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"Im on tinder and bumble. POF is a waste of time" I'd counter that Bumble is a waste of time, barely chatted to anyone on that, had more success on POF but you have to shift through a lot of Catfish, only drawback | |||
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"I am not on facebook so cant do tinder, What is bumble?" You can sign up with your phone number. | |||
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"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime? "Pretty much summed up haha  | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime?
Pretty much summed up haha "Does it not take two to talk? Some are listeners, some are conversationalists, much like anywhere, even here. We can rise or lower ourselves to the level of a message. The skill is piquing the other persons interest. On here it's easy for women as they don't need to try to hard in the conversation department as there's always another 50 guys eager and chomping at the bit to impress. Not everyone is looking for conversation either. Many are here to quickly arrange a meet without fuss, so there's opportunity for all types, eloquent or not. As someone already, Badoo is quite good. | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime? "But sure do you not want to chat and see how things go? 
Oh God I'm actually clutching my side laughing here. | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime?
Pretty much summed up haha
Does it not take two to talk?
Some are listeners, some are conversationalists, much like anywhere, even here. We can rise or lower ourselves to the level of a message. The skill is piquing the other persons interest.
On here it's easy for women as they don't need to try to hard in the conversation department as there's always another 50 guys eager and chomping at the bit to impress.
Not everyone is looking for conversation either. Many are here to quickly arrange a meet without fuss, so there's opportunity for all types, eloquent or not.
As someone already, Badoo is quite good."Conversations with internet strangers are like farts - if you have to force them - they will most likely end up being shit. 10000000% agree with you about making conversations with women, even I find it a thousand times harder. Altough did you notice how I didn't specify a gender with the small talk? I've had hundreds of exactly the same strings of small talk conversations with men and women. Lastly - some people naturally click and find common ground from the very first message. It happens! It's most definitely not a fantasy | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime? "As if you would have a problem meeting anyone on any of the lol  | |||
"...... Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime?
Pretty much summed up haha
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Does it not take two to talk?
Some are listeners, some are conversationalists, much like anywhere, even here. We can rise or lower ourselves to the level of messaging "As pointed out. Conversations are two way streets. I'm not calming to be be best conversationalist in the world. Even one person has to told me I'm very bad at it. But when people reply with one word answers they are just as guilty as the guy that sent the "hi how are you message" | |||
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"I was briefly on Pof but I left as Fabbers kept recognizing me from here. They thought because I was on Fab they could skip the getting to know you bit and just pop over for a ride. Ah I would occasionally like to have dinner and drinks "Same Rosy | |||
"I was briefly on Pof but I left as Fabbers kept recognizing me from here. They thought because I was on Fab they could skip the getting to know you bit and just pop over for a ride. Ah I would occasionally like to have dinner and drinks
Same Rosy "Sorry like..  | |||
"Badoo isn’t bad but pof and tinder are shite x " I second that regarding Badoo | |||
"Badoo is good, well I personally found it the best. Since joining Fab I'm no longer on dating sites." Exactly that | |||
"I was briefly on Pof but I left as Fabbers kept recognizing me from here. They thought because I was on Fab they could skip the getting to know you bit and just pop over for a ride. Ah I would occasionally like to have dinner and drinks
Same Rosy
Sorry like.. "Lol.. Think you know me quite well by now Davy baby  | |||
"I was briefly on Pof but I left as Fabbers kept recognizing me from here. They thought because I was on Fab they could skip the getting to know you bit and just pop over for a ride. Ah I would occasionally like to have dinner and drinks
Same Rosy "Nice wine and dine before you fuck  | |||
"I was briefly on Pof but I left as Fabbers kept recognizing me from here. They thought because I was on Fab they could skip the getting to know you bit and just pop over for a ride. Ah I would occasionally like to have dinner and drinks
Same Rosy
Nice wine and dine before you fuck "Eloquently put young man | |||
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"Too many of the women want sex on them." Ah yeah, feck that! | |||
"Too many of the women want sex on them." I don't want to fuck a woman whose standards are so low that she'll let me fuck her. It's a catch 22 situation. | |||
"Too many of the women want sex on them. I don't want to fuck a woman whose standards are so low that she'll let me fuck her. It's a catch 22 situation. "Exactly, if shes willing to have sex with me, shes one filthy little minx. | |||
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"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime?
Pretty much summed up haha
Does it not take two to talk?
Some are listeners, some are conversationalists, much like anywhere, even here. We can rise or lower ourselves to the level of a message. The skill is piquing the other persons interest.
On here it's easy for women as they don't need to try to hard in the conversation department as there's always another 50 guys eager and chomping at the bit to impress.
Not everyone is looking for conversation either. Many are here to quickly arrange a meet without fuss, so there's opportunity for all types, eloquent or not.
As someone already, Badoo is quite good.
Conversations with internet strangers are like farts - if you have to force them - they will most likely end up being shit.
10000000% agree with you about making conversations with women, even I find it a thousand times harder.
Altough did you notice how I didn't specify a gender with the small talk? I've had hundreds of exactly the same strings of small talk conversations with men and women.
Lastly - some people naturally click and find common ground from the very first message. It happens! It's most definitely not a fantasy "100% agree with this, we met online, a dating website, and hit it of right from the first message, things can click together, you never know when, or with who. | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime?
Pretty much summed up haha
Does it not take two to talk?
Some are listeners, some are conversationalists, much like anywhere, even here. We can rise or lower ourselves to the level of a message. The skill is piquing the other persons interest.
On here it's easy for women as they don't need to try to hard in the conversation department as there's always another 50 guys eager and chomping at the bit to impress.
Not everyone is looking for conversation either. Many are here to quickly arrange a meet without fuss, so there's opportunity for all types, eloquent or not.
As someone already, Badoo is quite good.
Conversations with internet strangers are like farts - if you have to force them - they will most likely end up being shit.
10000000% agree with you about making conversations with women, even I find it a thousand times harder.
Altough did you notice how I didn't specify a gender with the small talk? I've had hundreds of exactly the same strings of small talk conversations with men and women.
Lastly - some people naturally click and find common ground from the very first message. It happens! It's most definitely not a fantasy
100% agree with this, we met online, a dating website, and hit it of right from the first message, things can click together, you never know when, or with who."And sometimes it doesn't take many words. It's just there, the way they think. | |||
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"From my experience of POF & from reading the profiles the majority seem to like long walks on the beach, small country pubs, cosy nights in and drinking bottles of red wine. Nobody seems to be looking for ONS or nsa meets. It’s boring, Tinder works well abroad. " Two questions: Since when are men reading profiles?
So POF profile is good enough to actually read it but fab profile isn't? | |||
"From my experience of POF & from reading the profiles the majority seem to like long walks on the beach, small country pubs, cosy nights in and drinking bottles of red wine. Nobody seems to be looking for ONS or nsa meets. It’s boring, Tinder works well abroad. Two questions: Since when are men reading profiles?
So POF profile is good enough to actually read it but fab profile isn't? "Of course, we read everything that's put in front of us. Diligently too! And to answer your second question, almost 1am  | |||
"From my experience of POF & from reading the profiles the majority seem to like long walks on the beach, small country pubs, cosy nights in and drinking bottles of red wine. Nobody seems to be looking for ONS or nsa meets. It’s boring, Tinder works well abroad. Two questions: Since when are men reading profiles?
So POF profile is good enough to actually read it but fab profile isn't? "1. Since forever , the longer profile the better 2. POF is crap , full of bot profiles | |||
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"And the prize for Quote of the day goes to Missus for: Conversations with internet strangers are like farts - if you have to force them - they will most likely end up being shit. Love it "Here John Boi, you need to be careful with that carry on. I can hear the hooves of all the Fab White Knights coming over the hill. Oh wait....agghhhh..... they've caught me..... save yourself.... run!!!!! Run before they catch you too. How dare you make an honest statement. It's not fair. Nooooooo. | |||
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"From my experience of POF & from reading the profiles the majority seem to like long walks on the beach, small country pubs, cosy nights in and drinking bottles of red wine. Nobody seems to be looking for ONS or nsa meets. It’s boring, Tinder works well abroad. Two questions: Since when are men reading profiles?
So POF profile is good enough to actually read it but fab profile isn't? "I always read profile and try drop a bit into the 1st mail i sent to show read it, And yea if pof had singles meet and greet would do better | |||
"I've been on here and pof. Found pof to be a very lonely and boring place as all interactions on there are one on one and pretty much all of them starting with "hi", followed up by small polite talk for weeks on end going like: - hi - hi - how are you? - good. You? - good, thanks. Next day: - hi, how's your day going? - hi, good thanks. Yours? - Yes, all good. Next day: - hi, hope you have a nice day. - hi, yes you too. Next day: - hi, any plans for the weekend/christmas/holidays? - hi, yes working, what about you? - taking it easy. - nice one. 3 months later: - hi stranger, we've been chatting for so long now, would you like to meet up sometime? "Ugh gave me shivers reminding me of that crap | |||
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