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By *inoCouple
over a year ago
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May I suggest that we start with 3 couples, 3 single men and any single ladies interested. There has been enough interested from each of the above to make it a starter. Otherwise it may never happen.
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"May I suggest that we start with 3 couples, 3 single men and any single ladies interested. There has been enough interested from each of the above to make it a starter. Otherwise it may never happen.
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Think thats an excellent sugestion. Can I please be one of the single men  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We think Kino's idea is good too and at that ratio would be interested. Out of curiosity what exactly happens at a "wank party" - apart from the obvious that is lol |
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Kino Yes,one woman two men ratio sounds excellent and undoubtedly more sensual because persons can be focused without disruption.
Environment and atmosphere also matter.
Proper music,porno watching help to the outcome.
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By *rishman75 OP Man
over a year ago
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"May I suggest that we start with 3 couples, 3 single men and any single ladies interested. There has been enough interested from each of the above to make it a starter. Otherwise it may never happen.
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Ok that sounds good so if the couples mail me if they are interested and the single ladies and let me know who they want to come ! |
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Would definitely be interested in this. Probably a long shot since there's a long list of other single guys who already answered, but do let me know if there's a space for me.
I'd personally love the idea of masturbating with other people in the room.
If it's hard to find a way to accommodate, I guess there's also the possibility of just taking a date to meet at a place like Rio's. I've seen this sort of thing happening there expontaneosly in the steam rooms more than once, so, I don't think the owners would have any problem with it as long as everyone is respectful |
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This is an interesting one, as could there be a guarantee that there is no playing with others? And no attempts to cross boundaries ... if you don't know everyone who is coming, how could you be sure you felt okay ...? We were going to attend a group gathering at a club, until we found out one person had said 'no blacks' so I decided we couldn't go because I didn't want my OH in an awkward situation. If there is a 'private list' surely you couldn't see everyone's preferences? |
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"This is an interesting one, as could there be a guarantee that there is no playing with others? And no attempts to cross boundaries ... if you don't know everyone who is coming, how could you be sure you felt okay ...? We were going to attend a group gathering at a club, until we found out one person had said 'no blacks' so I decided we couldn't go because I didn't want my OH in an awkward situation. If there is a 'private list' surely you couldn't see everyone's preferences?"
That's actually a good argument to do this in club setting where it's much safer to meet a group of strangers. |
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"This is an interesting one, as could there be a guarantee that there is no playing with others? And no attempts to cross boundaries ... if you don't know everyone who is coming, how could you be sure you felt okay ...? We were going to attend a group gathering at a club, until we found out one person had said 'no blacks' so I decided we couldn't go because I didn't want my OH in an awkward situation. If there is a 'private list' surely you couldn't see everyone's preferences?
That's actually a good argument to do this in club setting where it's much safer to meet a group of strangers."
Yes, clubs have someone who could intervene. I have a load voice and have no problems telling someone to fuck off ... but I also have my partner so I feel safer. This sounds like its an. invitation for some to cross the boundaries ..... just a question as to how its really being handled. Have you thought about these things, OP, because they will come up |
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over a year ago
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Kestrals would be a good idea. Plenty of room there
The op was just putting feelers out on this
And I'm sure he would have a list and the women confirm there ok with it |
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"Kestrals would be a good idea. Plenty of room there
The op was just putting feelers out on this
And I'm sure he would have a list and the women confirm there ok with it "
This is where it went wrong for us, we were all set to go for a group meet, looked at the profiles and one woman said no black guys, so we didn't end up going as we wouldn't have been comfortable .... pity really she spoilt it for us |
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I have said previously on this thread and will again as a single female I would never be comfortable with this.... and I agree with pepper, how do we know that boundaries won't be crossed, particularly as I assume that wanking group meant just yourself, but others have talked about playing with others.... just need very clear cut 'rules' .... if this goes ahead, let me know how you get on please x  |
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And, for those of us who are bi, including bi male, and non white, can those who say no bi men or no blacks or Asians or whatever their preference is be excluded so we can all relax a little bit and know no-one is going to turn on us .... I wouldn't want to find this out when we got there .... |
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"Would definitely be interested in this. Probably a long shot since there's a long list of other single guys who already answered, but do let me know if there's a space for me.
I'd personally love the idea of masturbating with other people in the room.
If it's hard to find a way to accommodate, I guess there's also the possibility of just taking a date to meet at a place like Rio's. I've seen this sort of thing happening there expontaneosly in the steam rooms more than once, so, I don't think the owners would have any problem with it as long as everyone is respectful "
As a person who uses Rio's specifically for sauna purposes and not for playing purposes, I for one would be EXTREMELY offended. If you need to do something like that, please go to the restrooms.
It's not right for someone who uses facilities for non sexual practice purposes be affronted with such scenes in what is deemed to be a public area.
If I sound like a Debbie Downer, then trying being a single woman using the public facilities, fighting off attention unwanted men, and then having that vision being shoved in your face.
It is not nice. In fact, it's disrespectful. It is such suggestions that gives Rio's a bad name, and deters women from going there. It's hard enough to find a cheap drop in, all day sauna for women in London. Don't deter us even further.
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"Would definitely be interested in this. Probably a long shot since there's a long list of other single guys who already answered, but do let me know if there's a space for me.
I'd personally love the idea of masturbating with other people in the room.
If it's hard to find a way to accommodate, I guess there's also the possibility of just taking a date to meet at a place like Rio's. I've seen this sort of thing happening there expontaneosly in the steam rooms more than once, so, I don't think the owners would have any problem with it as long as everyone is respectful
As a person who uses Rio's specifically for sauna purposes and not for playing purposes, I for one would be EXTREMELY offended. If you need to do something like that, please go to the restrooms.
It's not right for someone who uses facilities for non sexual practice purposes be affronted with such scenes in what is deemed to be a public area.
If I sound like a Debbie Downer, then trying being a single woman using the public facilities, fighting off attention unwanted men, and then having that vision being shoved in your face.
It is not nice. In fact, it's disrespectful. It is such suggestions that gives Rio's a bad name, and deters women from going there. It's hard enough to find a cheap drop in, all day sauna for women in London. Don't deter us even further.
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Oh and def agree with this, wouldn't like it at Kestrals in public place either ... (never been to any other spas) |
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By *rishman75 OP Man
over a year ago
Chessington/epsom |
I understand people's concern and it would be held at my place and I was thinking of 4 couples and 4 single ladies and men ! If your not comfortable with this or anyone gets out of control they would be asked to leave ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why not set up a kik group for the people who are going to/invited to attend?
That way you/we (hopefully) can then get to know the others going a little bit and if any issues crop up before the meet then these can be sorted out.., |
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