
I have another mate too, so make that MMF
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery.
I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied.
I know you weren't.
My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative."
Fancy a row? Lol |
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery.
I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied.
I know you weren't.
My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative.
Fancy a row? Lol"
I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no.
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"Sigh.
Get back here!
I need a social.
A night out to hang with fellow deviants.
Come on.
Quit the dilly dallying and let's do this.
Hey
I am in East London too & it's one of those horny days again where you trying to organise a meet. Would be awesome to link up somewhere local.
I have another mate too, so make that MMF
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What? |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery.
I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied.
I know you weren't.
My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative.
Fancy a row? Lol
I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no.
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"Probably a good thing all told.
Yes.
Best leave BN in the past.
It's a tragedy.
It served its purpose at the time but at somewhat cost. Still, all history now.
I did meet and make friends with a few people.
I did meet. Friends with none. BN was the glue that bound.
There is one person who I forgot I met off there actually and remain friends who I am visiting this weekend oddly enough. We never speak of 'that place' though...
You know, I think I remember you.
You were good at running in and prodding people in the eye then running off.
I may be wrong.
I think there may be some crossed wires. I was good at prodding girls. But I never ran off anywhere.
Who knows, you may be right. How I perceived myself may well be different to my own self-perception. I do cringe at how I may have acted at some points.
I might have you confused with someone else.
That is quite difficult to do to be honest!
I'll just have to live with this mystery.
I wasn't trying to provoke intrigue. I was just curious myself as I recognised the name, location and the age and pics kinda tallied.
I know you weren't.
My day has been a little beige so I'm being creative.
Fancy a row? Lol
I would darling but I'm feeling quite zen today, so no.
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level. "
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
In my view I think that the only way a viable social is going to happen is if it is an organised social with a managed guest list. So that probably means there won't be one. Mistaress has been the only person who has offered to step up to the plate so far. Apart from loads of guys, there doesn't seem to be a strong appetite for it. But all gotta start somewhere I suppose. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
"
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then |
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Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then "
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe."
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit. |
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Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit."
Bring it in.
Hug?
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit.
Bring it in.
Hug?
"
Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. |
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"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit.
Bring it in.
Hug?
Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread. "
*sits obediently* |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit.
Bring it in.
Hug?
Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread.
*sits obediently*"
Closed the thread |
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"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit.
Bring it in.
Hug?
Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread.
*sits obediently*
Closed the thread "
Huh?
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
"
Should put your zen to the test. Only way of knowing if you have attained that higher level.
Oh,I should have said, I'm a beginner.
Shouldn't be too difficult for you to return to your old ways then
Ahhh.
I see the rolling eyes.
Breathe.
Sorry, old habits die hard. I am a shit.
Bring it in.
Hug?
Sure...won't be a minute, just having a little discussion on another thread.
*sits obediently*
Closed the thread
Huh?
"
The thread got closed before I could have the last word.
Anyway, I feel a bit uncomfortable because I know who you are but you don't recognise me/forgot who I am/was.
Throb.
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"Mr of couple here working in London this week always up for a social if onenis happening have done a few in my work travel always a good excuse to skip work dinner
Why not bring the Mrs down "
I would be she is at home in Ireland |
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"hornchurch here hi everyone x"
Hey - hope you're both well. Long time, and all that! |
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"This seems like a pointless thread. East londoners aren't very chatty it seems lol
Indeed...
A social would quite possibly be a sausage fest but if everyone is cool with a beverage or three with no expectations, I might organise a social. Anyone?"
I guess, to avoid any sausage fests, numbers could be controlled so that there's an even number of all sorts out there (first come first served) - even if it's a social? |
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That said, I'm in East London (not saying where exactly yet), but would be keen to attend, providing it's organised well to allow an equal number of couples, single females and single males, but not so keen at the thought of a "sausage fest" |
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over a year ago
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Bow here who's chatty!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey people Canning Town here, it's good that the people in East London are trying to communicate.
The idea of a social sounds fun though count me in. |
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By *ohnygodMan
over a year ago
TOKYO Japan |
Any couple? I wish to try MMF... Just cant stop thinking about it.. |
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By *angMan
over a year ago
London |
Find a F and we have a plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Any women and/or couples around?
...near Ilford/Goodmayes...?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello from e17 cum say hello xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Docklands here
We’re up for it if there’s a good mix |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hello all!
Hackney here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Romford !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m around Wapping. Not really spoken to anyone from London on here to be fair.
Not sure why that is.
But, be nice to make some new friends |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Canary wharf here. |
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Hi myvanwy here tho I only play in e17 does that count |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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E20 |
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By *igga1Man
over a year ago
London / Birmingham / Cardiff |
I'm in east London and yes we should organise some social in the east of london for sure |
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By *igga1Man
over a year ago
London / Birmingham / Cardiff |
So where are all the sexy ladies in the east of London are we need you all to show up and put some action plan together |
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Hi we’re new and have just moved to Stratford (Olympic Park/East Village) |
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Hi anyone wanna meet and hawe a love |
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I hope Stansted can fall in with you too. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Close to east, South east, just. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"To anybody who has attended a social of this nature before, what has been the composition of the attendees?
Unsurprisingly it looks like 90% single males are interested according to responses with the smaller number of the rest made up of a mixture, but I am guessing that if any females are in attendance then they will be generally aged 35+. I have only been to 1 social event before ever but the responses here and the initial potential interest kind of mirrors the exact scenario I experienced. At the social I attended I met about 10-15 guys maybe and just 3 women aged late 30s to 40s turned up; 1 made her excuses and left after just 1 quick drink. I emphasise the age element as it seems that swinging is very much a more mature lifestyle so naturally it is less likely to be attended by any young girls, though not impossible of course. The most pertinent point is that young girls have zero need to attend a social as they are already bombarded. That will also be the case with all women but more so for the younger females I bet.
All of these point are not an issue if people just want to socialise. Lots of people just want to chat with others who share the same attitude and want to share stories etc. But in terms of potential connections it looks like single males may find it to be wanting. I was told that meeting people in real life would yield better results than simply sending dozens or in my case, 100+ unanswered messages on Fab.
Without wanting to appear defeatist but rather realistic, is this just another dead end guys?
I get where you are coming from as use to do socials that were more like pre drinks before attending a club and the attendees were pretty balanced as it was upon invitation basis. Initially had a couple that were purely socials and the demographic you mentioned was more or less like that as it was an open invitation.
In the kink scene they have munches, which are socials and there's an under 35 and under 25 event, so most that attend are usually within that age range. Lots of single girls and guys, however because that scene is varied in interests and more "socially acceptable" mainstream it's understandable why.
I think that parties that do happen with a balanced list of attendees are a very much invite only situation, not one that has an open invitation to every Tom, Dick and Harry. Unfortunately that's the case when we're talking of sex and attraction.
So if it's to get a verification to show how genuine you are a social is fine.
To actually meet and get "action" a club night it definitely the way forward for single guys. "
Why do some guys not get what a group social is? It baffles me when I’ve been to ones before and I’ve had verifications from that social and I get messages asking if there was any action there!! It was just a group social to drink and chat and make friends. Clubs are a different thing. |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
London/Essex... ish... Romford to be exact |
I wouldn't say that action is expected. But the probable occurence of meeting a group who you have no interest in other than to get a veri that says 'nice and polite' seems a bit futile. I know it is a negative attitude but I think it is up to each individual to weigh up the pros and cons of attending. You rewards you receive don't necessarily correspond with the graft you put in but for some it may seem worth it. Some will enjoy the event for simply what it is. For me if i want to go to the pub I'd go with my own mates. I think a woman's perspective on these types of situations will always be more positive compared to the average male's as a woman may turn up and be the centre of attention; whereas the guy could simply be making up the numbers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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East London!!!
The good old days. Miss them
#socialbutterflies |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rm8 here |
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Hi there I'm kam from ilford London and I'm here looking for girls from my area who are interested to meet up with me please let me know thanks ladies I'm here for you kiss |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey guys east London aswel...any ladies near e5 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What's everyone's take on a social in east London? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Eastenders |
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By *ot-Ash OP Man
over a year ago
London |
"What's everyone's take on a social in east London?"
After starting this thread i was going to consider organising an East London social but there was just not enough interested ladies or couples so dropped the idea unless there was a limit on the number of single men who could attend like other socials have to make the numbers more even otherwise it just wouldn't work.
will start another E.London chat thread when this gets too big and is closed and maybe we can have another discussion about a possible Spring social. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What's everyone's take on a social in east London?"
I will have a go at that. More central than east though. Details coming tonight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s on, check for Shoreditch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reminder social in Shoreditch on the 7th;
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/london/844689 |
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"Reminder social in Shoreditch on the 7th;
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/london/844689"
Well done that man. Hoping I can make it but if not best of luck and have a great time all |
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forest gate here. new to the area! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reminder - Shoreditch social tomorrow:
https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/london/844689 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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New to London, not new to Fab.
I'm in Leytonstone |
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"hornchurch here hi everyone x"
leyton here
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Near Romford here |
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By *rank33Man
over a year ago
London |
Canning Town .... new to the area and site !
Love to meet people for socials and my be fun later ! |
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over a year ago
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John dagenham weere to help u all |
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Harold Wood, Romford here. Such a shame this doesn't seem to be going anywhere as there seems to be no events/socials this neck of the woods. Best of luck though and I hope the London/Essex scenes picks up a bit. |
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