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My idea was a social event, nothing more than a beer/drink with like minded people to have the chance to meet other Faber. Public place with no pressure where to discuss and mingle.
I guess would be also a good place for couple or ladies interested in singles o groups to meet real people with no pressure. |
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By *lovisMan
over a year ago
Twickenham |
"My idea was a social event, nothing more than a beer/drink with like minded people to have the chance to meet other Faber. Public place with no pressure where to discuss and mingle.
I guess would be also a good place for couple or ladies interested in singles o groups to meet real people with no pressure."
'Real' people.... As opposed to artificial people? |
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By *habsMan
over a year ago
Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex |
"Seems unless women or cpl say yes the op isn't going to put on his social. Shame theirs demand and whos to say one of the guys who turns up may have a greedy partner at hime"
But what the odds of that happening? It's a social so opportunity to be greedy will be hard to arrange, if true. |
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The problem here seems that before any of the hidden women (and believe me that they would have looked) poke a toe in this idea you have already turned it sexual! .... So it's no longer a social.
Boys really I mean let's all go for a drink, have a laugh, share some adventures and advice.... You never know who will come through the area doors but talk like the above will probably scare them off....
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When I did my first Central London Social, 25 people of the 42 arrived. 8 girls that includes 2 couples and then the rest were single men. Tbh if you want to do a social, most men are more likely to show than women and couples as it can be a bit intimidating as you never know what people expect. But no one should be excepting anything as it's just a social drink.
I have a social this Saturday that is mainly for women, couples and a select handful of single men.
It's very funny how the dynamic happened if you look at it as I'm also hosting a Chill Sunday Social on May 1st that is open to all. Majority are single men and not many women or couples. Check the forums. |
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
West Midlands |
I went to the Gloucester Social in February and have to say it was a real mix of single men, women and couples...very well attended and the right mix.
I think it's because it's held on a specific day each month and people register an interest....so they can limit single men...actually I guess they can limit any type of guest. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"http://www.eventbrite.com/e/the-garden-of-eden-tickets-24678127945
Check out this social event ..
Its needs a password.
Is it the City Slickers event? "
Yup that is the city Slickers event. Great mix of people, I enjoyed it last year, I'm going to enjoy it again 
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Shch a goo idea! Why hasn't anyone thought of this before save a lot of wasted time! Would tv's in boy mode be welcome? X
I should certainly Hope so. I'd be going in incognito as a male. X"
When I did my first social everyone was welcome and could come in any way they felt comfortable  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shch a goo idea! Why hasn't anyone thought of this before save a lot of wasted time! Would tv's in boy mode be welcome? X
I should certainly Hope so. I'd be going in incognito as a male. X"
You go girl!!! |
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"Any room for the Saturday social _aebabe ??"
The Saturday Social was the weekend just gone. If you are referring to the June Social, details not yet set. Please see my profile regarding a Sexy Saturday Social |
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Who want to have a drink near kings cross today after work?
Will be nice to meet some fab people for a relaxed chat.
Will connect again around 5pm to see if anyone is interested and find a pub convenient for all.
Couples and single girls would be really welcome.
See you all later.
Ciao
Marco |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Shch a goo idea! Why hasn't anyone thought of this before save a lot of wasted time! Would tv's in boy mode be welcome? X
I should certainly Hope so. I'd be going in incognito as a male. X"
This is good to hear, I'd like to come to a social to break some ice but would be incognito also, far too scared to go as  |
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If a social is planned, the details of the location should not be posted here. People wanting to come need to know that not all and sundry, meaning people who will go for the sensationalism of mixing with swingers, will be going. There is a social on Sunday, but Mae has made sure the people coming are verified as far as I know and the location is kept to only those people and not to be shared. |
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The Chill Sunday Social is still going ahead even without my attendance. I didn't want to cancel because I believe these events are a great way for genuine swingers and like-minded individuals to meet. I have done my best to organise this, keeping in mind the location is accessible and free. Those that are on the list and still interested in supporting the social have been messaged.
If i have missed you out, please inbox me or leave a message on the
Central London Social: May 1st thread
Thank you |
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"Ah gutted I missed this..
As I think they are a good idea...
So how did it go..
And when's the next one??"
Was really good fun and a great laugh, a refreshing change from the forums .... but what happens at the social stays at the socials |
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By *ynxMan
over a year ago
Stafford |
"Ah gutted I missed this..
As I think they are a good idea...
So how did it go..
And when's the next one??
Was really good fun and a great laugh, a refreshing change from the forums .... but what happens at the social stays at the socials "
Have to agree with Pepper the social was fun a good change haha  |
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"Its mainly a sausage fest at every social I been too and I ain't into all that "
Social are socials, people go there to chat. I don't mind what the mix is because its a social .... you may make connections and find out about something new, or, god forbid, have a good chin wag and banter .... just because lots of men are their, they dont all get their sausage out. We did have onion rings and chips at the last one though .... |
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By *ynxMan
over a year ago
Stafford |
"Yeah but different if your a single bloke "
I think dude your going about this the wrong way. Yes they may be alot of guys at them but they can work and get you meets once you get to know people.
Think of it from this perspective alot of people I know on here don't even need to use fab for meets anymore as they get recommended to people and once you have proven yourself then you will make friends who will most likely call on you if they are after fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah but different if your a single bloke
I would imagine single men do socialise with other single men though?"
Correct, we chat and have banter.
I've even been recommended by other dudes to couples a single woman!
Don't be so shy. |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people "
That's what the Socials are for 
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris "
But you have blocked me?  |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris
But you have blocked me? "
You and I (on a personal note) have met. We didn't get on. Sorry.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey peeps ?? I very much like the sound of this social meet for like minded people, think I would be up for coming along one day/evening.. Definitely a great way to meet and get to know others with out having the pressure of feeling you have to get involved in anything other then a bit of chitchat
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"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris "
I been to a few socials at the Paradise spa and yeah the place is nice but There was too many blokes and all the others were couples plus Alot of people over 50.
Its alright for you girls cause its cheap to get in but us guys pay a fortune and when I was there most of the guys were like dogs on heat so it bored me cause you didn't a chance to chat to anyone cause they all go off in the little groups.
Even saw you at a few Mae |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris
I been to a few socials at the Paradise spa and yeah the place is nice but There was too many blokes and all the others were couples plus Alot of people over 50.
Its alright for you girls cause its cheap to get in but us guys pay a fortune and when I was there most of the guys were like dogs on heat so it bored me cause you didn't a chance to chat to anyone cause they all go off in the little groups.
Even saw you at a few Mae "
Socials should be at bars! |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris
I been to a few socials at the Paradise spa and yeah the place is nice but There was too many blokes and all the others were couples plus Alot of people over 50.
Its alright for you girls cause its cheap to get in but us guys pay a fortune and when I was there most of the guys were like dogs on heat so it bored me cause you didn't a chance to chat to anyone cause they all go off in the little groups.
Even saw you at a few Mae "
Only been to paradise spa once, so I was only at that one social.
Socials I run are at bars or pubs.
There is no price to pay unless you are late and the venue charges you like anyone else they would charge at a certain time.
Socials can vary in age and depends on the night. You aren't going to get 20 somethings all the time. Usually it's a nice mix. |
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"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris
I been to a few socials at the Paradise spa and yeah the place is nice but There was too many blokes and all the others were couples plus Alot of people over 50.
Its alright for you girls cause its cheap to get in but us guys pay a fortune and when I was there most of the guys were like dogs on heat so it bored me cause you didn't a chance to chat to anyone cause they all go off in the little groups.
Even saw you at a few Mae
Only been to paradise spa once, so I was only at that one social.
Socials I run are at bars or pubs.
There is no price to pay unless you are late and the venue charges you like anyone else they would charge at a certain time.
Socials can vary in age and depends on the night. You aren't going to get 20 somethings all the time. Usually it's a nice mix."
Bit hard to find out thou as you don't accept messages from single guys |
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"Yes but I find it hard to meet loads of people
That's what the Socials are for
Think about as networking. I know a few single guys who have been to socials who have met other guys and are then invited by these other guys to parties that need reliable respectful single men.
Branching out...
But if it's a "sausage fest" as you say, maybe socials aren't for you.
Now I need to write those veris
I been to a few socials at the Paradise spa and yeah the place is nice but There was too many blokes and all the others were couples plus Alot of people over 50.
Its alright for you girls cause its cheap to get in but us guys pay a fortune and when I was there most of the guys were like dogs on heat so it bored me cause you didn't a chance to chat to anyone cause they all go off in the little groups.
Even saw you at a few Mae
Only been to paradise spa once, so I was only at that one social.
Socials I run are at bars or pubs.
There is no price to pay unless you are late and the venue charges you like anyone else they would charge at a certain time.
Socials can vary in age and depends on the night. You aren't going to get 20 somethings all the time. Usually it's a nice mix.
Bit hard to find out thou as you don't accept messages from single guys "
I have only blocked single guys on my personal account. This account is indicated on my profile.
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I think an age range is good. Pity some aren't into 50 somethings ... but personally if it was all twenty something's we wouldn't be going ... best is a mix and not people who dismiss other because of their age. Interesting how the tone of the posts have changed .... do I detect some who don't get the point of socials? |
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By *anB451Man
over a year ago
Reading |
I've always like to experiment with different age ranges (within reason!)
I don't see the point in playing with the same type of people every time. Plus at a social different ages tend to bring different types of conversation, which is good! |
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By *rfunMan
over a year ago
Southampton |
"I think an age range is good. Pity some aren't into 50 somethings ... but personally if it was all twenty something's we wouldn't be going ... best is a mix and not people who dismiss other because of their age. Interesting how the tone of the posts have changed .... do I detect some who don't get the point of socials? "
i think some socials invite all the single malea who are pretty boys or athletic like you said whats the point of that.
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By *ynxMan
over a year ago
Stafford |
"I think an age range is good. Pity some aren't into 50 somethings ... but personally if it was all twenty something's we wouldn't be going ... best is a mix and not people who dismiss other because of their age. Interesting how the tone of the posts have changed .... do I detect some who don't get the point of socials? i think some socials invite all the single malea who are pretty boys or athletic like you said whats the point of that."
Isn't the case with this one. I was probably the youngest at the last social but I didn't see it as a downside I enjoyed everyone's company and if some offered to invite me for fun I wouldn't turn down their offer as I got along with them |
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