Every woman I have been with has had the ability to gush, but none have squirted.
So I'm not sure all women can, infact I'm 99.9% not all women can but I'd be lying if I said I was an expert on this. |
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From my own personal experience I was adamant I was not a squirter many have tried and failed. Most to the point it was hurting. I don't think I was ever comfortable enough to let go something was holding me back. But at Christmas a very patient and kind gentleman that I trust immensely managed to make me do it. It was so damn hot. Now it happens to me all the time it's like he managed to switch a button. My body now recognises when to let go. I am very grateful to his kind wife and dear friend of mine who said I should borrow her husband's magical fingers. |
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"From my own personal experience I was adamant I was not a squirter many have tried and failed. Most to the point it was hurting. I don't think I was ever comfortable enough to let go something was holding me back. But at Christmas a very patient and kind gentleman that I trust immensely managed to make me do it. It was so damn hot. Now it happens to me all the time it's like he managed to switch a button. My body now recognises when to let go. I am very grateful to his kind wife and dear friend of mine who said I should borrow her husband's magical fingers. "
My ex-wife didn't feel comfortable in letting go, I think she may have had the ability to squirt but we never got that far. When it came to gushing she felt embarrassed (personally I thought it was hot as fuck) so I was never going to be allowed to see if she could squirt. |
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Thanks for sharing your experience. In my life i had the pleasure to be with 3 ladies who squirt a lot, it was so beautiful to drink their "milk". They told that their orgasm were more intensive when squirting. |
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"Thanks for sharing your experience. In my life i had the pleasure to be with 3 ladies who squirt a lot, it was so beautiful to drink their "milk". They told that their orgasm were more intensive when squirting. "
I've always fancied having a woman squirt on my face, maybe one day!
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By *ornyyyy OP Man
over a year ago
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Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL |
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"Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL "
Im no expert but lol sounds like she is just about to squirt |
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"I know and I told her that but she think she going to piss every where I think I may the her up the next time we have time to ourselves so she can't stop "
Get her nice and relaxed and don't even mention the squirting. I used to feel pressure to be able to do it and that just makes it stressful. Have some towels etc on hand to deal with any mess. I was a bit emotional and embarrassed the first few times as it's a totally different feeling to experience. So lots of hugs and reassurance how hot you find it |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL "
Try it somewhere that she’s not worried about the mess she makes and have plenty of towels ready  |
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"Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL
Try it somewhere that she’s not worried about the mess she makes and have plenty of towels ready "
I agree find a place where she isnt worried about soaking.
I can only gush I'd love to squirt tho. |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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I dont think I started to gush/squirt until my mid 30s I felt comfortable enough to let go and trust my partner with what he was doing and the outcome.... amazing but I find its not something you can control or that maybe every woman can do, I dont really know I do know comfort is key, and it's not something she can control sometimes it happens and sometimes not being well well hydrated does help.. but as everyone has said above make sure she feels comfortable and be ready for whatever outcome when she does let go and assure her it's all good. Happy practising ?? |
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can some one explain the difference between gush & squirt...I have been lucky enough to box with women who said they squirted & the evidence was there to feel & taste...so how is gush different or is it just a different name for squirting |
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"I dont think I started to gush/squirt until my mid 30s I felt comfortable enough to let go and trust my partner with what he was doing and the outcome.... amazing but I find its not something you can control or that maybe every woman can do, I dont really know I do know comfort is key, and it's not something she can control sometimes it happens and sometimes not being well well hydrated does help.. but as everyone has said above make sure she feels comfortable and be ready for whatever outcome when she does let go and assure her it's all good. Happy practising ??"
Such an accurate description. Have to agree with everything said above  |
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By *oandFroCouple
over a year ago
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"can some one explain the difference between gush & squirt...I have been lucky enough to box with women who said they squirted & the evidence was there to feel & taste...so how is gush different or is it just a different name for squirting"
I'm no sexpert but gush to me is like just a little squirt
.. but that's just how I would differentiate... also I find when I start to gush its then when he keeps going and does what he does best that I start to squirt I think the right partner will always no when there is more there to come. X |
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"can some one explain the difference between gush & squirt...I have been lucky enough to box with women who said they squirted & the evidence was there to feel & taste...so how is gush different or is it just a different name for squirting
I'm no sexpert but gush to me is like just a little squirt
.. but that's just how I would differentiate... also I find when I start to gush its then when he keeps going and does what he does best that I start to squirt I think the right partner will always no when there is more there to come. X"
Thanks... so gush is like the starter, the appetiser  |
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over a year ago
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"can some one explain the difference between gush & squirt...I have been lucky enough to box with women who said they squirted & the evidence was there to feel & taste...so how is gush different or is it just a different name for squirting
I'm no sexpert but gush to me is like just a little squirt
.. but that's just how I would differentiate... also I find when I start to gush its then when he keeps going and does what he does best that I start to squirt I think the right partner will always no when there is more there to come. X
Thanks... so gush is like the starter, the appetiser "
Yes that's exactly what I would think of it as...xxx
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"Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL
Try it somewhere that she’s not worried about the mess she makes and have plenty of towels ready "
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By *vy14Woman
over a year ago
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As a fellow squirter and gusher it's a very different story with each woman but I believe every woman has the ability. The secret is to completely let go relax all your muscles down there and yes it kinda feels like your going to pee but it's actually the beginning of the squirt. Also when you do squirt when you orgasim at the same time it is much more intense it's such a lovely feeling |
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"Yes, you just need to relax, it's pee. Your brain tries to stop you but just pee it all out  "
This. It's been proven via ultrasound scans. Not sure why this discussion still happens.
At the end of the day it doesnt make any difference. If you enjoy it then play on! |
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"Yes, you just need to relax, it's pee. Your brain tries to stop you but just pee it all out
This. It's been proven via ultrasound scans. Not sure why this discussion still happens.
At the end of the day it doesnt make any difference. If you enjoy it then play on!"
Or piss on  |
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"Nope never squirted and not really bothered either by that fact
It's not the be all, once fun is had fun is fun and enjoying it all is the key. Xxx"
This
OP you haven't said whether you are trying for the squirt through fingers/toys/sex.
Do clarify.
Also, ask your partner to go relieve herself in loo before sex. This can sometimes be the blocker, as if she knows that she recently peed, she's less likely to think she's now peeing again, so may help her relax and let go.
As others have said, towels down, or a tiled area, may also help her to release but it should never be the main goal.
Orgasms and fun are the objectives, not squirting.
On a side note,maybe you could let her milk your prostate, the male version of squirting effectively, which may also give her confidence to let go in her own squirting.
It's another avenue that might help |
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"Yes, you just need to relax, it's pee. Your brain tries to stop you but just pee it all out
This. It's been proven via ultrasound scans. Not sure why this discussion still happens.
At the end of the day it doesnt make any difference. If you enjoy it then play on!"
Think it's too much for some people to handle. They prefer imagining some special squirting gland and much rather change everything we know about human anatomy than live with a fact that someone may have made them sprinkle some pee and they enjoyed it |
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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve only squirted a handful of times and it’s still pretty new to me. But I have to say that I don’t really get what all the fuss is about. I much prefer my regular orgasms any day. I get more of a release from those than when I squirt. I would have no problem if I never squirted again. Lol |
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"I’ve only squirted a handful of times and it’s still pretty new to me. But I have to say that I don’t really get what all the fuss is about. I much prefer my regular orgasms any day. I get more of a release from those than when I squirt. I would have no problem if I never squirted again. Lol"
yess same. |
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This is by someone else on another site. I can provide a link to the original if required.
Female ejaculation is not urine, it is PSA (prostatic acid phosphatase) and also usually contains a type of sugar called fructose. Which is why it might also have a sweet taste to those who have experienced it. Both PSA and fructose are also present in male semen.
PSA comes from the Skene's glands that are located next to a woman's G-spot, and are connected to the urethra. When a women is sexually aroused, the liquid accumulates in the bladder, and is later expelled during ejaculation, or urination.
It is believed that all women experience ejaculation, but not all women notice it, or squirt during sex. Many expel the liquid later during urination.
Female ejaculate is not pee. It is a combination of PSA and fructose. But squirt can be both, if the woman's bladder is not empty before she becomes aroused. |
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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago
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I don't get the obsession with squirting and I truly dislike the finger fiddling until you produce. It's nice when it happens through intercourse but always remember it doesn't mean the woman had an orgasm. They can occur simultaneously but most of the time they don't. |
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"This is by someone else on another site. I can provide a link to the original if required.
Female ejaculation is not urine, it is PSA (prostatic acid phosphatase) and also usually contains a type of sugar called fructose. Which is why it might also have a sweet taste to those who have experienced it. Both PSA and fructose are also present in male semen.
PSA comes from the Skene's glands that are located next to a woman's G-spot, and are connected to the urethra. When a women is sexually aroused, the liquid accumulates in the bladder, and is later expelled during ejaculation, or urination.
It is believed that all women experience ejaculation, but not all women notice it, or squirt during sex. Many expel the liquid later during urination.
Female ejaculate is not pee. It is a combination of PSA and fructose. But squirt can be both, if the woman's bladder is not empty before she becomes aroused."
The amount of women who say it’s urine is staggering .... clueless |
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"I don't get the obsession with squirting and I truly dislike the finger fiddling until you produce. It's nice when it happens through intercourse but always remember it doesn't mean the woman had an orgasm. They can occur simultaneously but most of the time they don't. "
Agree. Big fuss over a big mess lol. Id prefer a full on orgasm any day |
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"I don't get the obsession with squirting and I truly dislike the finger fiddling until you produce. It's nice when it happens through intercourse but always remember it doesn't mean the woman had an orgasm. They can occur simultaneously but most of the time they don't.
Agree. Big fuss over a big mess lol. Id prefer a full on orgasm any day"
Well, if it's a big mess, then she may have actually peed herself.
Yeah, way too much concentration on squirting these days, as a result of porn, unfortunately.
Hey folks, if it happens, it happens.
If it doesn't, are you going to stop what you're doing?
Not if you know what you're doing, interested in both your enjoyment and love playing together.
Forget specifics and just play and enjoy |
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"I don't get the obsession with squirting and I truly dislike the finger fiddling until you produce. It's nice when it happens through intercourse but always remember it doesn't mean the woman had an orgasm. They can occur simultaneously but most of the time they don't.
Agree. Big fuss over a big mess lol. Id prefer a full on orgasm any day
Well, if it's a big mess, then she may have actually peed herself.
Yeah, way too much concentration on squirting these days, as a result of porn, unfortunately.
Hey folks, if it happens, it happens.
If it doesn't, are you going to stop what you're doing?
Not if you know what you're doing, interested in both your enjoyment and love playing together.
Forget specifics and just play and enjoy "
i agree with the concentration about squirting part. when i was single and told guys i was a squirter they went out of their way to make me squirt like it was their only goal in life. only pissed me off and made me sore to be honest. |
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"Can all woman squirt my wife and I have tried and she gets so far but can handle it and I have to stop "
look up a US porn director called seymore butts. he has a tutorial online to show men how to make women squirt. he really goes out of his way to show how important patience and tenderness are to making it happen |
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Look at the following peer reviewed research paper...
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality.
Salama S, et al. J Sex Med. 2015
"METHODS: Seven women, without gynecologic abnormalities and who reported recurrent and massive fluid emission during sexual stimulation, underwent provoked sexual arousal. Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting. Urea, creatinine, uric acid, and prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) concentrations were assessed in urinary samples before sexual stimulation (BSU) and after squirting (ASU), and squirting sample itself (S).
RESULTS: In all participants, US1 confirmed thorough bladder emptiness. After a variable time of sexual excitation, US2 (just before squirting) showed noticeable bladder filling, and US3 (just after squirting) demonstrated that the bladder had been emptied again. Biochemical analysis of BSU, S, and ASU showed comparable urea, creatinine, and uric acid concentrations in all participants. Yet, whereas PSA was not detected in BSU in six out of seven participants, this antigen was present in S and ASU in five out of seven participants.
CONCLUSIONS: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists." |
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"Look at the following peer reviewed research paper...
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality.
Salama S, et al. J Sex Med. 2015
"METHODS: Seven women, without gynecologic abnormalities and who reported recurrent and massive fluid emission during sexual stimulation, underwent provoked sexual arousal. Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting. Urea, creatinine, uric acid, and prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) concentrations were assessed in urinary samples before sexual stimulation (BSU) and after squirting (ASU), and squirting sample itself (S).
RESULTS: In all participants, US1 confirmed thorough bladder emptiness. After a variable time of sexual excitation, US2 (just before squirting) showed noticeable bladder filling, and US3 (just after squirting) demonstrated that the bladder had been emptied again. Biochemical analysis of BSU, S, and ASU showed comparable urea, creatinine, and uric acid concentrations in all participants. Yet, whereas PSA was not detected in BSU in six out of seven participants, this antigen was present in S and ASU in five out of seven participants.
CONCLUSIONS: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.""
Mmmmm science....sexy....
Here lads does anyone know where I can get a portable ultrasound yoke |
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"Look at the following peer reviewed research paper...
Nature and origin of "squirting" in female sexuality.
Salama S, et al. J Sex Med. 2015
"METHODS: Seven women, without gynecologic abnormalities and who reported recurrent and massive fluid emission during sexual stimulation, underwent provoked sexual arousal. Pelvic ultrasound scans were performed after voluntary urination (US1), and during sexual stimulation just before (US2) and after (US3) squirting. Urea, creatinine, uric acid, and prostatic-specific antigen (PSA) concentrations were assessed in urinary samples before sexual stimulation (BSU) and after squirting (ASU), and squirting sample itself (S).
RESULTS: In all participants, US1 confirmed thorough bladder emptiness. After a variable time of sexual excitation, US2 (just before squirting) showed noticeable bladder filling, and US3 (just after squirting) demonstrated that the bladder had been emptied again. Biochemical analysis of BSU, S, and ASU showed comparable urea, creatinine, and uric acid concentrations in all participants. Yet, whereas PSA was not detected in BSU in six out of seven participants, this antigen was present in S and ASU in five out of seven participants.
CONCLUSIONS: The present data based on ultrasonographic bladder monitoring and biochemical analyses indicate that squirting is essentially the involuntary emission of urine during sexual activity, although a marginal contribution of prostatic secretions to the emitted fluid often exists.""
Ah shut up and put your science in a bin. Some men tasted it. It's not urine 
Some men, who tasted it, told their girlfriends that it's not urine, so now women are convinced too.
Cosmopolitan said it's not urine fs
Who cares about actual scans!
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I have to take a antibiotic before sex as I am prone to kidney infections. It turns my urine bright green. My sheets have yet to look like the aftermath of a St Patrick's Day Parade! Maybe it's pee maybe it's not I don't think it's important. |
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"I have to take a antibiotic before sex as I am prone to kidney infections. It turns my urine bright green. My sheets have yet to look like the aftermath of a St Patrick's Day Parade! Maybe it's pee maybe it's not I don't think it's important. "
Well thats the forums Paddys day challange sorted at least |
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"I have to take a antibiotic before sex as I am prone to kidney infections. It turns my urine bright green. My sheets have yet to look like the aftermath of a St Patrick's Day Parade! Maybe it's pee maybe it's not I don't think it's important.
Well thats the forums Paddys day challange sorted at least"
Will you come dressed up like St Patrick and banish me over and over again. Is that a snake in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me |
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"I have to take a antibiotic before sex as I am prone to kidney infections. It turns my urine bright green. My sheets have yet to look like the aftermath of a St Patrick's Day Parade! Maybe it's pee maybe it's not I don't think it's important.
Well thats the forums Paddys day challange sorted at least
Will you come dressed up like St Patrick and banish me over and over again. Is that a snake in your pocket or are you just pleased to see me "
I bet you’d rattle the Snakes lol |
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"Thanks for all your input as I said my wife and I had tried she gets to the point where she feels the need to pee and then she stop me say she can take it anymore she shout out I'm goin to wee myself LOL "
Tell her to push past that urge to pee. It's v counter intuitive but once she does it the first time, she'll find it really easy.
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Re the pee question - you can find a study to "prove" pretty much anything these days. Methodology matters but online media doesn't take that into account and the results of sub-standard science get thrown around like they're gospel. I don't know all that much about this, but I know enough to not believe something just cos a study says it's true.
I've tasted my own and other women's. It's not pee. |
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"Re the pee question - you can find a study to "prove" pretty much anything these days. Methodology matters but online media doesn't take that into account and the results of sub-standard science get thrown around like they're gospel. I don't know all that much about this, but I know enough to not believe something just cos a study says it's true.
I've tasted my own and other women's. It's not pee. "
I have also been lucky enough to taste & I never found it tasted of or like pee |
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Now, regarding the act itself ...lots of kissing, tactile teasing and foreplay first with a long slow build up in a cozy environment where the focus is on mutual pleasuring 
as opposed to an outcome of getting her to squirt...
...Main thing is have fun you crazy kids! 
