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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you think that you are ever poisoned for life?
I have always been into being loyal and finding a person that we can trust, be loyal to eachother and enjoy life as the majority of old-fashioned people do, I know maybe that is how many of them give the impression to others. And they do seem extremely happy and manage all ups and downs, I do love this concept, so hats off form them Alphas.
But, now that I am on my pinnacle of my amazing life(actually, almost there), with so many woman around. But some of them assume to be monogamous, yes I do like being monogamous if possible. Although, I at the moment I am not monogamous, now two ladies that I am flirting with are monogamous. So the thing is, if everything goes well, then I will have to put all my cards on the table and tell my honest non monogamous story before I go with one of them to bed... Yes, I can manage well my life without swinging, but I do like it.
Yes I am honest regardless of anyone's opinion...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely. There is no way on earth I would ever have a vanilla relationship.
That being said - there are many levels of non monogamy and different people may see it from very different perspectives.
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I could go back to vanilla tomorrow, it doesnt bother me at all, its just sex.
I am going on a date this weekend with this hottie, and she doesnt like to be spanked, or rough sex, or gang bangs, so if it goes well with her, then thats it for me, no kinky shit anymore.
If she didnt like sex, then I would stop having sex.
Dont see what the big deal is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Every relationship involves compromise, it's a question of priorities. And don't forget, right now you are young and sex is a driving force for you, a time will most likely come when it will not be so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I don't think I could ever go back to total vanilla. I don't think I'd need to swing or go to parties or have gangbangs or anything. Not with the right man. But I think I'd always need that dominance from a man and the playfulness that kink brings. |
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"Vanilla life can be great, as far there is no drama and both are super mature "
Yes but also its not very mature to say "We have been arguing for a week now, so Ill go out and slip it in some stranger I met on the internet who doesnt mind fucking a guy cheating on his wife/gf, and if she does mind it, I'll just lie and say I am single". |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was recently had a the pleasure of chatting with a man who was married for over sixty years. During the course of our conversation he told me the secret to being happily married for such a long period of time.
"Marriage is about give and take, I give and she takes"
He said this without a hint of irony or sarcasm- poor fella. |
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