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why women don't go for Asian men ??
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over a year ago
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ..."
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens. |
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens."
Well I don't think all Asian men are like that so far. As for myself I don't to be very honest. As what I think is women should be treated with respect and with equal values !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens.
Well I don't think all Asian men are like that so far. As for myself I don't to be very honest. As what I think is women should be treated with respect and with equal values !!
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I didn't say ALL, I said FOR ME and from experience I don't like the way they treat women. you asked for an opinion and I told you mine. |
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens.
Well I don't think all Asian men are like that so far. As for myself I don't to be very honest. As what I think is women should be treated with respect and with equal values !!
I didn't say ALL, I said FOR ME and from experience I don't like the way they treat women. you asked for an opinion and I told you mine. "
Thanks hun x for you opinion !! |
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My experience has always been quite good with Asian men. I've always found the ones I've been in contact with very polite and not selfish lovers. Only my opinion. But it's about personality not race I guess.  |
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From my personal experience they aren't very good lovers and those i've met have had smaller than average dicks. So it's my preference to no longer meet them. |
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens."
You tend to treat Transgendered people like second class citizens. Fair enough if your not into tv's fair enough but your not interested in people who have tv's as friends Wow. |
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"From my personal experience they aren't very good lovers and those i've met have had smaller than average dicks. So it's my preference to no longer meet them."
You must be attracting the little uns lol |
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Whilst I won't rule out meeting Asian men, as I refuse to label a whole race based on the actions of a few, the last 1 I played with (in a club, so it wasn't planned), spat on me in an intimate place and when I told him not to do it again, he promptly spat in my face.
So whilst I won't rule out fun with an Asian man, that has kind of put me off a little. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Whilst I won't rule out meeting Asian men, as I refuse to label a whole race based on the actions of a few, the last 1 I played with (in a club, so it wasn't planned), spat on me in an intimate place and when I told him not to do it again, he promptly spat in my face.
So whilst I won't rule out fun with an Asian man, that has kind of put me off a little."
You should have called the police on the little scrote. Whatever/whoever you are, that is assault. Disgusting. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"My experience has always been quite good with Asian men. I've always found the ones I've been in contact with very polite and not selfish lovers. Only my opinion. But it's about personality not race I guess. "
That's true it's all about the personality as we can find good and bad both in any race.. 
It's matter fact how you get on with the person by get to know main point communication.!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens.
You tend to treat Transgendered people like second class citizens. Fair enough if your not into tv's fair enough but your not interested in people who have tv's as friends Wow."
Well to be very honest I do have a TV friend.!! Lol and for myself I have no issues with that after all we are human and we all the rite to have the same respect as friend or what so ever lol !! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Whilst I won't rule out meeting Asian men, as I refuse to label a whole race based on the actions of a few, the last 1 I played with (in a club, so it wasn't planned), spat on me in an intimate place and when I told him not to do it again, he promptly spat in my face.
So whilst I won't rule out fun with an Asian man, that has kind of put me off a little."
No men have the rite to abusive or disrespect a women for no reason !! Ya that true you should of call the Police simply |
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens.
You tend to treat Transgendered people like second class citizens. Fair enough if your not into tv's fair enough but your not interested in people who have tv's as friends Wow.
Well to be very honest I do have a TV friend.!! Lol and for myself I have no issues with that after all we are human and we all the rite to have the same respect as friend or what so ever lol !!
Shame your profile don't share that view. Maybe you might want to update it. Comes across as very extreme."
You might have the issue with Asian men but I have no issues with any one with any race or etc lol !! |
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By *andd2Couple
over a year ago
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We've met and played with a few Asian men. Nothing better or worse about them really. A few have been engaging, sparkling conversation etc. Some have been less so. We don't actively search single Asian guys out but we don't treat them any less than others if they message or talk to us at clubs. We have certain preferences for single guys, if they meet those then they stand as good a chance as anyone else.
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When you state Asian, are you talking about the whole of Asia?
As someone who grew up with a lot of Asians from Banglasdesh and Pakistan, I can tell you that I would not touch these men with a barge pole.
I have encountered two couples in my swinging days and the wives were bait or to be used for entry.
As for the lady that was spat on, you must have been in shock because if that was me, he would not have left that room walking. |
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"We've met and played with a few Asian men. Nothing better or worse about them really. A few have been engaging, sparkling conversation etc. Some have been less so. We don't actively search single Asian guys out but we don't treat them any less than others if they message or talk to us at clubs. We have certain preferences for single guys, if they meet those then they stand as good a chance as anyone else.
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Yes you are rite conversation is the best key as it's brings more interest in person !! But not many people here keep the conversation as they find it boring or just want to jump in bed lol .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my personal experience they aren't very good lovers and those i've met have had smaller than average dicks. So it's my preference to no longer meet them."
This is exactly what i have been told when i have discussed this topic with women. |
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"From my personal experience they aren't very good lovers and those i've met have had smaller than average dicks. So it's my preference to no longer meet them.
This is exactly what i have been told when i have discussed this topic with women."
Then I bet no difference in them and you lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my personal experience they aren't very good lovers and those i've met have had smaller than average dicks. So it's my preference to no longer meet them.
This is exactly what i have been told when i have discussed this topic with women."
You know what else is weird? All of them bragged after about 4 minutes of sex about how good they were and all of them asked me if their dick was average or big. Very strange. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When you state Asian, are you talking about the whole of Asia?
As someone who grew up with a lot of Asians from Banglasdesh and Pakistan, I can tell you that I would not touch these men with a barge pole.
I have encountered two couples in my swinging days and the wives were bait or to be used for entry.
As for the lady that was spat on, you must have been in shock because if that was me, he would not have left that room walking."
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That's not entirely true..you should come down south Wales or go birmingham..asian men are known to be selfish...when it comes to oral and pleasure... If your Asian
And you can eat pussy properly..and really care for HER pleasure...you will be sought after...trust me..I know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most Asian men I have met except one or two were scared to be seen with me, obsessed with sex talk, unfamiliar with a woman's body or in too much of a hurry to jump into bed. However, if a person sounds intelligent I will at least meet for coffee. We are all human and different. However, "I am Asian, why does no one want to meet me" is not a good look as all you will get back is an explanation why not. |
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"Most Asian men I have met except one or two were scared to be seen with me, obsessed with sex talk, unfamiliar with a woman's body or in too much of a hurry to jump into bed. However, if a person sounds intelligent I will at least meet for coffee. We are all human and different. However, "I am Asian, why does no one want to meet me" is not a good look as all you will get back is an explanation why not."
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's not just Asian men who behave in deplorable ways, men and women of other ethnicities do too so I would vouch that it is incorrect to tarnish all Asian men with the same brush. Not all Asian guys treat women as second class citizens for example to treat consider them something to be used for their own pleasure. I don't condone such behaviour and would never act in that way myself and for the record I'm British born but of Asian origin myself. |
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I'm into Asian men but it is true that every one I have been with wasn't best blessed in the willy department. I haven't found them to be ruder or derogatory in any way, though my view might be biased as all of them were medical professionals who were from very affluent backgrounds. I'm sure if you were to sleep with a boy racer stereotype they'd be a lot more 'white girl - piece of meat'. That's not been rude. It's a factual observation.
In the same vein, I'm not into black men, I know some lovely guys but I'm just not 'into them' and I know girls who ONLY date black guys but it's not for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I myself love all nationalities especially Asian, Kurdish, Middle eastern in fact Kurdish and Asian guys are the best for me. I know where I stand with them, they want the same as me, just good honest fun and they don't have try and charm you. Kurdish guys are polite sensitive and always want to please the lady first |
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As a South Asian guy myself who's met a fair few on here, I think if your polite and well mannered and treat women with the same respect and care as if you were dating, You shouldn't have a problem.
I think it's the approach some Asian men take on here, and believe me I was once in the same boat until you learn to adapt to the fab world
Ps if your package is slightly smaller then average, compensate with longer oral...
That's if your good enough to make her squirt with your tongue  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You know, one wonders sometimes (this applies to a lot of Asian and Middle Eastern guys but not exclusively): if it is in your interest to be nice to women, how hard is it to at least pretend you have some respect? |
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"I'm into Asian men but it is true that every one I have been with wasn't best blessed in the willy department. I haven't found them to be ruder or derogatory in any way, though my view might be biased as all of them were medical professionals who were from very affluent backgrounds. I'm sure if you were to sleep with a boy racer stereotype they'd be a lot more 'white girl - piece of meat'. That's not been rude. It's a factual observation.
In the same vein, I'm not into black men, I know some lovely guys but I'm just not 'into them' and I know girls who ONLY date black guys but it's not for me. "
Never had complaints in the willy department (only compliments) but alas you're all the way up north to present my proof! |
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"Just wondering as I have seen on lots of people don't like to go for Asian men ??
I know it's a preference but it's might a reason behind it lol ...
for me its because (from experience) they tend to treat women like second class citizens."
This can be very true ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Personally out of all the asian men i know. Only one of them has respect for women. I wouldnt say it was a racial issue at all i think its more of a cultural issue obviously with exceptions to that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well i've had enough experience of them to not experience them again. The lack of respect and the undeserved egos are just too much for me. The last guy i had to ask if he was raised by wolves. Parents should teach their children respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Not all men are alike. I have been regarded as most respectful male towards female colleagues wherever I have worked and on here on fab, my verifications also witness that I have been very reverent with those I met.
I would rather say "usually" Asian men don't use expressions like "bitch" or "slut" for women yet they are considered to be disrespectful. Whereas it's a norm for men from other races 
But you will find such men in Asian as well as any other race who are rude and uncouth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not all men are alike. I have been regarded as most respectful male towards female colleagues wherever I have worked and on here on fab, my verifications also witness that I have been very reverent with those I met.
I would rather say "usually" Asian men don't use expressions like "bitch" or "slut" for women yet they are considered to be disrespectful. Whereas it's a norm for men from other races
But you will find such men in Asian as well as any other race who are rude and uncouth.
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I didn't say all Asian men were uncouth. I said of the 4 i've met they were all disrespectful and bad in bed and all thought they were brilliant. They then all became uncouth when they badgered me with questions as to their awesomeness and i had to tell them they weren't. Why would i put myself through that again? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's not just Asian men who behave in deplorable ways, men and women of other ethnicities do too so I would vouch that it is incorrect to tarnish all Asian men with the same brush. Not all Asian guys treat women as second class citizens for example to treat consider them something to be used for their own pleasure. I don't condone such behaviour and would never act in that way myself and for the record I'm British born but of Asian origin myself."
Exactly that's my Point too thanks for that atleast someone is supportive to Asian born men as not all our the same at all. |
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"I'm into Asian men but it is true that every one I have been with wasn't best blessed in the willy department. I haven't found them to be ruder or derogatory in any way, though my view might be biased as all of them were medical professionals who were from very affluent backgrounds. I'm sure if you were to sleep with a boy racer stereotype they'd be a lot more 'white girl - piece of meat'. That's not been rude. It's a factual observation.
In the same vein, I'm not into black men, I know some lovely guys but I'm just not 'into them' and I know girls who ONLY date black guys but it's not for me. "
I bet again it's how we communicate with a person to know them and trust me Asian men are not less then anyone eles as I believe all our somehow in few things good and bad as no one is perfect so far. For myself I have been with few white women and they love being around me and always get good comments from them.
It's about how you treat a women and know what excites her !! |
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"I myself love all nationalities especially Asian, Kurdish, Middle eastern in fact Kurdish and Asian guys are the best for me. I know where I stand with them, they want the same as me, just good honest fun and they don't have try and charm you. Kurdish guys are polite sensitive and always want to please the lady first "
Here I think we got a the best answer with a sweet example !! Thanks for telling other people... |
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"As a South Asian guy myself who's met a fair few on here, I think if your polite and well mannered and treat women with the same respect and care as if you were dating, You shouldn't have a problem.
I think it's the approach some Asian men take on here, and
believe me I was once in the same boat until you learn to adapt to the fab world
Ps if your package is slightly smaller then average, compensate with longer oral...
That's if your good enough to make her squirt with your tongue "
I bet it's not about the package it's about to use it and make a women feel pleasured and also the main thing is as we expect from women to give us Oral pleasure and excites us. In the same way women deserve the same |
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