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Lets Improve the London Forum
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I believe that we need to come together and bring some life to the London forum. We are all more than capable of creating interesting post and having a great time.
I know there are some great people who avoid the chat room , so its time for you to come out of the shadows and into the light 
Lets make this post an introduction so that we can all break the ice and get to know each other.
My name is Darrel aka watermelon-fitness , I'm a young athletic male who has joined fab to socialise and meet fellow sexual deviants who love to have fun.
How about you ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm glad that quite a few people feel the same , only three people so far are looking to participate.
I know there is so many cheeky londoners on here 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I am deffo up for making this forum more fun...
But it does seem that on the London forum people seem to ignore more people then what I have observed on the other forums..
Kits the same as that strange phenomenon that happens on the tube... Nice people suddenly turn into violent zombies haha |
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I always look at the London forum but its only when I have finished work .... and that's usually not until 7 ish or at the weekend. To be honest main forums are getting too much for me, dominated by certain very argumentative types .... opinionated etc, about things they clearly know nothing about |
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By *anB451Man
over a year ago
Reading |
The main forums are great for wider socialising. But every now and again I'd like to speak to people a bit more local to me. Or people I might actually meet at some point rather than just look at on a screen.
But then being a northerner originally means I'm used to actually talking to people!  |
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By *ansterCouple
over a year ago
Enfield |
Absolutely agree that this forum should be the first pit stop for local people!
We are often tempted by last minute meets or socials in North London, where we could both have a beer with like minded people, even if it's just to flirt, be suggestive or arrange other meets??
I appreciate there is a meets forum, but getting to establish regular swinger pubs&other venues would be a neat thing??
Russ&Jan |
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By *ansterCouple
over a year ago
Enfield |
"The main forums are great for wider socialising. But every now and again I'd like to speak to people a bit more local to me. Or people I might actually meet at some point rather than just look at on a screen.
But then being a northerner originally means I'm used to actually talking to people! "
Jan, being a northerner, is good at that too...
Don't give up on it!  |
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By *anB451Man
over a year ago
Reading |
"The main forums are great for wider socialising. But every now and again I'd like to speak to people a bit more local to me. Or people I might actually meet at some point rather than just look at on a screen.
But then being a northerner originally means I'm used to actually talking to people!
Jan, being a northerner, is good at that too...
Don't give up on it! "
I got some very odd looks on tubes and buses when I first moved down here. I couldn't understand why people wouldn't want a chat before work! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Couldn't have put it better myself so much confusion in chat and privately on here. I for one am looking for social meets and anything after would be a Brucie bonus but it seems like being a single guy sometimes means to some I'm just looking for a quick leg over and never to return again. Far from it if people got to know me. I'm all for your idea fella, well thought and said. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So are London people just genuinely rude and insular and don't like talking to people? Or are we just shy and waiting for right time or person to come along ?
Apologies lots of questions |
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By *flyn34Couple
over a year ago
London |
"So are London people just genuinely rude and insular and don't like talking to people? Or are we just shy and waiting for right time or person to come along ?
Apologies lots of questions "
Or maybe the right conversation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi waterm f
thank you for the warm invite
ive got a wondering thought that seems relevant.
Is human habit of attempted categorisation a self fulfilingdestiny to heir own entrapment???????? |
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Having seen a number of topics being mooted here over the years, it seems that people only think London themed topics re good for the London forum, when in reality many Londoners don't hail from London anyway.
Other regional forums talk about much more general topics, but in London is seems more about meet ups. I agree more general things should be discussed, but then everyone needs to contribute for it to get going and there will be momentum then?
Can't think of a topic myself though, as feeling a but jaded with fab forums these days. Be good for London to be a bit more conversational.
This is getting long. People wanting hook ups from the forum are obvious ... and we aren't really interested in that aspect, but many are. Now I am going to think of a topic, or can anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Absolutely agree that this forum should be the first pit stop for local people!
We are often tempted by last minute meets or socials in North London, where we could both have a beer with like minded people, even if it's just to flirt, be suggestive or arrange other meets??
I appreciate there is a meets forum, but getting to establish regular swinger pubs&other venues would be a neat thing??
Russ&Jan"
Regular swinger social meets would be a treat , I do enjoy meeting and socialising with like minded people. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have you thought of making a KIK group chat for a London group?"
A kik London chat could possibly work.
I would want people to actually have a conversation and feel comfortable to talk without them having the risk of being bombarded with vulgar messages and images. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hi waterm f
thank you for the warm invite
ive got a wondering thought that seems relevant.
Is human habit of attempted categorisation a self fulfilingdestiny to heir own entrapment????????"
Afternoon brother ,
I'm hungover at the moment so I reply to that when i'm fully recovered |
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"Absolutely agree that this forum should be the first pit stop for local people!
We are often tempted by last minute meets or socials in North London, where we could both have a beer with like minded people, even if it's just to flirt, be suggestive or arrange other meets??
I appreciate there is a meets forum, but getting to establish regular swinger pubs&other venues would be a neat thing??
Russ&Jan
Regular swinger social meets would be a treat , I do enjoy meeting and socialising with like minded people."
There area lot of parties at the Sutton house where the atmosphere is very social, but we would be up for socials locally |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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I think generally, London forums, London chat room, London Socials, it's very hard to engage the people in London. I'm doing one more social in June, but don't know if I can keep up with organising it as it's so much effort and not a lot of people who say they will go actually attend, save for those who want to encourage and support the idea.  |
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"I think generally, London forums, London chat room, London Socials, it's very hard to engage the people in London. I'm doing one more social in June, but don't know if I can keep up with organising it as it's so much effort and not a lot of people who say they will go actually attend, save for those who want to encourage and support the idea. "
I haven't seen that side of it, Mae, but I agree that so many comments say things like, oh well, I may pop by and don't realise the effort you go to to make these things work. Not sure I do, but I know we aren't flippant about these things. Its doubtful we can make any socials unless they coincide with a bank holiday where we aren't doing anything or a slow period at work. Something a little closer to us in south London would be good for us, so looking forward to what comes if that idea. |
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"Have you thought of making a KIK group chat for a London group?
A kik London chat could possibly work.
I would want people to actually have a conversation and feel comfortable to talk without them having the risk of being bombarded with vulgar messages and images."
Agree. I'd be up for that but fear it'd be wang o'clock constantly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well I say rules should be laid out before invites are made for a Kik. A new forum with the title Kik London improved where we can come up with ideas for the rules and who will admin them on Kik.  |
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