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How do you get your meets?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?
I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've never met anyone from a kik group thy have all come viva fab first ..."
I spoke to a lady who joined fab from a kik group. I was on kik groups before but find it very hard to get to know someone, they are non stop. |
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I never met anyone via Kik. I just wait in the long grass here for people to pass by, then I pounce. I don't use any other app... Maybe I should... Usually, being active on the forums draws some interest, then a bit of chat, and perhaps a meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My fab contacts have all been from here first through Messages or forum ,then if anything develops further ,chat on Kik,..was on a Kik group once had to leave it ,was driving me crazy, definitely not for me . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It starts with some interesting for here and it may move too chatting on a kik group before a meet is arranged. I find the kik groups are better too get to know someone rather that the process of massaging back and forth from here. Personally I prefer to get to know a person first before meeting and with the group's ppl interact more so you get a better feel for a person and how they act inn a group that just a one to one msg. I guess everyone is different but I would like to have a few causal social coffee meets with ppl just to put a face to ppl and chat without any expectations. I think if ppl click then they click and that's a good thing. Is the casual side gone out of it a bit now with ppl over thinking things too much ? Or is it something else. Idk but hey.... id be keen for coffee anytime |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
All my meets have come from here from pms which have moved to messaging apps. Or from the forums where something someone has said has caught my eye I'll usually send a wink or a message and we get chatting if we keep chatting and get on then we meet at some stage when we can arrange it.
The forums I find are good to see who is genuine and who to avoid as well.  |
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"I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?
I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups?"
Just Fab for me, I find joining a random Kik group is messy plus you can't nail down a conversation with a specific person. Then again, I've yet to go to my first social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's so difficult to get a meet everyone. I was actually let down twice last night when ladies had originally agreed the venue and all. They just never turned up without an explanation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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All my meets bar one has been from pm's on fab. I did meet one guy from a group chat but he had tried on fab beforehand where I said no. Got to see his personality a bit more in group chat so agreed to a meet.
Much prefer fab pm's. |
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By *onzo1880Man
over a year ago
Tyrone, Ireland |
Mainly Fab as well. Been a member of a few Kik groups and have left as it was just too much bother keeping up with them...especially when working!
Thought chatting to ones before and it seems a lot more interaction is happening via Kik groups? |
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I have two meets this weekend but neither are from this site.
They are not from any site, I can just get meets walking down the road or walking into a shopping center.
I had a meet from a different site during the week, but she said there was no spark, which was the feeling i was going for cause I thought they might want to hang around with me a bit and not just have sex,So I turned the charm down to level 1 or 2 instead of 10... but they only wanted sex, so we wont be meeting again.
I'd hate to have to be nice on here just to get sex. It would depress me. |
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I definitely prefer to chat on kik to get to know people.
Most of our fun has came from attending socials and parties.
I like it better that way. I feel awkward meeting one person. But hata my own preference.
Roxy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know what sometimes it is just easier to actually go out and meet ppl for real. Ive had a few meets from just meeting randomness in the pub. They never tell me no dic pics they pretty much always reply instantly and they look exactly as they looked before I got chatting to them. She may have lied about her age now granted but that was the lest of my worries.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When I had our couple profile it was 80% from cam chat.
Being yourself on forums helps also.
Messages with one liners like the usual "hi how are ye" etc etc were just deleted..
If we ever sent a message we made it personalised to the person we spoke to.
That is the one key thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tend to keep a very small circle of dependable men I met thru messaging here. Don't use any other platform. Find fab is good for all stages of a meet from first contact to hotel details .works well for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’m curious how do people get their ‘fun’ meets? Is it from first meeting at socials? From random messaging on here? Or from kik groups?
I’ll go first. All my meets have been from PMs here. I’m curious do people actually meet from kik groups?"
In my case is a long journey from forum to social meet. Just 4 ended with fun 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Oblivious one fab others kik pof xham twitter mixture of sites being honest here is definitely the most secure when it boils down to genuine people.
xham? "
xham is a porn site, can create profiles on it too |
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