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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Heya folks so we have been to alot of meet and greets chatting with you lovely people and we have been getting the same feedback from them all not what we expect!! Expected play!! So we are putting the idea out there to see if we get enough interest we will organise our own one would there be any intrest in a meet and greet with a twist a specially prepared place for the option of play... so there would be the normal meet and greet but there will be a different place for play! What is your opinion folks x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Vanilla club in Dublin as well as Red velvet club - two established clubs with fully set up play areas. (Only two I can think of off the top of my head)
As far as m&g events go - I've yet to see one advertised as anything else but a social.
Play parties where play is expected are also advertised as such.
Now that said - it is beyond frustrating to organizers when they do everything they can to get a message across that no play is to take place at meet and greet socials yet their inboxes are still full of messages along the lines "is this a sex party?" "Is there play areas", "will I get to have sex?", "will I get a bj?".
Now all above being said - even if you attend a play party - never expect that anyone must play with you without their consent.
If and when you are organizing a play party - don't expect everybody being involved in play with just anyone. Those kinds of things only happen between closed doors among people who all know each other, who most likely have previously met at a social meet and greet.
Best of luck. |
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i think a better explanation is needed. i can only assume that you would host the M&G at a regular bar/club and possibly have a near by hotel suite or air b&b for those who wanna play?
not sure if your aware, but we are looking to open a full-time club in the north west and im currently running a club viability survey, PM us if you'd like to see the results |
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"i think a better explanation is needed. i can only assume that you would host the M&G at a regular bar/club and possibly have a near by hotel suite or air b&b for those who wanna play?
not sure if your aware, but we are looking to open a full-time club in the north west and im currently running a club viability survey, PM us if you'd like to see the results"
That's kinda what I was thinking. People moving between locations late and night with hotel staff watching would be problematic at best. Airbnb might work but you have nosy neighbours to think about. Tricky. |
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over a year ago
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We are actually thinking about a big house with sheds and we would have a person there to put music on and there be either a bring your own bottle option or a pay in option and we would supply the drink the meet and greet would be down stairs or out in the sheds and the play area would be in the bedrooms x |
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over a year ago
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I think the idea of sub letting Vanilla or RVC may be beatxasctheyvare set up & dontvrun every weekend...I'm sure a sharing option could be arranged re door & bar money. |
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I enquired once about having a birthday party at the vanilla club and i was told that i had to have at least 30 people and that they would charge the normal entry fee and would keep all profits from the nite i dont see why people just cant go out have a normal nite out at the meet and greet talk to people and hopefully get a few numbers to arrange to meet again for fun there can be a social side to fab as well it doesnt always gave to be about getting your leg over think people need to look up what the word swinging means and to all the organisers out there i think they do a wonderful job trying to put these nites together and should be reconized for the hard work that they put in just my thoughts lol |
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"I enquired once about having a birthday party at the vanilla club and i was told that i had to have at least 30 people and that they would charge the normal entry fee and would keep all profits from the nite i dont see why people just cant go out have a normal nite out at the meet and greet talk to people and hopefully get a few numbers to arrange to meet again for fun there can be a social side to fab as well it doesnt always gave to be about getting your leg over think people need to look up what the word swinging means and to all the organisers out there i think they do a wonderful job trying to put these nites together and should be reconized for the hard work that they put in just my thoughts lol"
Why would you book somewhere that can hold a lot more than 30 for a birthday party of less than 30,?? There are easier options than that. |
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when we finalise our new venue it will be available for individuals or couples to hire. Google hedonismni and join our mailing list. Renting a purpose venue is a lot easier and all purpose venues have social areas. Stay in touch as we’re looking to reopen soon |
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I used to be a member of a group on a different site and every few months we would rent a house out for the weekend from Friday night to sun night or Mon morning.
Friday night was everyone getting to know each other and sorting out beds there was always a few camp beds needed.
Saturday was great as we all had breakfast dinner together and Saturday night was snacks and drinks and play.i was able to be fully Stacy and a few others dressed fully in pvc or rubber the whole weekend. We all brought food drinks and snacks and paid around £30 each.
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"I used to be a member of a group on a different site and every few months we would rent a house out for the weekend from Friday night to sun night or Mon morning.
Friday night was everyone getting to know each other and sorting out beds there was always a few camp beds needed.
Saturday was great as we all had breakfast dinner together and Saturday night was snacks and drinks and play.i was able to be fully Stacy and a few others dressed fully in pvc or rubber the whole weekend. We all brought food drinks and snacks and paid around £30 each.
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Sounds like awesome fun. Wouldnt call it a meet and greet tho. |
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"Actually easier to get into the CIA then that plc!@ He was looking for Real name, real email, full frontal nude body pic with face pic!!!@ that wS just to register!!!! Wtf like!!   "
Presume you're taking about the m&g at the club formerly known as ikandi |
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i think the quality of any club or social will be reflected in the price. play parties range from the €40 per couple of vanilla to the €130 for killing kittens ... price is also about what u include and what ur clientele expect with the admission. |
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"I enquired once about having a birthday party at the vanilla club and i was told that i had to have at least 30 people and that they would charge the normal entry fee and would keep all profits from the nite i dont see why people just cant go out have a normal nite out at the meet and greet talk to people and hopefully get a few numbers to arrange to meet again for fun there can be a social side to fab as well it doesnt always gave to be about getting your leg over think people need to look up what the word swinging means and to all the organisers out there i think they do a wonderful job trying to put these nites together and should be reconized for the hard work that they put in just my thoughts lol"
as alot of the fun happens at the afters parties, then possibly a venue with a nearby hotel suits..of course booking a function room in a very large hotel is also an option & those going to the M&G have the option to stay at the hotel, going to their rooms for fun whenever they want |
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"Actually easier to get into the CIA then that plc!@ He was looking for Real name, real email, full frontal nude body pic with face pic!!!@ that wS just to register!!!! Wtf like!!
Presume you're taking about the m&g at the club formerly known as ikandi"
Yep thats the one! #notionstheyhave |
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"I enquired once about having a birthday party at the vanilla club and i was told that i had to have at least 30 people and that they would charge the normal entry fee and would keep all profits from the nite i dont see why people just cant go out have a normal nite out at the meet and greet talk to people and hopefully get a few numbers to arrange to meet again for fun there can be a social side to fab as well it doesnt always gave to be about getting your leg over think people need to look up what the word swinging means and to all the organisers out there i think they do a wonderful job trying to put these nites together and should be reconized for the hard work that they put in just my thoughts lol
as alot of the fun happens at the afters parties, then possibly a venue with a nearby hotel suits..of course booking a function room in a very large hotel is also an option & those going to the M&G have the option to stay at the hotel, going to their rooms for fun whenever they want"
Not that's easy. I've been at meet and greets in hotels and there have been staff and security stopping people from bringing guests to rooms. |
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"Actually easier to get into the CIA then that plc!@ He was looking for Real name, real email, full frontal nude body pic with face pic!!!@ that wS just to register!!!! Wtf like!!
Presume you're taking about the m&g at the club formerly known as ikandi
Yep thats the one! #notionstheyhave"
That's ridiculous. No wonder that place never gets any attention. |
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"Actually easier to get into the CIA then that plc!@ He was looking for Real name, real email, full frontal nude body pic with face pic!!!@ that wS just to register!!!! Wtf like!!
Presume you're taking about the m&g at the club formerly known as ikandi
Yep thats the one! #notionstheyhave
That's ridiculous. No wonder that place never gets any attention."
It's not just the "entry" criteria is the reason |
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"No it would be a well thought out event we will put alot of thought into this "
We did this in November 2018 over a full weekend, the venue alone cost in excess of £1000.00 to hire for the weekend as most large houses are only available for a full weekend. There was also a sizable security deposit to be paid as well, which was refundable after 7 days provided that there was no damage. |
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