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over a year ago
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That took a while to read fair play to her for taking the time .
I don't meet couples ,to much hard work , the way I see it swinging should be easy and fun that's just way to complicated and the reason I prefer parties and events |
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By *aidbare5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"That took a while to read fair play to her for taking the time .
I don't meet couples ,to much hard work , the way I see it swinging should be easy and fun that's just way to complicated and the reason I prefer parties and events "
I don't think you are the only one with this opinion. I wonder how many females are out there that are part of a couple but are open to playing solo with couples?
We could give then another mythical name  |
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"That took a while to read fair play to her for taking the time .
I don't meet couples ,to much hard work , the way I see it swinging should be easy and fun that's just way to complicated and the reason I prefer parties and events "
I'm not a unicorn anyway, so no point in playing with couples but I know a lot of singles, both male and female and they do tend to find couples are complicated.. So much easier when a group of singles go out together...   |
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"That took a while to read fair play to her for taking the time .
I don't meet couples ,to much hard work , the way I see it swinging should be easy and fun that's just way to complicated and the reason I prefer parties and events
I'm not a unicorn anyway, so no point in playing with couples but I know a lot of singles, both male and female and they do tend to find couples are complicated.. So much easier when a group of singles go out together... "
So much easier and so much fun  |
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Im not and never have been part of a couple swing dynamic or a unicorn (pesky penis).
But the way some couples talk about "Unicorns" would make me uncomfortable if I was a single women.
Its like a sex toy or just a box to be ticked off, like some couples attitude to single men, just with slightly more respect because they are hard to come by |
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By *aidbare5 OP Couple
over a year ago
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"Im not and never have been part of a couple swing dynamic or a unicorn (pesky penis).
But the way some couples talk about "Unicorns" would make me uncomfortable if I was a single women.
Its like a sex toy or just a box to be ticked off, like some couples attitude to single men, just with slightly more respect because they are hard to come by"
All couples are not the same. I do think that this is the general opinion that the girl becomes the play toy but we would just see it as 3 people and everyone in the dynamic is equal. Attraction has to be there for it to work. |
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"Im not and never have been part of a couple swing dynamic or a unicorn (pesky penis).
But the way some couples talk about "Unicorns" would make me uncomfortable if I was a single women.
Its like a sex toy or just a box to be ticked off, like some couples attitude to single men, just with slightly more respect because they are hard to come by
All couples are not the same. I do think that this is the general opinion that the girl becomes the play toy but we would just see it as 3 people and everyone in the dynamic is equal. Attraction has to be there for it to work. "
Ageed, which is why I said some couples  |
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Will read later but I'm sure it is very daunting for a single lady or indeed a guy to meet couples.
But from a couple who meets single ladys it can be nerve racking also.
It's all about trust, attraction and making sure all are involved and made to feel relaxed. Thankfully our few fab meets have been this. |
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I enjoy meeting singles and couples, it's difficult to find the right dynamics with a couple, there are so many other things that come into play as opposed to a single lady.
I find the single male is like a toy also, however there are so many and a small few disrespectful ones and left a lot of us painted with the same brush.
This lifestyle is hard work but can be very rewarding with the right people.
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"I enjoy meeting singles and couples, it's difficult to find the right dynamics with a couple, there are so many other things that come into play as opposed to a single lady.
I find the single male is like a toy also, however there are so many and a small few disrespectful ones and left a lot of us painted with the same brush.
This lifestyle is hard work but can be very rewarding with the right people.
Happy xmas folks"
Couples would definitely be my preferred meet but it can be intimidating.... I think you hit the nail on the head with the above.... What excites one couple might revolt another, what one husband finds sexy might offend another. There's 5 or so dynamics at play: hers, his, yours, theirs and the 3 of you together.... But when it's right, man oh man, there's nothing more satisfying!! 
Single males are indeed a toy. I lol upon my role as enacting the couples fantasy. In exhange I basically get paid, it's a pretty sweet deal!  
The only negative I've experienced couple wise is where the lady sometimes appears pressured into doing things she doesn't exactly find particularly arousing herself or when a couple feels that they can treat you poorly (cancelled meets - replacing your arranged meet with a "better offer" etc.) and still expect you to be grateful for even been giving a response.
I'm a single guy (well not anymore) but I'm not a fucking doormat. 
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We have never searched for a unicorn. We rarely use the word and certainly never to somebody who may fit that description.
We focus on having conversations and meeting likeable people. When the chemistry is there and the time and location is right, things will happen.
We would certainly like to have an mff threesome but we don't actively seek it. We have had enough conversations with single ladies to be confident it will happen when the pieces of the puzzle to fit together. We don't need to force the issue.
I think a number of women feel comfortable talking to us because they know we don't push the issue. We have had several women who put on their profile they don't meet couples tell us they would meet us without us even asking. That tells us we're doing right by them, and that's very important to us. |
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