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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I've seen lately a good few ladies and couples on here and the status's taking insults and abusive behaviour from men.. Listen you need to know these people doing it are showing themselves to be insecure and incapable of holding a proper conversation they are showing immaturity as this is childish behaviour. They are quite obviously of low intelligence and they are acting out stuff that's going on in their own lives that they are incapable of dealing with themselves. Block block block and move on.
This is something I'm passionate about as in years past I was subject to depression and suicide attempts. But I greatly studied and explored the subject for years and am involved now with a little help group.. So chins up people.. Talking is good. I would be delighted to talk to anyone. Have a wonderful day |
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"I've seen lately a good few ladies and couples on here and the status's taking insults and abusive behaviour from men.. Listen you need to know these people doing it are showing themselves to be insecure and incapable of holding a proper conversation they are showing immaturity as this is childish behaviour. They are quite obviously of low intelligence and they are acting out stuff that's going on in their own lives that they are incapable of dealing with themselves. Block block block and move on.
This is something I'm passionate about as in years past I was subject to depression and suicide attempts. But I greatly studied and explored the subject for years and am involved now with a little help group.. So chins up people.. Talking is good. I would be delighted to talk to anyone. Have a wonderful day "
Wise words.. We had a certain guy message a few days ago, having never conversed with him before, to say that he could get better down the farm.. 
You can just smell the twisted bitterness  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've seen lately a good few ladies and couples on here and the status's taking insults and abusive behaviour from men.. Listen you need to know these people doing it are showing themselves to be insecure and incapable of holding a proper conversation they are showing immaturity as this is childish behaviour. They are quite obviously of low intelligence and they are acting out stuff that's going on in their own lives that they are incapable of dealing with themselves. Block block block and move on.
This is something I'm passionate about as in years past I was subject to depression and suicide attempts. But I greatly studied and explored the subject for years and am involved now with a little help group.. So chins up people.. Talking is good. I would be delighted to talk to anyone. Have a wonderful day
Wise words.. We had a certain guy message a few days ago, having never conversed with him before, to say that he could get better down the farm..
You can just smell the twisted bitterness "
at that stage we would have told him to hop on His bike down to the farm.. But be prepared for rejection there too. Lol |
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"I've seen lately a good few ladies and couples on here and the status's taking insults and abusive behaviour from men.. Listen you need to know these people doing it are showing themselves to be insecure and incapable of holding a proper conversation they are showing immaturity as this is childish behaviour. They are quite obviously of low intelligence and they are acting out stuff that's going on in their own lives that they are incapable of dealing with themselves. Block block block and move on.
This is something I'm passionate about as in years past I was subject to depression and suicide attempts. But I greatly studied and explored the subject for years and am involved now with a little help group.. So chins up people.. Talking is good. I would be delighted to talk to anyone. Have a wonderful day
Wise words.. We had a certain guy message a few days ago, having never conversed with him before, to say that he could get better down the farm..
You can just smell the twisted bitterness at that stage we would have told him to hop on His bike down to the farm.. But be prepared for rejection there too. Lol"
He was given a little dose of reality, that he could not buy a ride, even down the farm.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids. 
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. |
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
Sweet fucking jesus! |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
That is beyond evil  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
Sweet baby jesus!!! 
I get annoyed when someone calls me names. The worst I got was someone trying to bl@ckmail me. I hope fab kicked him off the site and I hope you're OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
I have seen a lot of disturbing messages but that one you showed me was just shocking. |
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
thats really really sick. And to bring kids into it too is beyond the pale |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested.
Sweet baby jesus!!!
I get annoyed when someone calls me names. The worst I got was someone trying to bl@ckmail me. I hope fab kicked him off the site and I hope you're OK. "
Guys like that need to be locked away! They actually ruin it for the rest of us. I wonder if fab got rid of all the weirdos would the ratio be close to 50/50 |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested.
Sweet baby jesus!!!
I get annoyed when someone calls me names. The worst I got was someone trying to bl@ckmail me. I hope fab kicked him off the site and I hope you're OK. "
Ye I had someone do the same to me. I called his bluff and he left. But ye some of the abuse is bad. I've learnt to ignore most of it and just block and be grateful I never met them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We got a message the other morning...
"Hello, love your big boobs Daisy"
We didn't open or read the message as we were both at work, but it had been followed by another message...
"Fat stuck up cow"
So because we hadn't replied to the first message, which we hadn't read the abuse started!!
He must have been friends with, if not the same person as above, who spends time on said farm! He obviously doesn't check sent messages to see what's read. No need to block him though as he blocked us.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We got a message the other morning...
"Hello, love your big boobs Daisy"
We didn't open or read the message as we were both at work, but it had been followed by another message...
"Fat stuck up cow"
So because we hadn't replied to the first message, which we hadn't read the abuse started!!
He must have been friends with, if not the same person as above, who spends time on said farm! He obviously doesn't check sent messages to see what's read. No need to block him though as he blocked us.
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would of blocked the creep back so he couldn't unblock to send more crap when someone hurt his fragile ego |
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By *P_80Man
over a year ago
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"Lovely words OP thank you
The sad thing is most of these men insult you as they think it’s the best way to get your attention how they ever think it’s going to work I don’t know "
Somewhere along the line they took the phrase 'Women love bad boys' too literally |
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Being a single woman on here is hard sometimes because ya get so many messages ya open a message and dont reply ya get abuse ya reply to a message ya get abuse ya cant win sometimes and then there is the (normal lads) in between all them abusive messages that lose out. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting post as I had a hate message last night from someone who has returned, then this morning two of similar tone from two I have never chatted with. One was clearly a copy from the first with exact wording of two sentences from last night. One of these is from a well known fabber too .
It's not just women as others have pointed out but there are very twisted and jealous people on here from all demographics.
Maybe women get it more because there are so many more men to women on here.
I don't know what the answer is as reporting and blocking doesn't stop or deter them as they just return. I've newbies blocked, but they can wait a week and then just start again. Blocking non supporters just reduces the already small number of women even more. |
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"When we were pregnant we had a great one where someone wanted to abort the baby and fuck it. I reported it. Nothing was done and he is still here."
thats really really disgusting and totally warped |
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"When we were pregnant we had a great one where someone wanted to abort the baby and fuck it. I reported it. Nothing was done and he is still here.
That person is sick and should get help.."
Name and shame.. |
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We had suggested a ki k group for couples and girls a while ago for honest info on guys, but it didn't receive much support. It's really worrying that the guys who sent these repugnant messages are happily going about their fab business and messaging other unsuspecting people.. I know that it's not solely an issue with single males, but to be frank, it's about safety, and in that regard the girls and couples are more vulnerable, not sexist, just a fact |
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By *elle xWoman
over a year ago
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"We had suggested a ki k group for couples and girls a while ago for honest info on guys, but it didn't receive much support. It's really worrying that the guys who sent these repugnant messages are happily going about their fab business and messaging other unsuspecting people.. I know that it's not solely an issue with single males, but to be frank, it's about safety, and in that regard the girls and couples are more vulnerable, not sexist, just a fact "
Really good idea  because most of the time these men don’t get removed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow just got back home here to see all these repllys.. What some utter disgusting stuff... Always report... Don't even answer some of that stuff cause they actually want a response.. Just delete block and report.. And as some one else said. Name and shame. I may be old school and a gentleman but I'm frigin proud of it .
Don't take any negativity to Hart or dwell on it. To to us or as I said at the start talk to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was getting hounded by some lunatic setting up fake profiles using my pics then putting on them I had sti,s
I left fab, but came back on a month or so ago
And it started again
Lucky for me the friends I've made on fab over the years had my back and kept reporting the fake profiles
And people I've never chatted to also reporting them
One thing I do know is that the sane normal genuine people on fab can see through the fake profiles and that's why I'm still here
And yes I was thinking when the fake profiles were being put up, are people going to believe the fake profile
I just don't understand why people do things like that |
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Not exactly abuse but I have had one woman in particular who I met twice and would have been a regular but she became intensely jealous and stalked me to the point of setting up other profiles to chat to me and ask me about herself ( as she had verified me). Got very very weird |
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"Just this morning i had a lovely message from a guy telling me i had stds. How he would leave me dead in a hotel room. And r#pe my kids.
I had never chatted to this person other than to tell them i wasnt interested. "
Pardon my language but that's fucking insane
.when you report something like that . Do you delete the message or this gets send to admin.
Follow the user name to see how long is it going to take admin to act on this. . imagine how many messages he can send by the time something is done .
Users reported for things like that , should be automatically unable to send any messages until admin deal with it .
Not run havoc for 3 days before getting a ban
Outrageous , |
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"Got messaged this morning telling me how small my tits are no shit sherlock lol "
Small and super sexy,and very much matching your petitenes, pierced nipples , geat bum , those legs are not gym legs.
What sport are you into ?
Good taste in music too on the video with Phil Collins sounds
Next time he sends a message ask why he didn't send a picture of his small dick .
You are super hot 
And I'm in Belfast next month will be very happy to invite you for lunch to put a smile on your face
F*** the small minded hater |
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"Got messaged this morning telling me how small my tits are no shit sherlock lol "
feck all wrong with your boobs naughty. Mine are fried eggs in comparison. some fellas would want to get over themselves |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We had suggested a ki k group for couples and girls a while ago for honest info on guys, but it didn't receive much support. It's really worrying that the guys who sent these repugnant messages are happily going about their fab business and messaging other unsuspecting people.. I know that it's not solely an issue with single males, but to be frank, it's about safety, and in that regard the girls and couples are more vulnerable, not sexist, just a fact "
Absolutely excellent idea....count me in if it ever takes off |
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"Got messaged this morning telling me how small my tits are no shit sherlock lol
feck all wrong with your boobs naughty. Mine are fried eggs in comparison. some fellas would want to get over themselves"
Thank you think smaller ladies like us are meant to have smaller ones good things come in small packages  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ladies on here, should in absolutely no way stand for any derogatory comments, the same as no man here should stand for derogatory comments, this is what ruins the very fabric of this brilliant site. The more we kick this out the better this site will become. |
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"Got messaged this morning telling me how small my tits are no shit sherlock lol
feck all wrong with your boobs naughty. Mine are fried eggs in comparison. some fellas would want to get over themselves
Thank you think smaller ladies like us are meant to have smaller ones good things come in small packages "
Darn straight. Even though i would love them a little bigger so i can wear backless dresses ha ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a lot of status on here from women, and I’m sure there’s more women get shit than me and that’s terrible. But it happens to guys too. I’ve had two women go absolutely mental at me for little to know reason, and hurl whatever they can. I mean I enjoy abuse and punishment from a woman, but not in a cunty way.
We are all here for pleasure and enjoyment. People just need to understand when to stop and when yes is yes and no is no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake profiles getting your pics and numbers (yes I’ve fell for it and I’m sure plenty others do) is horrendous. Have to sit sometimes and think, so who is it has my pics? Are they doing what with my number? |
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