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By *winger212 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain

So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman. "

I joined it in January left after a week. Nearly every guy I spoke to within two messages the sexual comments started. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman. "

I used to be on pof. But honestly, I reckon there's a better chance of me meeting someone who's actually compatible with me here. I know this isn't a dating site and people love to give out about those of us who treat is as one. But I give no shits. I've had much better experiences of dating men here than on pof.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I only tried one other and it was basically all the same people and the same kind of messages

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By *winger212 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain

Yeah I'm getting a lot of fabbers message there, I couldn't date a fabber, I've too much of a jealousy steak

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah I'm getting a lot of fabbers message there, I couldn't date a fabber, I've too much of a jealousy steak"

But there are single people on fab who wouldn't swing in a relationship.

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By *winger212 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain


"Yeah I'm getting a lot of fabbers message there, I couldn't date a fabber, I've too much of a jealousy steak

But there are single people on fab who wouldn't swing in a relationship. "

You see that's the thing! And that's where I know it would wreck my head, I know that I would 100% give up fab if in a relationship but would constantly be thinking they are still on it.

Head wrecker!

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Yeah I'm getting a lot of fabbers message there, I couldn't date a fabber, I've too much of a jealousy steak

But there are single people on fab who wouldn't swing in a relationship.

You see that's the thing! And that's where I know it would wreck my head, I know that I would 100% give up fab if in a relationship but would constantly be thinking they are still on it.

Head wrecker! "

To be fair I think if you meet anyone online and embark on a relationship no matter what site you use you’ll always have that niggling doubt that they may still be using the sites.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol "

Apart from grinder x

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

Apart from grinder x"

Nope never used any

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

Apart from grinder x

Nope never used any "

As it's for gay men can't see why you would need it bo

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was just going to ask what's grinder

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

Apart from grinder x

Nope never used any

As it's for gay men can't see why you would need it bo "

Lol. True

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By *eebawMan  over a year ago

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was thinking of joining up again on pof or tinder but I find it is a headace for genuine guys cause women get pissed off by the timewaster guys

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By *winger212 OP   Woman  over a year ago

Live in spain


"was thinking of joining up again on pof or tinder but I find it is a headace for genuine guys cause women get pissed off by the timewaster guys "

Do join up, you won't find her if you don't

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

Apart from grinder x

Nope never used any

As it's for gay men can't see why you would need it bo "

I think he means he uses Grinder not Bo ..

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By *ustBoWoman  over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I don't know I've never used a dating site lol

Apart from grinder x

Nope never used any

As it's for gay men can't see why you would need it bo

I think he means he uses Grinder not Bo .."

Must do

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By *ubyShuWoman  over a year ago

Nearby

Have tried them all and got no where on any of them lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I hate them lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman.

I used to be on pof. But honestly, I reckon there's a better chance of me meeting someone who's actually compatible with me here. I know this isn't a dating site and people love to give out about those of us who treat is as one. But I give no shits. I've had much better experiences of dating men here than on pof. "

Hi ,Your profile says you're not looking for single guys..so how do you date men from here if that's the case ??..how does that work ?...just wondering is all..

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I was on POF, signed up ..then next time l went to log on ,the " password/username incorrect " etc etc line kept coming up ,which was a load of crap ,cause l know them off by heart ..so l'd open a new account and lo and behold ..the exact same thing happens..all the time ...and that's the truth..the whole truth and nothing but the truth ..l just couldn't phatom it out why it always did it ,honest ,I'd open an account then go to log in the next time and it wouldn't let me ... everytime.

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By *he English OneMan  over a year ago

west


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman. "

I won't lie I've seen a few on the dating site I use but I let's them be don't call them out or anything might go chatting to them alright but never bring up fab unless they did

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman. "

Set up a kik A see what happens..you might get 1 or 2 genuine

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By *reddieRaeCouple  over a year ago

Banbridge

We met on PoF nearly 11 years and 2 kids ago.

I was having a series of one night and short flings after my ex wife left (there were very few lonely nights on PoF to be honest!) Then I got message from an angel on the north coast. Que 4 hour round trips to take her for dinner 3/4 times a week and moved in to mine a few months later.... Never looked back!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman.

Set up a kik A see what happens..you might get 1 or 2 genuine "

Mmmm sounds great

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By *ere_for_goodtime2019Man  over a year ago

north down

I am on pof, and only use it for dating and clean chat shall we say. Been on few months now

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Beautyful Swinger212 bring a kik group maybe is good that

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman. "

All dating sites are the same, Full of picky lonely undecided dreamers, who think that they know what they want. They will keep dating, dumping, dating dumping, dating being dumped, and so forth... Delete their accounts and return, and repeat all again, over and over in most cases... I know because I have been there... And there again, and I always see the same people there, year after year...

So, yes I did some good contacts(which some disappeared, and I know why), so for now one of them I will do everything to keep her... But I can't force, so all I can do ir just let it be, be loyal, supportive, drama free and a good listener... That's the goal number one... And no , I personally don't give a second chance if I matched the person once in the past, and I sent a message and there wasn't any answer in the past... It kept happening that some of them match again few months later because they weren't successful with the past bad choice, and match with me later... Fck no, she/they will do the se with me, so fck them desperate undecided girls... ALL I can say is " missed, you only get one chance(in my head)"... Sorry for the language, sometime nice colourful words does not work, so someone has to say it...

So good luck...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So who is on a dating site and how are you getting on?

Do you keep your intentions separate? I know for me on POF I purposely don't entertain any sexual comments just to see how things go and as of yet I've not accepted a 3rd date or I get blocked as they think I'm a prude..... Little do they know!!!

For me I'm finding it really hard to find an actual true gentleman.

All dating sites are the same, Full of picky lonely undecided dreamers, who think that they know what they want. They will keep dating, dumping, dating dumping, dating being dumped, and so forth... Delete their accounts and return, and repeat all again, over and over in most cases... I know because I have been there... And there again, and I always see the same people there, year after year...

So, yes I did some good contacts(which some disappeared, and I know why), so for now one of them I will do everything to keep her... But I can't force, so all I can do ir just let it be, be loyal, supportive, drama free and a good listener... That's the goal number one... And no , I personally don't give a second chance if I matched the person once in the past, and I sent a message and there wasn't any answer in the past... It kept happening that some of them match again few months later because they weren't successful with the past bad choice, and match with me later... Fck no, she/they will do the se with me, so fck them desperate undecided girls... ALL I can say is " missed, you only get one chance(in my head)"... Sorry for the language, sometime nice colourful words does not work, so someone has to say it...

So good luck..."

Loads of predators there too...

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Dating apps are so hard what frustrates more is the amount I’ve seen that I’ve had dates with turn up on here and I never knew.

At least with here ya know what you’re getting they’re most likely already verified and you see pics so no disappointments lol whilst i know this site isn’t a dating site I would be open to meeting someone here.

Yes you’re having to worry if they’re still on here if you’ve agreed to come off but ultimately that’s were trust has to be built they could still remain on any app but if ye are both in it ya have to try.

And if you’re feeling that you can’t trust them that’s the major indicator not to be in a relationship with them fullstop.

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By *ary-JaneWoman  over a year ago

mid ulster

That's amazing. Love to hear story's like this.

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By *occiMan  over a year ago

Co Down

Have the 3 main apps on the phone, maybe click in to them at a weekend these days, as said do see some familiar faces, one in particular I first spoke with on here, swapped face pics etc, got on then she deleted the profile, now keep seeing her profile on the apps so assuming she is looking something serious so have never messaged her them as would seem a bit weird surely?

Saying that would still love some fun with her haha

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Have the 3 main apps on the phone, maybe click in to them at a weekend these days, as said do see some familiar faces, one in particular I first spoke with on here, swapped face pics etc, got on then she deleted the profile, now keep seeing her profile on the apps so assuming she is looking something serious so have never messaged her them as would seem a bit weird surely?

Saying that would still love some fun with her haha "

Go mail her what you got to lose.

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By *occiMan  over a year ago

Co Down

Went looking her profile on pof there but can't find it haha always the way, I'll keep an eye out for her again

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Went looking her profile on pof there but can't find it haha always the way, I'll keep an eye out for her again "

She may be in here best of luck.

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By *man79Man  over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

I’m on every dating site because there’s never enough women for Bman79

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By *ere_for_goodtime2019Man  over a year ago

north down

Pof has it good points and bad, just like here. You will always gind rude or judgemental people.

I have had few great dates threw pof, and i dont bring up fab with pof members

Tho i have seen members on both sites

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m on every dating site because there’s never enough women for Bman79 "

Thats cause your the man slut

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By *man79Man  over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint


"I’m on every dating site because there’s never enough women for Bman79

Thats cause your the man slut "

I’m a nice man slut!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Any kik groups kildarejohn kik

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I’m on every dating site because there’s never enough women for Bman79

Thats cause your the man slut

I’m a nice man slut!! "

You know I'm joking. Your special

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