New to the scene and wanting to go to a club we are planning on a trip at the end of March to London our favourite city so want our first club experience to be in London! We are also wanting to have our first ffm and also fems first ff. Any recommendations and advice will be appreciated. x |
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"I keep wanting to go to a club alone but nerves keep getting better of me. "
I am assuming it is the lady of the couple writing, apologies if not but the info might be useful to others.
Go to Our Place for Fun (OP4F).
They no "private" play areas, this means there are no unobserved areas in th club that you could be cornered in.
They also have their white line system so that some play areas are public but the line can only be crossed by those invited by those already within it, which helps eliminate crafty gropers.
It's also female run.
Go for it - the Thursday Night special nights are Females and Couples only, Friday night has Single Guys as well and Sat has limited numbers of single guys.
Oh but they are closed for January. |
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Feeling nervous before the first time is completely natural but unnecessary. Once you get in and get a feel for the place you will wonder what you were worried about.
Staff will always be on hand to support you and ensure that you are feeling OK. I have many female friends who have enjoyed both clubs as a single lady. If a thread is started about a specific day that you are thinking of going will give you some idea of who may be there. Checking out verifications for people who are attending on the day will give you some idea of who they are and what they are like. Sundays are quite popular at kestrels.  |
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Definitely recommend Kestrels/AbFabs for a first visit. The wet areas means you can slow things down by taking a dip or sit in the hot tub for a bit. Our first club was Hellfire, but we’ve been a couple of times now, and it’s often pretty quiet - not sure if that’s a good or bad thing for the first timer! |
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Brill thanks guys and girls. Yeah I’m slightly nervous but I think I’ll be ok once I’m in there I think of the little stuff that probably won’t matter like what will I wear? Can you just talk to people? Can I ask staff if I’m unsure. Probably just over thinking things but I’m sure once we’ve been once we will be fine ?? x |
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"Brill thanks guys and girls. Yeah I’m slightly nervous but I think I’ll be ok once I’m in there I think of the little stuff that probably won’t matter like what will I wear? Can you just talk to people? Can I ask staff if I’m unsure. Probably just over thinking things but I’m sure once we’ve been once we will be fine ?? x"
At kestrels/Abfab what you will wear will depend on the time of day. Monday, Tuesday, Wednesday you will be in a towel or robe until 6pm as it's naturist. After 6pm you can wear as little or as much as you like and you get to stay for the club night at no extra charge.
There will always be someone to chat to and staff are always around and happy to help.
Thursdays there's no evening club and Friday and Saturday they close at about 6pm to get set up for the club night.
Sundays they are naturist all day and close at 8pm.
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