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"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!! "So true PB. Hope everyone stays safe through this and after we can all celebrate. | |||
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"Lovely words OP, not just for now but for life. Also sign us up for the orgy "Oh what would have been.....
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"I kind of think we should interact as normal to a degree..... A whole forum of people pretending to be nice to each other.. . We will all go nuts. Saying that I dont think there is ever a need to be nasty to each other pandemic or not." I'm not saying pretend. I'm just suggesting that we might be a little bit kinder in our attitudes and responses. There's a gulf between pretending to be nice, Stepford Wife Style, and making a genuine effort not to be as acerbic as we sometimes can be. In my profession I'm often met with horrendous attitudes, threats and even violence, but I have to make a genuine attempt to understand where these negative displays are rooted in. It's not just planting a forced smile on my mush - it's the opposite of a false face, it's empathy. Ya dig?! | |||
"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!! "Great post | |||
"I kind of think we should interact as normal to a degree..... A whole forum of people pretending to be nice to each other.. . We will all go nuts. Saying that I dont think there is ever a need to be nasty to each other pandemic or not. I'm not saying pretend. I'm just suggesting that we might be a little bit kinder in our attitudes and responses. There's a gulf between pretending to be nice, Stepford Wife Style, and making a genuine effort not to be as acerbic as we sometimes can be. In my profession I'm often met with horrendous attitudes, threats and even violence, but I have to make a genuine attempt to understand where these negative displays are rooted in. It's not just planting a forced smile on my mush - it's the opposite of a false face, it's empathy. Ya dig?! "I dig brother..... Maybe I just hope that that's how we normally act
I did like the sentiment | |||
I also love the word yiz. | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz. "Your honesty is refreshing | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz. "Ah but ya loves us really deep down | |||
"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!! "You could have delivered Varadkars monologue much better than he did. Very well put PB. A little more compassion and empathy will go a long way. If you have nothing good to say, say nothing! Fire. | |||
"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!!
You could have delivered Varadkars monologue much better than he did. Very well put PB. A little more compassion and empathy will go a long way. If you have nothing good to say, say nothing!
Fire. "I'm sayin nothing. | |||
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"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz. "Sounds luke Jiz no wonder ya love it | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz.
Sounds luke Jiz no wonder ya love it" | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz.
Sounds luke Jiz no wonder ya love it
"Some of us are nice cunts Mickeleen. | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz.
Sounds luke Jiz no wonder ya love it
Some of us are nice cunts Mickeleen. "Mmmmmm, I do like a nice cunt!  | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz.
Sounds luke Jiz no wonder ya love it
Some of us are nice cunts Mickeleen.
Mmmmmm, I do like a nice cunt! " | |||
"I think yiz are all cunts and I'm going to keep reminding yiz!
I also love the word yiz. "My dear man, I have neither the depth, nor the warmth to be accurately described as a cunt! | |||
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"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!! "Fuck me this is harder than I thought!!  | |||
" Fuck me this is harder than I thought!! "Hate to say I told ya so.... | |||
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" Fuck me this is harder than I thought!! "Said the novice to the bishop | |||
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"I think people that quote the original post in full should get the virus!" Thanks very much. I hope you stay safe and well. See I can be nice when I try | |||
" Fuck me this is harder than I thought!!
Said the novice to the bishop "I don't think there's many novices here.... | |||
" Fuck me this is harder than I thought!!
Said the novice to the bishop
I don't think there's many novices here.... "Does role play count? | |||
" Fuck me this is harder than I thought!!
Said the novice to the bishop
I don't think there's many novices here....
Does role play count?"I'll wear anything for you guys.... | |||
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"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!!
You could have delivered Varadkars monologue much better than he did. Very well put PB. A little more compassion and empathy will go a long way. If you have nothing good to say, say nothing!
Fire.
I'm sayin nothing. " | |||
"Well said PB less judgement and more helping each other through this all. In order to pull together we must all stay apart "It used to be on Fab that pulling together implied a jerk circle. 
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"Jayus PB you going soft on us awwww no lad fair play well said "I've unfortunately being going soft on women for years Xena  | |||
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"I'm bumping this because it's my post and I'm bored. "I’m sick of being nice! Let the games begin | |||
first class op hope everyone stays safe | |||
"So. To start off - a wee mea culpa; I can be a smart arse. I can be self righteous, egotistical and incredibly judgemental. I am by no means a perfect or even decent human being. So if, while you're reading this you feel the need to point out some of my many flaws, there is really no need. I am already painfully aware of same. Having said that, we appear to be facing into some long months of one of the most unique challenges that we as a nation, as a world, have ever had to confront. By know we all probably have an inkling of the inherent physical, social, health, economic and logistical problems the coming months are likely to bring. They are not insurmountable but they will be difficult. I have been a proud member of the swinging and BDSM scene for over 15 years. I have been a front line worker for 13 years. I've also been fortunate enough to travel the world during that same period. I don't think it hyperbole to say (given my lifestyle, my profession and my hobbies) that I have been granted the honour of seeing a fascinating cross section of humanity. I have seen the best and the worst we have to offer. It is now that I would like to appeal to all of us in our community to rise to the challenge that lays ahead of us. Of course I mean curtailing meets and large events and meets (many of us have already done so: RVC, EE, KK, Envy and individual Fabbers) but in a broader sense I mean our attitudes and behaviours on Fab. From snide statuses (which I'm particularly guilty of), to sarcastic or insulting forum replies, to straight out insulting or threatening messages. Mental health is an ongoing issue and everyone suffers in life. Now, more than ever, people's self esteem, anxiety, feelings of isolation, paranoia and depression are likely to worsen over the coming months. You just don't know, when you attack or mock or denigrate someone on here, the affect you have on someone. I would humbly ask us all, myself included, to be kind. To be supportive. Understanding. Loving. Helpful. Reach out. Talk. I'd rather hear it from your lips then read it in your suicide note. I am not perfect, and certainly have not been, on Fab or forums or in the real world, but from today I will attempt to do my utmost to rectify that. And to those I have scorned, mocked, excluded or hurt. I apologise, unreservedly. I love you all, you absolute sex Gods and Goddesses. I miss you all too. Let's get through this. And Christ all fucking mighty, when this is over, let's have the biggest fucking orgy any of us have ever seen!!! " well said op | |||
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