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Lack of interest in Asian guys
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi everyone, I'm a young guy who's looking for ideas to improve my chances with people on this site.
I was hoping that there would be some people interested in guys like me - I'm very polite and open when messaging but hardly ever get a reply.
What could I be doing better? |
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When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own. |
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"When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?  "
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one! |
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one!"
It certainly improves his chances of catching something 
Although, the veri didn't say where so it might have been in the guys mouth and there's nowt wrong with that.
Op: how do you know it's the fact you're Asian that's slowing you down? |
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one!"
Ohhh...now I understand |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own."
I see, I'm not married and haven't had interactions with Asian couples so I wasn't aware of that imbalance. I understand your point and I would feel the same. Thanks for the helpful reply! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!"
Good point, although it was safe sex and the 'load' was in the condom - the verification text does come across as otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one!
It certainly improves his chances of catching something
Although, the veri didn't say where so it might have been in the guys mouth and there's nowt wrong with that.
Op: how do you know it's the fact you're Asian that's slowing you down?"
Hi, I often read on profiles something along the lines of "No Asian men" so I don't contact those users.
For other profiles I've been told that I'm not their type due to my skin colour or their pre-conceptions of Asian guys.
Now I've been raised in London and apart from my darker skin and hair I'm not a very typically Asian man. You'd only find this out by looking past the photos and having a chat but in my experience it doesn't even get past the point of them seeing my photos and refusing to talk. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one!
It certainly improves his chances of catching something
Although, the veri didn't say where so it might have been in the guys mouth and there's nowt wrong with that.
Op: how do you know it's the fact you're Asian that's slowing you down?
Hi, I often read on profiles something along the lines of "No Asian men" so I don't contact those users.
For other profiles I've been told that I'm not their type due to my skin colour or their pre-conceptions of Asian guys.
Now I've been raised in London and apart from my darker skin and hair I'm not a very typically Asian man. You'd only find this out by looking past the photos and having a chat but in my experience it doesn't even get past the point of them seeing my photos and refusing to talk."
No point dwelling on it mate, just keep at it and you'll find a fair few giving you a chance on here.
Just don't expect to be fucking every night.. ps I heard flashlights are pretty cheap  |
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"Don't contradict yourself by saying you practise safe sex and your verifications say different!
Wtf ?
He's asking for advice on how to improve his chances on here....i would say that was one!
It certainly improves his chances of catching something
Although, the veri didn't say where so it might have been in the guys mouth and there's nowt wrong with that.
Op: how do you know it's the fact you're Asian that's slowing you down?
Hi, I often read on profiles something along the lines of "No Asian men" so I don't contact those users.
For other profiles I've been told that I'm not their type due to my skin colour or their pre-conceptions of Asian guys.
Now I've been raised in London and apart from my darker skin and hair I'm not a very typically Asian man. You'd only find this out by looking past the photos and having a chat but in my experience it doesn't even get past the point of them seeing my photos and refusing to talk."
Bit of a pisser  . Keep looking and keep chatting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own."
Correct! We get messages from lots of Asian guys, would be nice if they shared their wifes or even told them that they were on this site!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own.
Correct! We get messages from lots of Asian guys, would be nice if they shared their wifes or even told them that they were on this site!!
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What a sexy lady xx always had a thing for Asian ladies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you're married share your wife with lots of other men.
This will help to resolve the imbalance and thus improve the chances for Asian men; who are currently generalised as employing one rule for another man's wife and a different rule for their own."
Hehe bit cheeky but funny as ... |
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I'm Asian, have no problems meeting people, if they say no or delete my message I move on as I'm not for them. In no way do I think it's because I'm Asian. The profiles that state no Asians, as you say, simply don't contact them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done sir ^^^^ indeed the right attitude
I am not attracted to "most" Asians. . This is not because the fact they are Asian .. more so to do with physical traits that aren't of my preferance.. for example I am into big guys. think body builders ... and of the most part ..most Asians I have seen seem to be of slight build.... I also doby like body hair ..and the majority I see seem to have hairy chests (I didn't say all before ppl jump in)
If I seen an Asian that displayed physical traits I am attracted to of course I would xx |
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"Well done sir ^^^^ indeed the right attitude
I am not attracted to "most" Asians. . This is not because the fact they are Asian .. more so to do with physical traits that aren't of my preferance.. for example I am into big guys. think body builders ... and of the most part ..most Asians I have seen seem to be of slight build.... I also doby like body hair ..and the majority I see seem to have hairy chests (I didn't say all before ppl jump in)
If I seen an Asian that displayed physical traits I am attracted to of course I would xx "
Im popping down the gym and then getting some immac - I'll be in touch lol |
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Interesting Thread.
I am Asian my self. But I grew up in Italy since I was 3 years old. So after my looks I am more Italian than anything else.
Some people dont like Asians because of looks and others because of attitude.
I have made some really nice meets and good friends through the site.
Always found that being polite and being reliable always takes you far.
For me at least I never had any issues being Asian.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Interesting Thread.
I am Asian my self. But I grew up in Italy since I was 3 years old. So after my looks I am more Italian than anything else.
Some people dont like Asians because of looks and others because of attitude.
I have made some really nice meets and good friends through the site.
Always found that being polite and being reliable always takes you far.
For me at least I never had any issues being Asian.
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You should never have issues with your heritage and race anyway. . Always be you.. fk others xx |
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