Interested in your experiences of the scene ... sharing some of them may help those newbies here (lurkers as well as posters) who to ask and what goes on.
I can go first, as Pepper, I met one to one on and off four years black guys, mainly. Now with black cop, I meet as a couple unless I am meeting fem fem, for which I still have my single profile. 99% of our couple meets come from people we meet at clubs and parties, although I rarely play in front of an audience. We go to a couple of the more local regular parties primarily to socialise and one club primarily to play .... TVs and bi men, women and couples are our preference ...
We met here and became a couple. Totally unexpected for both of us, but an amazing connection and so much fun ...
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So I've been on this site for about 4 years too.
I actually have had two long term relationships on here but they have gone up in a blaze of hateful fire.
As a single black woman from a community where thus can of activity is frowned up, it's been hard.
As a single female, it's been harder. You have to know who to trust with your private details and the one rule I always have is triple verify. That means that you need to check that the person your meeting has been verified by three different people and those one have also been verified by three different names to the person your meeting.
I no longer play in London or around. I have the pleasure of having a FB who will drive me to clubs (not because it's cheaper for him)and make sure I'm alright.
This site has its ups and downs but in all honesty, you get what you put in.
Anything else
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"So I've been on this site for about 4 years too.
I actually have had two long term relationships on here but they have gone up in a blaze of hateful fire.
As a single black woman from a community where thus can of activity is frowned up, it's been hard.
As a single female, it's been harder. You have to know who to trust with your private details and the one rule I always have is triple verify. That means that you need to check that the person your meeting has been verified by three different people and those one have also been verified by three different names to the person your meeting.
I no longer play in London or around. I have the pleasure of having a FB who will drive me to clubs (not because it's cheaper for him)and make sure I'm alright.
This site has its ups and downs but in all honesty, you get what you put in.
Anything else
Rx"
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"Simple to check that they are real. Ive learnt that every meet is different so checking verifications for that is not for me."
Just checked ... we would pass the test. Its not a hint, just interested as we've been on the scene a good while. |
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I'm still new to this and my experience as a single bi-playful man is a strange one. Maybe it's complicated by me being in a relationship and making it fairly clear.
I have visited a couple of clubs now and found that I prefer the more relaxed atmosphere of a sauna than a club. Knowing that I can just walk around and relax by myself has been more enjoyable than the underlying feeling of needing to 'do something' of a club.
I get plenty of offers from guys, including a few really weird ones but it takes an effort to get the attention of women and couples.
When I do they're often too far away to meet up with often.
I recently came out about my bi side to my partner so feel more open now (she already had my permission to play), and she loves the idea of an mmf.
I have found my more exhibitionist side as a result of being on here though. |
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