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Hi guys
How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?
If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing? |
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By *ddyMan 35 weeks ago
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"Hi guys
How comes there's no exclusive meet for Asian men and women?
If we can get enough people down, I would love it if we all get together in one place for a social... maybe make it a monthly thing?"
Great idea! There needs to be a small community of Asians/ South Asian meets. I'm down. |
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I suspect that you will get a more limited response if you keep it to south Asians, better to open it up to all Asians. You might get a better response.
Socials only work if lots of women and couples turn up, otherwise it'll just be a sausage fest |
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It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others |
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We used to run parties exclsuively for Asian and Middle Eastern ladies under the aegis of Bollywood Private - There certainly is not a lack of them here but they invariably seem to block out single guys from messaging. From experience I would say it is no more/less difficult to arrange meets with Asians than it is with people of other races. You just need to know how to out the fantasists who only want to talk about it. |
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I can wholly understand the need for south Asian and Asian only groups, with the noticeably hostility from the general non Asian community here.
I can’t see us attending any events but like above said, if there is a way to remove fantasist then that’s a win for those wanting to have a fun social . |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"
Sadly this is true |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others
Sadly this is true "
This is precisely the reason why we are out!! |
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"It will never happen for the below reasons:
1) Way too many Asian men compared to the MF / F on here
2) Discretion and word spreads like fire in the Asian community if one cant keep their mouth shut
3) Some Asian men do not know how to interact / treat others"
Quite the generalization. Do you have numbers to back this up?
At any rate, I’m in.
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Maybe I've been lucky - had a fair few meets off here, and even a long relationship.
Flip side is a lot of profiles do say no Asians, and no issue with that as everyone has preferences - same way I prefer curvy girls as opposed to slimmer ones, although the 'no asians' thing I'd suggest is partly how I've seen behaviours at clubs etc that Def don't do decent Asian guys any favours. |
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How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?
I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians. |
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"How did a thread for wanting more inclusivity for more Asians - a fairly innocent thread I might add - become a tirade for racist comments under the guise of “their behavior” and “preferences”?
I doubt the poster wanted to know about your personal feelings about Asians."
I think if you read the post correctly, it not inclusive whatsoever. It clearly states "exclusive". |
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Interesting idea but will need a lot of work and I suspect the first few metres will not be great but build on it and I think with the help of a free more people it is something that could be worth trying. Let’s not leave it to one person. These comments of how Asian men behave etc well there are aholes in all races and so much of this is just stereotypes. |
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Sounds like a great idea, definitely up for building on this 
Agree with the generalisation that Asian men don't know how to behave/treat others.....been to many clubs and events and it's not the Asian guys that don't know how to behave, it's most guys who don't understand boundaries / consent / communication/ lack social skills |
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I think this idea needs to start on a smaller scale. Limited numbers so it’s easier to control and also build the reputation up somewhat. If anyone is interested in the South London area then let’s chat about it a little more. |
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Sorry for being radio silent
I completely forgot I posted this in the first place and was never getting any notifications on my phone,as a result a whole parade of conversations had taken place without me providing any input so I do apologise for this...
Now in terms of setting a meet, I'm not sure how to go about doing this. Would it be best if everyone can commit to a certain date to meet in a bar or pub? |
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"Club/cocktail bar. I cannot hold them in a swingers venue as this is the 1st time such a community will come together so we won't know what to expect.
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Also it's safer as its the 1st one"
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Perhaps I wasn't clear: I have no penchant for swingers clubs. Cocktail bars all the way. It's the only way to imbibe. 🌿🌿 |
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Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is. |
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"Why does there need to be an exclusive group within this website. If you require an exclusive club/group of racial people I’m sure there are sites out there. I suggest you go in search of such groups and leave this site as it is. "
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Because it's his prerogative. |
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By (user no longer on site) 13 weeks ago
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"... what is wrong with enjoying all the colours and flavours of the rainbow? 🌈
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All colours are not invited. I have Indian heritage and in my personal life S Asians are slightly over represented.
But there's no way they are gonna want me rocking up with pale skin and red hair. This is for mid brown people only. No rainbow. Sepia monochrome.
I'm down with it being exclusionary. But let's not pretend it isn't. xx |
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This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples
I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested. |
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"This thread didn't really go anywhere, as there was too many guys, and not enough ladies/couples
I'm thinking it might be worth setting up a telegram group for the interested parties, let me know on the thread if anyone is interested."
Someone was trying to do this on another thread, but it seems to have gone nowhere! |
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Guys I've setup a telegram but I haven't got an actual group. I've got a mixture of responses and so far it's 90 percent men and 10 percent females or couples. If I can get an even balance then that group is created in a heartbeat.
Tbf I've not been monitoring fab much as its too distracting
Will try and keep tabs on this forum though.
Apologies to everyone |
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