Anyone in/around Dagenham looking to chat ?
I'm really hoping this lockdown can give an opportunity to connect with people without the pressure on meeting instantly. Would be great to really get to know someone and arrange a meeting once safe  |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
Such a shame there is nothing in or near Dagenham as about 3 years ago there was Paradise Spa which I went to and about 10 years ago if not more there was The Yellow House which I didn’t get the chance to go to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"there is some places in dagenham but not much action.when we go we make it happen.you have too.dagenham is boring now with no clubs or spas.x  "
I think we will have to organise a group meet for you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no not gonna do group fun at all now or in future.gonna try to safe and meet just one guy maybe keep regular.its gonna change alot when we come out of lockdown.socials will never be the same.the yellow house closed in 2015 brilliant fun there on friday nights.yes paradise now gone.so nothing in dagenham.we just go out and make our own fun happen in dagenham and it helps.being a greedy female helps lol.xx |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"no not gonna do group fun at all now or in future.gonna try to safe and meet just one guy maybe keep regular.its gonna change alot when we come out of lockdown.socials will never be the same.the yellow house closed in 2015 brilliant fun there on friday nights.yes paradise now gone.so nothing in dagenham.we just go out and make our own fun happen in dagenham and it helps.being a greedy female helps lol.xx "
tell me where you go and i would make it happen......... i assure you lol |
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"Such a shame there is nothing in or near Dagenham as about 3 years ago there was Paradise Spa which I went to and about 10 years ago if not more there was The Yellow House which I didn’t get the chance to go to."
You dodged a bullet by never going to The Yellow House. |
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Dirty cat litter tray in the 'cage' which was actually a pet cage.
Carpets your feet stuck to when you walked in.
People in the front room smoking so much the walls were yellow and you couldn't actually tell how many people were in there.
Sheets on beds that were stained with yellow marks.
Guess it depends on your definition of bad! |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"Dirty cat litter tray in the 'cage' which was actually a pet cage.
Carpets your feet stuck to when you walked in.
People in the front room smoking so much the walls were yellow and you couldn't actually tell how many people were in there.
Sheets on beds that were stained with yellow marks.
Guess it depends on your definition of bad!"
. Yellow walls , Yellow sheets I guess The Yellow house was the correct name for it lol.Sounds like I dodged a bullet as you put it in a earlier post. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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come on costa how can you say this when i have seen you around alot of worse dives lol.lets keep to the subject.the guy is asking if anywhere to go in dagenham.and now theres nothing.just got to make your own fun in dagenham or travel really.but swinging is not the same now anywhere.not as good and its gone to commercial nowadays.its just about making easy money for doing nothing.we old swingers and prefered when swinging was good n fun.this is just our opinion on swinging.no offence meant.xxx |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
Edmonton |
"come on costa how can you say this when i have seen you around alot of worse dives lol.lets keep to the subject.the guy is asking if anywhere to go in dagenham.and now theres nothing.just got to make your own fun in dagenham or travel really.but swinging is not the same now anywhere.not as good and its gone to commercial nowadays.its just about making easy money for doing nothing.we old swingers and prefered when swinging was good n fun.this is just our opinion on swinging.no offence meant.xxx "
. Yes we did come across each other in some dives as well as some commercial hotel events.The last time I remember coming across you was at OP4F now that can’t be described as a dive.I guess there are two different opinions about the Yellow House but as I didn’t get to go and it’s no longer there I guess it doesn’t really matter.Back to the OP sadly it seems like there is nothing in Dagenham or Essex at this moment in time except maybe dogging. |
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Yellow House was unashamedly grimy but the people there were so friendly and welcoming that I wish we could turn back time and I could go again. Everyone chatted to everyone, it was smiles and laughter all round. It was definitely a health hazard but people predominantly went there to socialise. I burst my social bubble there and will always be grateful for the welcome Sam and the crew gave me every week. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"silkysatin i think its called lockdown lol.x "
Well yes you are right, and rightly so. What I meant, and perhaps should have clearly indicated, was the lack of chat or communication on here for said area. Lol x |
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I loved paradise spa my first club a lady took me to and will always be remembered loved that place so friendly, never went to yellow house but heard good and bad things like most places I like the social side almost as much and the fun |
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Yellow House may have been seedy for some people but for others it was the perfect mix. Worth travelling all the way from SW London and back again on an empty M25 with a broad smile. Would be good to have a reunion somewhere |
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when the cornona has eased off I'd love to be part of a second coming 
just need to get the right people interested to keep the ratios correct and pushy people away 