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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room, | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" Could it not be both  | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" You sound racist, OP. I think before you meet make an agreement. If this is once off or regular meets, first one might be on your own or 50/50 Its your choice. I pay my half. Always. Even being with friends. If I invite for a lunch or dinner - I pay in full. You must be clear, and stop complaining. You have made decision.  | |||
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"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP Culture and race are two completely different things." Exactly  | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense..  There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. | |||
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"Thanks for responses and support. I always offer to pay but don’t think I should be forced to pay for everything, one was a doctor and a lot better off than me but you live and learn. Just feel it’s kinda miserable having to ask or discuss sharing costs before meeting." Just pop on your profile...I go dutch on any hotels etc | |||
"Thanks for responses and support. I always offer to pay but don’t think I should be forced to pay for everything, one was a doctor and a lot better off than me but you live and learn. Just feel it’s kinda miserable having to ask or discuss sharing costs before meeting." It's not miserable to agree sharing costs up front.. its expected. It's not a date. | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thin Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room, " Brutas your mom is very generous | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thin Any women I have ever met on here always insist on paying half for the hotel room, Brutas your mom is very generous"  now now tom fucker | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing? Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense.. There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "That was a nasty way to treat you | |||
"This it is how it’s work on our side of the world . Man pays . Asking a lady to pay is a big ofence . Only if she offers herself to share .. but the main rule is man pays " Have to agree, rude to ask and so may man may end up paying all. | |||
"Latvia, Poland and Ukrainian " Slavic people so..i guess its a cultural thing..its a more traditional view of male female relationships..man must pay for the female to feel like a man..woman will gladly accept to feel like a lady..its ireland 40 years ago where men were dominant and women were supservient not like todays equality for all...men and women are equal in every way mantra which is total lie of course  | |||
What might be "normal" in the UK or Ireland might be a faux pas in other countries.
I was living in many European countries and always first thing when we landed there was learning about their tradition, language, savoir vivre.
Kissing a lady in a cheek twice might be sexual harassment here but its kind of showing a friendship and respect in other countries, same with kissing a lady's hand...
Be prepared, learn a lot, and always ask. It is not a harm to ask if you unsure.
At work often heard voices about this or that nationality. People judge others even not knowing them.
Do you think its fair? I dont think so.
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"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP Culture and race are two completely different things." You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race. Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. | |||
"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" We are Central European couple from Poland. We always pay for room fully, when Irish guys never offered or asked to cover a half. Well? | |||
"Iron curtain" Lack of geographic knowledge. | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" Don’t forget Dutch women too | |||
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"Ah you're being taken for a ride by them OP! Dinner and drinks. Oh, hang on. Did you actually get the ride off them? How much would that have cost if straight transaction with escort? Probably the same, so value wise, same end result. Better if she'd shared cost but, if you got huggies, what's the difference? PS I'm playing devil's advocate "Jiggies not huggies | |||
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"The OP seems like a cheap person!" I don’t think one person spending €200 on a meet and the other nothing is cheap but hey it’s all relative to what you have. | |||
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"The Donegal man pays with sterling..." is sterling change ok | |||
"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP Culture and race are two completely different things. You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race. Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. " It's more So their religious beliefs then, which could be a bit more understandable. Nothing against any religion myself, but sure there is people who have extreme beliefs even in the Catholic religion too. | |||
"Iron curtain Lack of geographic knowledge. " How so? | |||
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"I don’t believe I’m racist, would not meet if I was and enjoyed their company. I have met 3 different ladies on a number of occasions, from Eastern Europe, and they have never paid or offered to pay for anything. I have never experienced this with any Irish lady so I’m wondering is that just their way." Did u approach the subject before the meet about going halfs?? | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" You may hope those few ladies don't read the forums, or else all future chances of meets are ruined.
Sure if I am lucky enough to get a meet I wouldn't be complaining if I had to pay all or split the cost.... | |||
"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!" All from Cavan, we're they??? | |||
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"Iron curtain Lack of geographic knowledge. How so?" Central Europe: Germany, Poland, Czech, Slovakia, Hungary Eastern Europe: Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Moldova, Russia up to Ural, Georgia, Armenia, up to Caucas South-East/Balkans: ex Jugoslavia Countries, Romania, Bulgaria, Albania North: Estonia, Sweden, Norway, Danmark, Iceland South:Spain, Italy, Greece, Malta, Cyprus West:France, UK, Ireland, Belgium, Holland Regards | |||
"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same! All from Cavan, we're they??? " | |||
"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same!" It's the 5th of January. What kinda woman are you? | |||
"Iron curtain Lack of geographic knowledge. How so? Central Europe: Germany, Poland, Czech, Slovakia, Hungary Eastern Europe: Ukraine, Belarus, Lithuania, Latvia, Moldova, Russia up to Ural, Georgia, Armenia, up to Caucas South-East/Balkans: ex Jugoslavia Countries, Romania, Bulgaria, Albania North: Estonia, Sweden, Norway, Danmark, Iceland South:Spain, Italy, Greece, Malta, Cyprus West:France, UK, Ireland, Belgium, Holland Regards "I think it's a grey area and not defined by geographical location on a map. Instead, has geopolitical connotations  | |||
"I have paid for every single hotel meet this year. Now they were all Irish but I won't make a sweeping statement saying they are all the same! It's the 5th of January. What kinda woman are you? "Ah yes good point I forgot its 2020 still in holiday mode | |||
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" "Well it happens with people in every walk of life and yes it's not a date and men are just as bad , not been lucky enough to meet eastern ladies but am happy to buy dinner and discuss the hotel ha ha , A man can dream | |||
" Well it happens with people in every walk of life and yes it's not a date and men are just as bad , not been lucky enough to meet eastern ladies but am happy to buy dinner and discuss the hotel ha ha , A man can dream "flashing sounds better then voyeurism as people look at that in the wrong context | |||
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"Arrange beforehand... and dont tar all with the same brush.... "always arrange and nice to hear that " tar with the same brush its a lovely old Irish sayings  | |||
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"Well fistly swinging does cost money so if someone can't afford it they should rethink the life style. Men in most europe actualy take a pride in buying a cup of coffee or dinner for a lady. And more likely don't go there if they can't afford it. Now i am eastern european and i have been in the scene for better of over 10 year. Id like to think i seen a lot. I have no problem with finances and i can well afford to buy myself coffee drinks dinner and a place to stay. The common expectation from guys probably more in rescent 5 years is lady has to accomodate, has to have condoms and wear suspenders when himself arive in tracsuit as long as he does arive. Or even better wear suspenders for meet in a carpark. I been taken how quick the op assesed womens he met assets she is a doctor earns more than me, im sorry but i can only think how much it took for that woman to get there at least 8 years ongoing education and fees for studies you may look up how much that is and you certainly had no input in that. Obviously not counting that. In our part of europe is not given that man pays, but it would be very rear that man alows to pay simple as. And now wouldn't it be nice that at age 55 you would have a place to bring lady back and dont have to go thru all the hastle of getting a hotel and then moan about expenses. I think you been lucky to meet them.Just saying "Thank you my dear for bringing the education costs as well. If I earn more money it doesn't mean I want to sponsor every man. I think its fair to split the costs equally. And you are also right regarding the finances and accommodation. Im a single woman and have kids but it doesn't mean I want to invite strangers into my house which one is my children's sanctuary. Maybe I'm fussy but I was very careful with choosing my FwBs. They respect my decision. I was suspicious on the beginning reading OP's first post. Why he did complain about finances if: (1) he never asked a lady to share the costs, (2) with a certain age as his, he might be the owner of an own place. If he struggle to pay for a hotel, then invite ladies to your own place. I ain't here for a long time but have a female friend who is a swinger over 15 years and told me all the tricks some men and couples do... We all have our own experiences: bad and good. The important thing is staying positive and be patient
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing? Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense.. There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "Shame on those lads who didn't pay there bit Cara...miserable gits!!! Don't give up on us Irish lads hey | |||
"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP Culture and race are two completely different things. You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race. Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. " Muslim is mot a Nationality and not liking people because if their religion is so wrong you didn't learn anything after 600 years of British occupation that you don't choose which religion you are born . Being racist is easy but being a man of values and respect you will need another life for that | |||
"Lads, HOLD THE F#CK UP Culture and race are two completely different things. You are right. We are actually the same white/Caucasian race. Personally I don't like muslim people and because of that being called a racist, which is funny,as muslims can be white, yellow or black. Muslim is mot a Nationality and not liking people because if their religion is so wrong you didn't learn anything after 600 years of British occupation that you don't choose which religion you are born . Being racist is easy but being a man of values and respect you will need another life for that" Any female up for going Dutch on hotel 26 January newcastle Co Down it's for a good cause details within say hello Or aloha | |||
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"Op why not go to escort site and solve the issue? " . Or don’t meet foreigners? | |||
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"Jesus man get over it..... " | |||
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"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing? Funny you say that Im Eastern Europian and Irish guys left me with full hotel bills on numerous occassions in the past...and I share every expense.. There are women and men too I must add in every nation who if not clarified will keep quiet about sharing bills.. "mmmmm BP amazing pics fab body eastern european and pays the bills think iam in love  | |||
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"Many people here both male and female assume the other is going to pay for everything. I no longer meet for coffee as I've never been offered a cup when I did.imagine men not having the manners to offer you a drink in a coffee shop! But yet expecting some sort of a fumble in my car afterwards. Get to fuck! I no longer book hotel rooms either as I've 95 Percent of the time ended up footing the whole bill myself as inevitably the fella fucks off after getting what he came for. There are decent people out there of course I just never seem to meet them charming and all as they are online they inevitably become very unattractive for making me feel like an unpaid whore .fuk that shit ! " Maybe you should start charging then | |||
"Many people here both male and female assume the other is going to pay for everything. I no longer meet for coffee as I've never been offered a cup when I did.imagine men not having the manners to offer you a drink in a coffee shop! But yet expecting some sort of a fumble in my car afterwards. Get to fuck! I no longer book hotel rooms either as I've 95 Percent of the time ended up footing the whole bill myself as inevitably the fella fucks off after getting what he came for. There are decent people out there of course I just never seem to meet them charming and all as they are online they inevitably become very unattractive for making me feel like an unpaid whore .fuk that shit ! " Maybe it’s an English thing. I would happily pay and wouldn’t think twice about it | |||
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"Many people here both male and female assume the other is going to pay for everything. I no longer meet for coffee as I've never been offered a cup when I did.imagine men not having the manners to offer you a drink in a coffee shop! But yet expecting some sort of a fumble in my car afterwards. Get to fuck! I no longer book hotel rooms either as I've 95 Percent of the time ended up footing the whole bill myself as inevitably the fella fucks off after getting what he came for. There are decent people out there of course I just never seem to meet them charming and all as they are online they inevitably become very unattractive for making me feel like an unpaid whore .fuk that shit ! " | |||
"So why we are different folks. I'm polish and I'll never let woman to pay because I Am the man! Doesn't matter if she polish, spanish or irish, man has to be a man and that should be in my opinion in normal rules of relationship on the beginning of some stage. After few meetings ok but not on first date you ask a woman to split cost. " I agree with your words | |||
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"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol" Better be Chivalry for woman then Culchie gha haha | |||
"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol" I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills | |||
"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills " It's not about old fashion but about good manners! Maybe lads, let women open the door to you | |||
"Chivalry is alive and well it seems lol I'm old fashioned. It's about affordability too so I will always be ready to cover bills It's not about old fashion but about good manners! Maybe lads, let women open the door to you "Yes manners goes a long way in my book | |||
"I have had a few meets with Eastern European women and have never yet met one that is willing to share or pay for anything, hotel/meal/a drink. Am I just miserable or is it a cultural thing?" If you cannot afford what is good, maybe search for cheaper options, instead public complaint. Manners for girls from Eastern countries are very important so I just doubt you met too many. Eastern European is a new N-word. Not enough respect to know even the nationality, all thrown into a one bucket. I expect the difficulties even showing where that country is on a map. You had chance to learn some good gentlemen manner's from that lady, but you decided your own way. | |||
