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By *eebaw OP Man
over a year ago
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So While looking about on here and sending a few mails It crossed my mind do couples and women have to search and mail Guys or do they have enough messages coming trough to not need to message guys ?
my past experience I was told that some couples and women get so bogged down with messages that they bulk delete them which is why some guys get lost in the mailbox lol |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"So While looking about on here and sending a few mails It crossed my mind do couples and women have to search and mail Guys or do they have enough messages coming trough to not need to message guys ?
my past experience I was told that some couples and women get so bogged down with messages that they bulk delete them which is why some guys get lost in the mailbox lol "
I've messaged guys first doesn't bother me. And even tho I keep my filters tight I do bulk delete at times as well. But if I like a profile I'll wink or send a message first. Don't have an issue with doing that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now.. there's a massive difference between spam messages and decent messages.
We do our own search and message people we like ourselves.
Now we do read all messages. Difference is - if someone didn't bother spending 25 seconds to read our profile - we don't bother spending 25seconds to type out a reply, no matter how attractive the silhouette avatar may appear |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have no problem messaging someone first, the kinda guys I do message first are ones who have put some effort into their profiles. It doesn’t have to be as long as War&Peace, just a few lines with a bit of info |
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"So While looking about on here and sending a few mails It crossed my mind do couples and women have to search and mail Guys or do they have enough messages coming trough to not need to message guys ?
my past experience I was told that some couples and women get so bogged down with messages that they bulk delete them which is why some guys get lost in the mailbox lol "
Oh believe me OP if you have caught their eye you will certainly know about it |
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