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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hello Fab-ulous Forum!
Some advice needed if you can spare a mo!
I'm wanting to explore the london swinger club scene - all the way... soft to hard, formal to fetish ...
Polite, 34, fit, quiet, always hard, [good looking?], experimental male.
Willing and open, with plenty of my own ideas
Wouldnt mind having to dress up or down from butt naked to suited and booted.
So - any recommendations, advice, tips?
All welcome good or bad!
Thanks Fab!  |
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For swinging - look at the club listings on here, try any and all that take your fancy.
For fetish - big London clubs include torture garden, subversion, antichrist, club rub. All have websites with galleries so you can check out the dress code.
In general - be nice, don't be a creep, go to make friends first and foremost rather than specifically for action. Be patient, it takes persistence to 'bed in' to the scene but soon you will make friends and find playmates.
Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For swinging - look at the club listings on here, try any and all that take your fancy.
For fetish - big London clubs include torture garden, subversion, antichrist, club rub. All have websites with galleries so you can check out the dress code.
In general - be nice, don't be a creep, go to make friends first and foremost rather than specifically for action. Be patient, it takes persistence to 'bed in' to the scene but soon you will make friends and find playmates.
Good luck!"
Nice reply...... Totally agree, be nice and pleasant and don't be a creepy meerkat
Good luck
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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_orsetandheels thank you! really looking forward to being a part of the clubs and totally understand the slowly but surely approach...
kind and knowing words, thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For swinging - look at the club listings on here, try any and all that take your fancy.
For fetish - big London clubs include torture garden, subversion, antichrist, club rub. All have websites with galleries so you can check out the dress code.
In general - be nice, don't be a creep, go to make friends first and foremost rather than specifically for action. Be patient, it takes persistence to 'bed in' to the scene but soon you will make friends and find playmates.
Good luck!
Nice reply...... Totally agree, be nice and pleasant and don't be a creepy meerkat
Good luck
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And do not take one of those Meerkat dollys with you  |
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Id recommend going to the smoking area to make friends. Even if you don't smoke it seems that people tend to be chattier and more friendly than the people sat inside.
And as said above, go along with the expectation to not play the first time you go. Just go to be sociable and if you get some action that's just a bonus |
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"For swinging - look at the club listings on here, try any and all that take your fancy.
For fetish - big London clubs include torture garden, subversion, antichrist, club rub. All have websites with galleries so you can check out the dress code.
In general - be nice, don't be a creep, go to make friends first and foremost rather than specifically for action. Be patient, it takes persistence to 'bed in' to the scene but soon you will make friends and find playmates.
Good luck!"
And if you are interested in Fet clubs getting to some munches and getting known is a plan. And be aware that Fet clubs vary massively in what they offer so research them. |
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