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BBW. What's it to you?
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Since I joined here I get a lot of guys writing to me about being a bbw.
But isn't bbw just like curvy, where everyone has their own definition and nobody really knows for sure what it means.
So I guess this is my long winded way of saying what does bbw really mean when you overthink it as much as I am now?
I've never been offended by someone calling me a bbw but I hesitate to say I am one. I'm 5'1" and a size 10-12, admittedly overweight but still pretty average.
P.s. I'm asking because theres a thread asking for opinions from fellow bbws and I didnt know whether to comment or not. For context. |
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As far as I knew BBW was big busted women, maybe I'm very wrong but that's what I though, oh and by the way 10-12 is NOT big girl, I'm a 5'1.5" and would like to be 10-12, it's all about being comfortable and confident with who you are. Beautiful  |
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"As far as I knew BBW was big busted women, maybe I'm very wrong but that's what I though, oh and by the way 10-12 is NOT big girl, I'm a 5'1.5" and would like to be 10-12, it's all about being comfortable and confident with who you are. Beautiful "
Oh, I really thought it was big beautiful women. As in women who carry a bit more weight. I've never heard it referring to bust size but maybe I'm wrong.
And I'm definitely a little overweight and I have not a single problem with it haha I'm still fine!
 
Thanks for the compliment and info though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry any guy calling you a bbw needs to go to specsavers .
Going by Google anything from a 14 upwards is a bbw.
Wonder how many women text men and say oh I've never been with a bbw guy
The sooner we stop using labels the better.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Big beautiful women....
Big technically meaning more over than average weight.
But really call yourself what ever you want.
No one has an issue with the beautiful part vain ass mofos...
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"Big beautiful women....
Big technically meaning more over than average weight.
But really call yourself what ever you want.
No one has an issue with the beautiful part vain ass mofos...
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I'm going to label myself as.... more than average. |
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"Whatever be the urban slang...to me it’s Breathtakingly Beautiful Woman - which is what I guess all the fab women reading this up are.. he he 
Very smooth!
You mean Slick.  "
Hahaha yes!! How could I have missed that one?!  |
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By *rSlickMan
over a year ago
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"Whatever be the urban slang...to me it’s Breathtakingly Beautiful Woman - which is what I guess all the fab women reading this up are.. he he
Very smooth! "
..thought so too.. throwing in another.. a lil physical maybe... Bigass Bigboobs and Wild |
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"Whatever be the urban slang...to me it’s Breathtakingly Beautiful Woman - which is what I guess all the fab women reading this up are.. he he
Very smooth!
You mean Slick.
Hahaha yes!! How could I have missed that one?! "
I hate to be a party pooper but if they are all making breathless you might want to get checked for Corona |
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"Whatever be the urban slang...to me it’s Breathtakingly Beautiful Woman - which is what I guess all the fab women reading this up are.. he he
Very smooth!
You mean Slick.
Hahaha yes!! How could I have missed that one?!
I hate to be a party pooper but if they are all making breathless you might want to get checked for Corona "
I'm here to take temperatures. Just sayin. |
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By *amalusMan
over a year ago
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From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say that in terms of calling oneself a BBW, it refers to being a big beautiful woman.
Size 16 is meant to be the statistical average size however if you are 5ft and a 16 you’ll look bigger than say being 5ft10 and a 16.
Be who and what you want to be, label it or don’t. As long as you are body positive everything else is irrelevant. |
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"From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8."
I am what would commonly be called a BBW, and I have curves for days. I've no problem being described as such btw, nor do I have a problem admitting that I have fat btw, but I'm definitely not beyond curvy |
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"From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8.
I am what would commonly be called a BBW, and I have curves for days. I've no problem being described as such btw, nor do I have a problem admitting that I have fat btw, but I'm definitely not beyond curvy"
I think we both know that that isn't what he meant.  |
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"Technically bbw is meant to mean big beautiful woman. But it’s very subjective. I for one don’t care about labels. Once you’re happy and comfortable in your own skin. "
Quite right and the trouble about labels is that quite a percentage of people here have no idea what they mean.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I absolutely detest the word bbw if a person uses that in a sentence towards me I delete it
No one in life needs to be categorised same goes for bbc HATE IT.
We’re all people with our own bits irrespective of size colour nationality etc why label it! |
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Loving all the suggestions to bbw. I am classed as fabulous on here which is definitely over the average.
Actually I really like that description as it makes me feel sexy. Unfortunately media has programmed people into thinking we should be a certain size.
I like being bigger so I'd say just be yourself and enjoy life!!!!!
Lifes way to short xx |
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By *amalusMan
over a year ago
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"From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8.
I am what would commonly be called a BBW, and I have curves for days. I've no problem being described as such btw, nor do I have a problem admitting that I have fat btw, but I'm definitely not beyond curvy
I think we both know that that isn't what he meant. "
That is absolutely not what I meant. I'm deeply sorry if I caused any offence. |
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"Since I joined here I get a lot of guys writing to me about being a bbw.
But isn't bbw just like curvy, where everyone has their own definition and nobody really knows for sure what it means.
So I guess this is my long winded way of saying what does bbw really mean when you overthink it as much as I am now?
I've never been offended by someone calling me a bbw but I hesitate to say I am one. I'm 5'1" and a size 10-12, admittedly overweight but still pretty average.
P.s. I'm asking because theres a thread asking for opinions from fellow bbws and I didnt know whether to comment or not. For context. "
Personally I don't have a body type preference you are all beautiful in your own right and you a certainly not overweight curvy yes but not overweight I look for a good personality in a woman and someone that like to get to know more of than just fuck and leave |
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"Loving all the suggestions to bbw. I am classed as fabulous on here which is definitely over the average.
Actually I really like that description as it makes me feel sexy. Unfortunately media has programmed people into thinking we should be a certain size.
I like being bigger so I'd say just be yourself and enjoy life!!!!!
Lifes way to short xx"
Beautiful pics! Where did you get that gorgeous corset? |
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"Loving all the suggestions to bbw. I am classed as fabulous on here which is definitely over the average.
Actually I really like that description as it makes me feel sexy. Unfortunately media has programmed people into thinking we should be a certain size.
I like being bigger so I'd say just be yourself and enjoy life!!!!!
Lifes way to short xx
Beautiful pics! Where did you get that gorgeous corset?"
Amazon have some beautiful ones atm!!!! I bought a few recently. I like the dominant look can you tell lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8.
I am what would commonly be called a BBW, and I have curves for days. I've no problem being described as such btw, nor do I have a problem admitting that I have fat btw, but I'm definitely not beyond curvy
I think we both know that that isn't what he meant.
That is absolutely not what I meant. I'm deeply sorry if I caused any offence. "
Apologies for my tetchiness. Classic example of cause and effect - I was in a shitty mood and lashed out. There was no need, sorry x |
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"From my understanding BBW is beyond curvy, so you wouldn't be a BBW, you're a curvy, nerdy goddess.
Lads who call you BBW possibly have an unhealthy idea of what a BBW actually is, as in, anyone over a size 8.
I am what would commonly be called a BBW, and I have curves for days. I've no problem being described as such btw, nor do I have a problem admitting that I have fat btw, but I'm definitely not beyond curvy
I think we both know that that isn't what he meant.
That is absolutely not what I meant. I'm deeply sorry if I caused any offence.
Apologies for my tetchiness. Classic example of cause and effect - I was in a shitty mood and lashed out. There was no need, sorry x"
Its also an example of why any labels are toxic. |
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Lots of people on here love the term bbw but even on this thread people are cringing at the term "overweight", and are falling over themselves to reassure the OP she's *not* a BBW - which tells you all you need to know about it.
There's nothing wrong with being fat or overweight, so no need to cringe, and no need for a fetishizing euphemism like BBW to cover it up either.
I absolutely hate the term, if someone finds fat women attractive, they can just say beautiful or sexy or whatever - there's no need for a separate category to describe the desirability of fat women.
To me, it basically means "you're fat but I'm still attracted to you anyway!" No thanks. Move along. |
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Great sex comes from the mind. Body shape becomes irrelevant in the heat of the moment. Initial attraction to shape or form is a natural phenomenon but we are generally attracted to those comfortable in themselves without even knowing it. Relax and enjoy. Happy fabbing |
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Someone the term BBW some Don't,some like being deemed as skinny some Don't. Love who and what you are. There's a someone for everyone. If we all loved ourselves this world would be a happier place. Fact. |
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"Lots of people on here love the term bbw but even on this thread people are cringing at the term "overweight", and are falling over themselves to reassure the OP she's *not* a BBW - which tells you all you need to know about it.
There's nothing wrong with being fat or overweight, so no need to cringe, and no need for a fetishizing euphemism like BBW to cover it up either.
I absolutely hate the term, if someone finds fat women attractive, they can just say beautiful or sexy or whatever - there's no need for a separate category to describe the desirability of fat women.
To me, it basically means "you're fat but I'm still attracted to you anyway!" No thanks. Move along. "
Love this, you are so right in all that you’re saying and very eloquently put. |
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Thanks for the responses so far! Just want to say that I am definitely and absolutely overweight. I'm curvy and overweight. I'm not putting myself down when I say that. I'm stating a fact.
I'm not offended by people calling me fat/bbw/overweight because I don't think being bigger makes me less than anyone else.
I understand you guys are just trying to be nice to me by saying that I'm not overweight and I appreciate that but please don't blow smoke up my ass haha
I'm fat and absolutely gorgeous.
And if you feel that you need to convince me otherwise to accept finding me attractive then maybe question why that is... |
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"Great sex comes from the mind. Body shape becomes irrelevant in the heat of the moment. Initial attraction to shape or form is a natural phenomenon but we are generally attracted to those comfortable in themselves without even knowing it. Relax and enjoy. Happy fabbing "
Very true but unfortunately people are judged on their looks. |
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"Thanks for the responses so far! Just want to say that I am definitely and absolutely overweight. I'm curvy and overweight. I'm not putting myself down when I say that. I'm stating a fact.
I'm not offended by people calling me fat/bbw/overweight because I don't think being bigger makes me less than anyone else.
I understand you guys are just trying to be nice to me by saying that I'm not overweight and I appreciate that but please don't blow smoke up my ass haha
I'm fat and absolutely gorgeous.
And if you feel that you need to convince me otherwise to accept finding me attractive then maybe question why that is... "
Well I didn't say what I said a few posts up just to get into your good books and I can't blow smoke up your ass I've never smoked in my life so I doubt that will happen lol but size 10/12 is not overweight but of course if that's how you feel and are happy the way you are who is anyone else to judge like there is no such thing as an ugly person just too many narrow minded gobshites out there I wouldn't care what someone looked like if we get on grand that's enough for me |
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"Thanks for the responses so far! Just want to say that I am definitely and absolutely overweight. I'm curvy and overweight. I'm not putting myself down when I say that. I'm stating a fact.
I'm not offended by people calling me fat/bbw/overweight because I don't think being bigger makes me less than anyone else.
I understand you guys are just trying to be nice to me by saying that I'm not overweight and I appreciate that but please don't blow smoke up my ass haha
I'm fat and absolutely gorgeous.
And if you feel that you need to convince me otherwise to accept finding me attractive then maybe question why that is...
Well I didn't say what I said a few posts up just to get into your good books and I can't blow smoke up your ass I've never smoked in my life so I doubt that will happen lol but size 10/12 is not overweight but of course if that's how you feel and are happy the way you are who is anyone else to judge like there is no such thing as an ugly person just too many narrow minded gobshites out there I wouldn't care what someone looked like if we get on grand that's enough for me "
Omg dude. Just stop.  |
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"Thanks for the responses so far! Just want to say that I am definitely and absolutely overweight. I'm curvy and overweight. I'm not putting myself down when I say that. I'm stating a fact.
I'm not offended by people calling me fat/bbw/overweight because I don't think being bigger makes me less than anyone else.
I understand you guys are just trying to be nice to me by saying that I'm not overweight and I appreciate that but please don't blow smoke up my ass haha
I'm fat and absolutely gorgeous.
And if you feel that you need to convince me otherwise to accept finding me attractive then maybe question why that is...
Well I didn't say what I said a few posts up just to get into your good books and I can't blow smoke up your ass I've never smoked in my life so I doubt that will happen lol but size 10/12 is not overweight but of course if that's how you feel and are happy the way you are who is anyone else to judge like there is no such thing as an ugly person just too many narrow minded gobshites out there I wouldn't care what someone looked like if we get on grand that's enough for me
Omg dude. Just stop. "
What did I do now lol just stating some facts is all |
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did. "
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol |
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did.
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol"
To be fair I didn’t think you were arguing either. |
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did.
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol
To be fair I didn’t think you were arguing either. "
We weren't but I was going to lay out why I thought he wasn't stating facts and I felt like that would lead to a back and forth that I don't want to have with him.
I've already said my bit about being overweight and how I accept it about myself and he came straight back with repeating that I'm not overweight at all. Just because I'm a 10-12. I'm only 5'1". Being a 10-12 means I'm a few stone overweight.
Some people here I will happily discuss and debate with and some people I won't. Just don't like being told what I am by someone who has never even seen in person as though my scales and I are mistaken. |
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did.
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol
To be fair I didn’t think you were arguing either.
We weren't but I was going to lay out why I thought he wasn't stating facts and I felt like that would lead to a back and forth that I don't want to have with him.
I've already said my bit about being overweight and how I accept it about myself and he came straight back with repeating that I'm not overweight at all. Just because I'm a 10-12. I'm only 5'1". Being a 10-12 means I'm a few stone overweight.
Some people here I will happily discuss and debate with and some people I won't. Just don't like being told what I am by someone who has never even seen in person as though my scales and I are mistaken. "
I honestly think he was just trying to be nice. I don’t think he meant any harm or offence or even that he knows better than you.
Just take a chill pill and don’t bother replying to him or me for that matter if it upsets you.
Life is too short |
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By *oserMan
over a year ago
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did.
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol
To be fair I didn’t think you were arguing either.
We weren't but I was going to lay out why I thought he wasn't stating facts and I felt like that would lead to a back and forth that I don't want to have with him.
I've already said my bit about being overweight and how I accept it about myself and he came straight back with repeating that I'm not overweight at all. Just because I'm a 10-12. I'm only 5'1". Being a 10-12 means I'm a few stone overweight.
Some people here I will happily discuss and debate with and some people I won't. Just don't like being told what I am by someone who has never even seen in person as though my scales and I are mistaken.
I honestly think he was just trying to be nice. I don’t think he meant any harm or offence or even that he knows better than you.
Just take a chill pill and don’t bother replying to him or me for that matter if it upsets you.
Life is too short "
Ah the voice of reason |
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"You're not stating facts and I know better than to try and argue with you so I've asked you to stop and I'd appreciate if you did.
I didn't know we was arguing il wave the white flag anyway I surrender to all terms and demands lol
To be fair I didn’t think you were arguing either.
We weren't but I was going to lay out why I thought he wasn't stating facts and I felt like that would lead to a back and forth that I don't want to have with him.
I've already said my bit about being overweight and how I accept it about myself and he came straight back with repeating that I'm not overweight at all. Just because I'm a 10-12. I'm only 5'1". Being a 10-12 means I'm a few stone overweight.
Some people here I will happily discuss and debate with and some people I won't. Just don't like being told what I am by someone who has never even seen in person as though my scales and I are mistaken. "
Oh I completely understood your opinion of yourself and really truly I don't want to argue with anyone when I said that your not overweight that was just my opinion and its kinda based on my weight which is embarrassing tbh but if that's wrong in your view then I completely accept that if I enraged you at any point then my apologies it certainly wasn't my intentions |
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"Lots of people on here love the term bbw but even on this thread people are cringing at the term "overweight", and are falling over themselves to reassure the OP she's *not* a BBW - which tells you all you need to know about it.
There's nothing wrong with being fat or overweight, so no need to cringe, and no need for a fetishizing euphemism like BBW to cover it up either.
I absolutely hate the term, if someone finds fat women attractive, they can just say beautiful or sexy or whatever - there's no need for a separate category to describe the desirability of fat women.
To me, it basically means "you're fat but I'm still attracted to you anyway!" No thanks. Move along. "
some ladies hate the term and I get it. But the main stream media are who coined the phrase. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"fact'jane Russell ' mai west Marilyn Monroe were size 16 in the day' all considered perfect 'also there more ladies from that time considered perfect"
If they were size 16 then I'm a BBW |
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"fact'jane Russell ' mai west Marilyn Monroe were size 16 in the day' all considered perfect 'also there more ladies from that time considered perfect
If they were size 16 then I'm a BBW"
I can't help but think it doesn't matter one bit what size they were, they were all beautiful women.
It seems to me that the 'beauty' industry and social media have too many women chasing the perfect size, but one size does not fit all.
Personally I see beauty in lots of different shapes and sizes of women and the sad truth is, if you're looking into a womans eyes and can only see her dress size you're looking at the wrong eyes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Me and my BBW are looking for a host in the Dublin Phibsboro area. DM me if anyone is interested. We usually go to the sex cinema nearby, but it's cold there and we can't host at our own homes. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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"fact'jane Russell ' mai west Marilyn Monroe were size 16 in the day' all considered perfect 'also there more ladies from that time considered perfect
If they were size 16 then I'm a BBW"
I can confortably say you will remain a man. |
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